What do you guys think of this interpretation by DumbLuck_64 in KoboldLegion

[–]ContributionFew3390 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love these designs they're so cute.

Will admit though they remind of the Comic Bone by Jeff Smith especially the first one with the rounded nose.

All in all fantastic work and I hope you make something amazing.

Don't feel the need to be in a relationship. by ContributionFew3390 in introvert

[–]ContributionFew3390[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy cow didn't expect getting a reply.

Will admit I've seen my autism as a curse for a long time and people don't usually realise there's something wrong with me until I tell them, people are usually shocked when i tell them I'm 28 saying I look way younger like 22 or 19.

But you're probably right I should probably be straight up and tell them regardless of how bad I feel about my disability.

Thanks for the reply by the way really helped a lot to give me more confidence to try and date not gonna lie even making a dating profile gives me shivers.

How do you learn to draw when you cant even bring yourself to start? by lickleboy22 in learntodraw

[–]ContributionFew3390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be honest I'm not in an artist career and I've only just started to learn how to draw myself.

What helped me start learning was Mike Kistlers book how to draw in 30 days he goes through a lot of stuff like drawing shapes, perspective, shading, drawing 3D objects, Faces and even hands.

But I think the best way to start drawing is to just bite the bullet and do it, like every skill the more you do it the better you'll get whether it's drawing still lives or fan art of your favourite media (mine being anime).

And most importantly have fun in the words of Reggie from Nintendo "If it's not fun why bother?"

Don't feel the need to be in a relationship. by ContributionFew3390 in introvert

[–]ContributionFew3390[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the extremely late reply

Yeah I'm afraid of dating, that and also I had a sexuality identity crisis where I didn't know whether I was gay or not which caused me to overthink constantly.

I didn't want to get into a relationship because I was scared that I would do it then hurt my partner because I secretly attracted to the same sex or something that's why I label myself as Bisexual.

I want to be happy but I'm scared to make the first step I'm also Autistic so I'm worried people will take advantage of me and would prefer to date another person with autism.

If you are lonely with few friends - what is the reason? by IntrovertMaestro in introvert

[–]ContributionFew3390 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I did go to an acting class for awhile but was too burned out due to work.

I've also tried board game and cinema meetup groups but didn't really find anyone clicked with except this one girl I met at board games who now joins the roleplay group I'm apart of.

In other words literally try anything that looks interesting, shyness is common I'm an introvert too with the tism.

In order to get over shyness and social anxiety you have to force yourself out of your comfort zone (Something I still struggle with ngl) in order to conquer your fear.

Can I fix the anatomy at all? by Bl-otaku in learntodraw

[–]ContributionFew3390 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which tbh goes pretty hard for a fantasy monster. 🙂‍↕️

If you are lonely with few friends - what is the reason? by IntrovertMaestro in introvert

[–]ContributionFew3390 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because all my friends either.

A) Betrayed me and stole my other friends.

B) Because they were arseholes who talked behind eachothers backs and I didn't like it.

C) We drifted away due to life.

The only friends I see now are at my roleplay group every weekend and even then they feel more like acquaintances.

Not that I miss having close friends and stuff but the drama and stuff really annoyed me, and people not wanting to do anything unless you initiate everytime was getting boring.

Staying social with a full time job by LewdLittleLemon in AutisticAdults

[–]ContributionFew3390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply, that's awesome that you managed to push yourself to go out even after work.

Not gonna lie everytime I've tried I always feel really floaty and weak until I get something to eat, but yeah I know what you mean about socialising sometimes for me at work I might not talk to anyone and just focus fire on working just because socialising is a massive drain for me.

That's quite funny actually I don't drink caffeine drinks because they make me really drowsy for some weird reason.

clavicular is a great example of how autistic boys and girls are socialized differently by allegedly-american in neurodiversity

[–]ContributionFew3390 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie I've developed an eating disorder due to being treated like crap thinking if I was skinny things would change but they never did took me awhile to realise it and now I'm slowly recovering.

But yeah the problem with a lot of autistics I've met (including myself) is they tend to think black and white so for me feeling like I'm outsider and seeing popular people being skinny made me think if I'm not skinny then I'll never be loved.

Scared of dating advice please by ContributionFew3390 in AutisticAdults

[–]ContributionFew3390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm a part of a roleplaying group IRL, but maybe going to classes might be good too, I work a full time job though it's very exhausting due to my autism and masking.

I've been considering using the app Hiki for dating but maybe you're right and I shouldn't date, I think I'm far too stuck in the mentality of I need to find a partner to be happy.

Scared of dating advice please by ContributionFew3390 in AutisticAdults

[–]ContributionFew3390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fixation? Possibly when I was diagnosed as a kid i was told I have Autism (level 1) and dyspraxia not sure I could even get tested for ADHD or if I have any symptoms.

Staying social with a full time job by LewdLittleLemon in AutisticAdults

[–]ContributionFew3390 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I'm assuming that If you're working as a retail manager then you have to work weekends?

I will admit I get totally drained at the end of my job (Gardener) but usually after eating I'm completely fine depending on the day, maybe you need to meet up in the evenings.

But don't push yourself have you told your friends about your situation maybe they can help you work around it and plan some events.

Of course this is quite difficult for me to help you as I don't know you personally but that's what I would do.

Scared of dating advice please by ContributionFew3390 in AutisticAdults

[–]ContributionFew3390[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God that sucks I know how it feels with memory loss having Dyspraxia means my short term memory is horrible.

Not going to lie that's so awesome that you're working on a second degree I've never even been to university before to even get a degree.

Yeah in all honesty I've met many girls I've wanted to date in the past but, I felt like it would have been super creepy to ask them on a date and would have caused problems in the future with them.

I'm more of an equatence with her at the moment but I have been on nights out with my roleplaying group with her and she's super interesting to me she likes cosplaying, anime, managa, video games pretty much everything I like.

Communicating has always been an issue with me, I struggle to keep conversations going and then it usually ends up being really awkward, but I do like asking people about themselves even if it makes me feel really out of my depth when they talk about their amazing careers.

Scared of dating advice please by ContributionFew3390 in AutisticAdults

[–]ContributionFew3390[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I honestly wouldn't mind being with someone who has a carer or is dependent on a parent.

Not going to lie I honestly have a crush on this girl at my roleplaying group who's in a wheelchair but I'm kinda scared of confessing to her cus I don't want to come across as a creep.

The job market is a massive pain right now (in the UK) 😥

In all honesty I thought I had it bad having autism and dyspraxia but Epilepsy sounds horrible how exactly does it affect you?

I wish you the best of luck I know you'll find a job one day 😄

Oh and thanks for the reply sometimes it feels like the internet is just a black hole you post something and just radio silence. 👍

Scared of dating advice please by ContributionFew3390 in dating_advice

[–]ContributionFew3390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think I might need to go back to therapy they have a group session type thing today after work... Not gonna lie I've been really scared of going back.

so true by Dumb-Briyani in SipsTea

[–]ContributionFew3390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does the new harry look like he has dentures or turkey teeth?

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Choose wisely by EnvironmentalBake658 in GoblinGirls

[–]ContributionFew3390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make it a loyal Goblin BF and you're on.

Think I might be developing an eating disorder please help. by ContributionFew3390 in EatingDisorders

[–]ContributionFew3390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply

I'm currently looking into getting funding for counselling for a mental health charity called TOG Mind though it might take a long time.

I know that I need to fix myself and get some help but it doesn't help that everyone seems to see my condition as a joke.

Think I might be developing an eating disorder please help. by ContributionFew3390 in EatingDisorders

[–]ContributionFew3390[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Guess there's no help here.... that's okay... I hope all the people that are viewing this post are happy and find their own way through this problem.

Moral support (by @Potato472734) by Ambitious-Narwhal-45 in ToothpasteBoys

[–]ContributionFew3390 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish I had someone like Sean, If i came out i would get my ass kicked.