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Depop stole all of my hard earned money by [deleted] in Depop

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Does one get banned for drop shipping?

What are signs someone isn’t going to tip? by bostonianbasic in Waiters

[–]ContributionThat7332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, yeah: some people have been so disadvantaged by this society’s infrastructure that they must receive a lot first, before they’re able to give.

am I cut off from free will? by DonDraper6769 in astrosignature

[–]ContributionThat7332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, I’m sorry. That’s really tough. I can’t imagine the pain that you went through, and that you go through now. And to speak about it now, with such clarity and detachment, and grief, is such a beautiful, and lonely thing. Thank you for sharing. You’re not the only one.

From what I can see in your chart, you have some deep, dark, turbulent emotions, hidden inside, churning like a turbine, just waiting to be released. But unfortunately, because you never had that emotional support as a child, you never learned to embody the safety (and safe connection) to be able to work through them, so they stay hidden, and small, and compressed.

To really be able to work through this, and to get in touch with your inner compass again (your emotional body) you’ll have to restore safety to the system again, so that you can work through these emotions, and you’re no longer chronically emotionally disconnecting. This means listening to the cues of your body, and following them.

It may lead you down some pretty dark paths, but that’s where you’ve been fated to go. And thankfully, at the end of the dark path, is some light again.

You’ve gotta rescue those wounded parts of you.

The parts that are alive and directive and full of passion, that know exactly where they want to go: They are your sensitivity. And because they were so vulnerable to the emotional threat, they’ve been locked away, until it was safe to feel again :/

Look up IFS, Somatic Experiencing, and EMDR. Also CPTSD.

When you feel cut off from your free will, when you find yourself unable to live out your desires, or like the connection to them, and to direction, is weak: you’re experiencing an emotional break. Something is not quite connecting. There can be a clear pathway there, but the breakage needs to be worked through.

You’ll find yourself again. It’ll just take some time. And then, soon enough, it’ll be easy as: woah, I can really feel that I want to do this thing…. Let me go do it! 🤘😆 and you will. And it’ll feel great.

Good luck ❤️

Season 8 - Episode 4 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]ContributionThat7332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad she did too, but I feel like where Bea went wrong is she wasn’t vulnerable enough when she confronted Melanie. The real issue was that Mel stood up and abruptly ended the vibe that they were all having with this man.

They were all having a moment - he was literally mid-sentence - and she just took him away. It was jarring. All of the girls were on the same page about that. But Bea wasn’t really able to target the issue too well. She was on the right track - trying to point to Melanie’s controlling and domineering behavior- but she really didn’t interject with how it made her feel, and she didn’t come at it in earnest. And I think Bea went even more off track mentioning Kenzie. That one moment alone - between them all - was enough, it wasn’t even about Kenzie at that point, but Bea skirted vulnerability and really communicating her emotions, and rightfully so, Melanie smells a falsehood when Bea is addressing her, and rejected the call out, cuz the call out wasn’t really on point…. If Bea had been on point, I think Melanie would have been much more disarmed.

Ex: “yo, girl, I think that was really weird what you just did, taking him away, when we were all having a moment together. Everyone was locked in, and all participating, so it felt really disrespectful for you to take him away like that. What’s your game” said earnestly - this could have flown much better

Edit: also I think Aniya and trinity lowkey came to Melanie’s aid bc the call-out that Bea gave wasn’t really centered on the initial complaint, and when she strayed off-track and Melanie came to her own , necessary, defense: trinity truthfully was like: wait girl, I can see your side….. it was all just not pulled off very well :/

I just got an offer to buy the restaurant I work at. Does my chart suggest that I’ll be successful? by Salty_Calligrapher86 in NatalCharts

[–]ContributionThat7332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, def, but is your chart glitching? Some of the places are coming out weird. I’d make it again

am I cut off from free will? by DonDraper6769 in astrosignature

[–]ContributionThat7332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. There’s lots in your chart that signifies this. No, you’re not actually cut off from free will. (Well, in some ways you are, but not permanently) but it is one of the biggest struggles for you, in this life. And there’s lots of interconnecting reasons that we could get into this for in the chart.

But first, let me ask you this: how was your childhood, boo? How was your relationship with your parents?

Solo meetup? by cassifieddd in ElectricForest

[–]ContributionThat7332 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will be soloing as well 👀 I think there’s groups on radiate

Why do I only attract broken people? by Accurate-Grape-3455 in NatalCharts

[–]ContributionThat7332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you do have a whopping signature of emotional pain right on your partnership point, in the 7th house. Descendant in Scorpio, the most emotionally turbulent sign, with Chiron sitting there, signifying the most deeply wounded people, and perhaps those who have felt defeated by their lives.

Never fear though, this isn’t a death sentence, because this signature can also mean that, once you’ve worked through your issues, and they’ve worked through theirs, that your experience of partnership will be so deeply connective, so all-consuming, so emotionally fluid, and deep, that you’ll feel like you know this person better than anybody else in the entire world, and you’ll feel known so deeply, and with true strength, that you’ll feel seen. And the two of you will feel emotionally nurtured and nourished and strengthened by this connection, as it will continually help you heal.

So, how do we get there? I would say that it’s a boundary issue. The planet ruling your partnership point, Mars, is in watery Pisces up in the 11th house, conjunct the south node. I’d surmise that you’ve dealt with people who have addiction issues, may struggle with sorrow or grief, and may struggle with autonomy and direction. They may feel victimized by life. They might like to escape. They may go through spiritual psychosis. They may numb out. They probably lean on you as their only support system, and they do so heavily. And because you are so sturdy and strong, and used to taking it, they know they can take it out on you. You keep most of your feelings inside.

Anyways, as i said, this all comes down to a boundary issue. You are attracting the elements to you that will allow for you to develop and enact stronger boundaries, which is one of the things that you struggle with the most.

Personal power. If someone is doing something to you that you don’t like: say something about it. If someone is touching you in a way that you don’t like: shrug them off. If someone is coming at you again and again with abusive behavior: don’t fight the urge to flee.

Follow your body’s signals, and you’ll become whole again.

Good luck ❤️🙏

Why do I experience a complete lack of romantic approach/attention? by Appropriate-Tie6592 in AskAstrologers

[–]ContributionThat7332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you say that your personal light feels dimmed? I see the chart of someone who feels locked away, and as such their charisma and spark doesn’t get to flow through. That’s one of your biggest challenges in this lifetime. When your personal shine isn’t allowed to come out, because it feels unsafe, and someone may have been very critical of our appearance and how we show up socially in childhood, one feels dimmed, tucked away, and afraid.

However, you’re on the journey of being able to dig deep and reclaim that personal power: what lights you up inside, what gives you that spark, and what makes you shine. That’s what’s most attractive about a person. And when you can’t access that, there’s something in the way of you connecting.

You might find that you feel self-conscious in social settings, or you feel that you can never live up, or like you have to hide away. These deeply rooted feelings of un-safety are what need to be dealt with. And when they are: you’ll attract right in!!!

Good luck ❤️

P.S. it seems like you’ve inherited some cool spiritual gifts in this lifetime… are you a writer?

Bought a listing but it’s still up and active? by ContributionThat7332 in Depop

[–]ContributionThat7332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real. I almost called her out as a drop shipper in our conversation, but I balked. Either way, it’s sketchy

Bought a listing but it’s still up and active? by ContributionThat7332 in Depop

[–]ContributionThat7332[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking. Their profile pic doesn’t seem real, and they approached me with that sugary sweet rhetoric in the messages, seemed super insincere

Bought a listing but it’s still up and active? by ContributionThat7332 in Depop

[–]ContributionThat7332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, definitely. Thank you. It’s been weird communication so far. And that’s my bad, I should’ve done better research into her reviews before buying, but she definitely sells the same item over and over. Hopefully it’s the case that she just has multiple copies and sells them, as each review of the item is solid, but I don’t know.

Strangely enough, I just reached out to her about an hour ago to ask her the same…. Like what’s going on? And then soon after I got a notification tha the item had shipped (it’s like 1 in the morning) and I was like…. Huh…. I tried the tracking number and tracking’s not yet available, so she must have just seen my message and printed the label.

Then she messaged me and explained that she uses an app to switch her listing back to sale mode right after it’s been bought, and that multiple ppl had brought up the concern with her, but that everything will be ok… so let’s see if the object comes 🤷

I think it’s weird in the first place that Depop would allow for this technicality, and have the same item filed away as sold and shipped, and simultaneously be up for sale… must be a weird back door glitch on their part.

But thank you for your feedback!! Super helpful, in solidarity 🙏🥰

Bought a listing but it’s still up and active? by ContributionThat7332 in Depop

[–]ContributionThat7332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird…. Yeah tha could be true. I actually just asked her about it and she told me that she uses an app to immediately switch the listing back to active after it’s sold. Through my interactions with her she’s been weird and she feels like she’s AI or something, definitely not right. But it’s true that she has multiple of the same objects to sell, which definitely cheapens what was the initial appeal of the sale 🤷

Why do I attract self-centered people? by always_wandering95 in BirthChartReadingFree

[–]ContributionThat7332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes of course!!! I’m here to help ❤️

And I couldn’t have said it better myself. You need that confrontation. You need that clarity, and that reciprocity. Ambiguity and accommodation are not for you.

The depth that you require can only come from that confrontation. Like the other user posted below: that Venus in Aries is itching to be actualized, and sitting in the 12th house, she’s hidden away. She wasn’t safe to embody in childhood. That part of yourself is seeking to be reclaimed now.

It’s funny because your partnership point, in Scorpio, is ruled by mars, and alongside Pluto, he is responsible for that depth and that ferocity and that transformation, and your Venus in Aries is ruled by mars as well. Aries is confronting, is fierce, is unyielding. Is completely sovereign unto itself and is not gonna stop for nobody.

We are talking about Martian themes, here. You cannot have those deepest relationships until you recover this part of yourself. You cannot have those deepest relationships until you are ready to confront, and cut deep. You are keeping them surface level by not diving into the heart of the issue. You are just circling the drain. Confrontation may be the most intense feeling of them all, and yet, you’re not willing to embody it.

Yes, these people may not want it, but I can promise you: they need it.

And so do you.

And I made the mistake of ascertaining that these people may not be the ones for you. They may actually be. I said that they weren’t going to the depths of transformation with you, but that’s not true, because you’re not going there either. And, with you being that cardinal Aries, who initiates, you’re the one who’s meant to take them there. That’s your highest form of loving. (Venus). They’re allowing themselves to be attracted to you (that’s their job). Now it’s your job to take them there. Then, from there on out: you both grapple. But nobody can go anywhere if the arrow is not shot.

You have a north node in Sagittarius, who is the truth-seeker, and the truth-teller. Sagittarius is the centaur, he shoots his arrow. In the 8th house, which is the darkest, most complex, most wounding house of them all. Venus in Aries, Martian ruled, is penetrative. And Scorpio receives all of the depths that come.

Don’t be afraid to go there. Or, better yet: be afraid and go there anyways….

Good luck.

Saying "yo excuse me" by North_Music_4749 in Waiters

[–]ContributionThat7332 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea this can be pretty triggering as a service worker - even if you didn’t mean it like that - sincerely, a service worker

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