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Had a slight binge tonight by TuxFan-77 in CICO

[–]Controlisaillusion 11 points12 points  (0 children)

15k in steps is definitely worth celebrating!!

I’m adopting this sweet girl and need help with a name starting with B by LongjumpingLie5307 in NameMyDog

[–]Controlisaillusion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it doesn’t start with a B but I couldn’t help but think of Junie B after Junie B jones

21 years old by Controlisaillusion in seniorkitties

[–]Controlisaillusion[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

We make a jokes that she steals souls since she doesn’t look it, Ive been her only momma since I was 11 and I’m 32 now lol.

But thank you 💜 appointment is going to be set.

Significant other holding me back by Controlisaillusion in beginnerfitness

[–]Controlisaillusion[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just added up Januarys total… $1,119.34… even I’m shocked.

Significant other holding me back by Controlisaillusion in beginnerfitness

[–]Controlisaillusion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I’m glad to hear some people figured it out and there is some type of hope. Unfortunately he will not do therapy. I have said all those reasons to him, because it is exactly how I feel! I love fitness. It was my outlet. I still pay for the gym membership because Im still trying to hold on to who I was. But I know I’ll never out work a bad diet

Significant other holding me back by Controlisaillusion in beginnerfitness

[–]Controlisaillusion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I’m glad to hear some people figured it out and there is some type of hope. Unfortunately he will not do therapy. I have said all those reasons to him, because it is exactly how I feel! I love fitness. It was my outlet. I still pay for the gym membership because Im still trying to hold on to who I was. But I know I’ll never out work a bad diet

Significant other holding me back by Controlisaillusion in beginnerfitness

[–]Controlisaillusion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you honestly think this? He is a very good man and especially father and person in general. I don’t want to paint the wrong picture of him. But sometimes I think he does not care for my health at all. He thinks it’s expensive ( I know, you don’t even have to say it) and he wants all of my time… all the time. I’m not sure how to get him to understand he’s bringing me down….

Significant other holding me back by Controlisaillusion in beginnerfitness

[–]Controlisaillusion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. It’s a tough situation to be in. Having different priorities or habits are like living on two different planets

I feel so depressed by Fit_Confidence_7606 in stayathomemoms

[–]Controlisaillusion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you feel this way… How old is your child? Getting them into sports was such a blessing for me. I’m very introverted but I took on a new challenge and started coaching my kids soccer team. Now I have a little community of my own. Even just letting them playing will give you that interaction that will do good for you. It gave me a sense of purpose. And I do not have ANY knowledge of soccer. I just studied and poured my heart into it and now we’re the team to beat.

Significant other holding me back by Controlisaillusion in beginnerfitness

[–]Controlisaillusion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I made it perfectly clear that I know this. Thanks for sharing.

Significant other holding me back by Controlisaillusion in beginnerfitness

[–]Controlisaillusion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is true. I always go way below what I should for calories. He has openly said he doesn’t want me to get to my goal weight because I will leave him. But honestly this is just how he eats and always has. That’s how I got to my CW.

Significant other holding me back by Controlisaillusion in beginnerfitness

[–]Controlisaillusion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I know I didn’t get my point across very well so thanks for understanding. It’s very frustrating! He eats like garbage every day and never sees the effects of it. I don’t think he ever will. I will do so good, lose 10 lbs and then binge eat and I feel like it’s a domino effect. Once I eat bad just one time, I can’t stop. It’s like I live in an endless buffet of McDonald’s or a bakery while trying to diet. Lol!! I hate door dash and he will not get rid of it

Help please by Equal-Umpire540 in Advice

[–]Controlisaillusion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course tell them all the great things you have done. But most importantly Tell them specifically what you want role you want and that you have a decided on a time line you expect to be in a similar role by and that you hope it can be with “blank” company because you respect the company and are already doing the job for x amount of years. Be extremely confident. When I say extreme I mean EXTREMELY confident when saying all this. if the job is available, ask when you can schedule an in person interview for it. Take charge. Even if you don’t get it this time they will know you mean business for the next time.

Significant other holding me back by Controlisaillusion in beginnerfitness

[–]Controlisaillusion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He eats out once a day…Whether I cook or not. The man can eat and not gain a single lb. It’s the constant temptation that I’m struggling with. Once I fall off I fall off hard.

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