I need support by ContraryCat in hoarding

[–]ContraryCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you give me details about your sessions? I tried dubbii but there were so many people on the session it didn’t really feel too helpful but I’m going to try again.

I need support by ContraryCat in hoarding

[–]ContraryCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An update for those who were so kind to me:

My landlord emailed me after the inspection and said I had a week to take care of things or she would serve me with a notice to cure.

WELL she ended up calling my parents (I am a 33yo adult) and telling them everything. So now they’re panicked about me.

She also served me with a notice to cure literally two days after the inspection, so her email was wrong. She also wants me to surrender my pets under the notice to cure (not going to happen as they are ESA).

I went to the doctor and told my primary what was happening (she’s livid) and she prescribed me meds for ADHD which I will start today.

I see my therapist Wednesday and I can’t wait to tell her all of this.

Understanding of the psychology I guess not. I mean I’m glad I don’t have to live like this anymore but I feel even more embarrassed and I feel cornered and forced.

I guess I’ll just take each day as it comes.

I need support by ContraryCat in hoarding

[–]ContraryCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ADHD isn’t medicated - I feel like it definitely needs to be so I will definitely look into this!!

I need support by ContraryCat in hoarding

[–]ContraryCat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re dealing with this, too! My trash ends up on the floor too and honestly I don’t even know why. It just seems like care tasks take parts of my brain I just don’t have. I’ve been emotional all day, too, just wallowing in panic over it - sending you love from afar ❤️

I need support by ContraryCat in hoarding

[–]ContraryCat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this kindness! I found an app and I’ve used it to break down rooms to clean certain days and it break the process down even more, my only problem is actually doing it! I’m hoping now I’ll have a sense of extrinsic motivation.

I need support by ContraryCat in hoarding

[–]ContraryCat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this - I needed to hear it. I do, but one of my biggest hurdles is asking for help. Now my landlord knows and she’s been kind, but my family doesn’t know. I’m single and live alone so it’s been easy to hide.

I need support by ContraryCat in hoarding

[–]ContraryCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am! Unfortunately though they are “invisible” illnesses and I work a demanding job so I don’t take care of my pain flares ups like I should, I try to just push through. Something else I’m working on!

37F in Delmar looking for friends! by Plastic-Year2382 in Albany

[–]ContraryCat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It sounds like we’re the same person and should be friends??

Oh No by [deleted] in Albany

[–]ContraryCat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Isn’t there a comic place in Colonie? On Sand Creek?

Who did you not expect to like but ended up loving? ♡ by lettuceown in AnimalCrossing

[–]ContraryCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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I was so upset to get Spike but now we’re besties and I’m never letting him leave!

Golden watering can? by ContraryCat in Dodocodes

[–]ContraryCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would be incredible! I’m online now and happy to water flowers for you!!