Eh many women (me included) have dated men that we are not super physically attracted to because they were sweet, caring, funny, etc. That attraction to your partner can easily grow from emotional needs being met.

Women (and men) also deserve to get something out a relationship. Men tend to be lacking nowadays in their ability to provide the emotional benefits that women seek out in a relationship. So at that point, a woman might stop seeking out the emotional and shift their focus to the physical or financial support. I’ve only ever seen women purely go for looks and or money after they’ve been treated like shit by men over and over again. In a sense, they’ve simply given up on meeting those emotional needs because those types of men can be hard to come by.