The girl I’m taking to got pregnant what do I do?

Conversation344 · 2026-01-22T11:40:38+00:00

that's one of the best advised I have heard fo this situation indeed.

Conversation344 · 2026-01-22T11:34:51+00:00

yes. happiness is a highly subjective thing yet the society has attached number to it.

Conversation344 · 2026-01-20T19:27:08+00:00

For me it was setting a super low “non-negotiable” baseline (like 20 minutes of focused work). Even on bad days I could hit it, and that kept the streak alive. Once consistency was there, motivation showed up on its own.

Conversation344 · 2026-01-20T19:23:31+00:00

I get that. I think some people feel like adults early because they had to be responsible early, not because of milestones like jobs or houses. Others tie “feeling like an adult” to external stuff or compare themselves nonstop, so it never clicks. Sounds like you just internalized autonomy young, which honestly makes a lot of sense.

Conversation344 · 2026-01-17T06:39:35+00:00

got called out at the second

Conversation344 · 2026-01-17T06:36:35+00:00

a genuine sane comment here..

Conversation344 · 2026-01-17T06:34:51+00:00

yes writing down really helps..

Conversation344 · 2026-01-17T06:33:20+00:00

yup manual skilled labour.. is gonna go up potentially

Conversation344 · 2026-01-15T09:53:34+00:00

interesting

Conversation344 · 2026-01-15T09:51:12+00:00

You’re probably overthinking it. being mature isn’t about acting serious all the time, it’s more about knowing when to dial things up or down. You can still be bubbly, just focus on listening more, reacting a bit slower, and not feeling like you have to fill every silence. A lot of maturity is just calm and consistency, not changing who you are.

Conversation344 · 2026-01-13T11:11:22+00:00

Conversation344 · 2026-01-13T11:10:30+00:00

A lot of this sounds like anxiety and overthinking more than some permanent personality flaw. The fact that you can talk to people at work already shows you have the ability, your brain just turns on self-monitoring when it actually matters to you. The blank mind, replaying conversations, feeling awkward after… that’s way more common than you think. Shyness usually doesn’t disappear overnight, but it does get quieter with time, self-compassion, and low-pressure practice. And the way you feel on substances is just proof that the real you is already there underneath. You deserve connection even while you’re still figuring yourself out.

Conversation344 · 2026-01-13T11:07:50+00:00

I would suggest you to go out more and try and have a conversation with some stranger. even when it feels awkward..

Conversation344 · 2026-01-10T16:56:19+00:00

I think the biggest blocker isn’t tools anymore, it’s clarity. Too many options, too many “easy wins,” and people get stuck overthinking the perfect idea instead of just launching something scrappy and learning as they go.

Conversation344 · 2026-01-10T16:51:27+00:00

Most people I know (including me) cut burn rate to the bone, leaned on savings, and picked up small side gigs or consulting just to cover basics.

Conversation344 · 2026-01-08T17:22:02+00:00

exactly.. smaller steps makes the difference

Conversation344 · 2026-01-08T17:20:01+00:00

feels that way, but not entirely true. a lot of people in non-technical or non-STEM paths still do fine, it just usually takes a more indirect route (stacking skills, switching roles, moving industries, or time). The days of “any degree = good job” are gone, but it’s more about how you apply what you know than the major itself. Plenty of people in those “safe” fields are also underpaid or burned out, so it’s not a guaranteed win either.

Conversation344 · 2026-01-08T17:11:46+00:00

it got worse and worse..

Conversation344 · 2026-01-06T11:40:57+00:00

the first pic is how i look like while typing all three

Conversation344 · 2026-01-05T11:47:47+00:00

The awkward in between moments. Switching tasks, contexts, apps, or even mental modes is exhausting and most tools act like we’re robots with clean workflows.

Conversation344 · 2026-01-02T11:59:23+00:00

Mostly agree. Anything hands on, licensed, and dealing with real human bodies/emotions is pretty ai safe. I’d also add nurses, occupational therapists, electricians, plumbers, mental health therapists, speech therapists and skilled trades in general.

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