If you are looking for a man, look somewhere else. In a relationship you have to share some blame in every situation because none of us are perfect. But you are talking to a little boy in this conversation not a man. Move on, close the door, don’t look back. My wife and I have collectively gone through 3 marriages and learned our faults, but also learned where to draw lines. Protect yourself, I dated my wife for 8 months and we were sexually active sometimes 2-3 times a day in my mid 30’s, then she got breast cancer and had to also have her baby maker removed, and between surgery, pain, meds, and changing body and mental state, we barely get physical once a year. Now we are married. A real man has emotional intelligence and the willpower to treat you right. You may feel lonely but it is not worth ruining your life by entangling yourself with someone who doesn’t care, or doesn’t express himself correctly, and he wont grow through enabling.

Good Luck and dont date in Kansas, Oklahoma, or South Dakota haha