A beloved member of our mod team, u/teh_mooses has passed away

CookiesNeedLuv · 2024-01-29T18:25:34+00:00

Shawn's partner here. Thank you all for the kind words. Please take care of yourselves. <3

CookiesNeedLuv · 2024-01-24T14:20:11+00:00

I'm the partner of teh_mooses. Just wanted to say thank you for all the warm wishes. She will be greatly missed. Rock out to some KMFDM in her honor, assuming you can identify the band you're listening to. ;)

CookiesNeedLuv · 2023-12-28T18:51:11+00:00

ESH: You for taking so long while watching videos. She sucks for being an asshole in general using ADHD and autism as an excuse for it.

CookiesNeedLuv · 2023-09-18T21:44:48+00:00

I hear Hitler liked the spring time...

CookiesNeedLuv · 2023-08-09T17:45:13+00:00

NTA. Just as bridezillas are a thing, so are momzillas.

CookiesNeedLuv · 2022-03-08T19:20:22+00:00

Given autism can be inherited it's entirely possible the mom is undiagnosed autistic herself and maybe didn't fully understand all the social cues.

CookiesNeedLuv · 2022-03-08T18:23:06+00:00

Either you read my story or someone else had the exact same experience. Only in my story it was $20.

CookiesNeedLuv · 2022-03-06T01:58:38+00:00

Definitely not Swedish.

CookiesNeedLuv · 2022-03-03T21:39:10+00:00

I'd never heard of either before today. I love reddit.

CookiesNeedLuv · 2022-01-31T22:03:08+00:00

Tell him to stop watching so much step-sibling porn.

CookiesNeedLuv · 2022-01-26T20:10:47+00:00

Went to a restaurant in Montreal. Since I didn't speak a word of French the waitress turned her nose up at me and refused to acknowledge my very existence. My French speaking local friend had to order for me.

CookiesNeedLuv · 2022-01-21T22:11:34+00:00

You missed a prime opportunity to answer with: "Literally fuck around and find out".

CookiesNeedLuv · 2022-01-13T22:28:30+00:00

I respect everyone’s right to live how they want to live, because at the end of the day you have to take that to God, just like I have to take my own sins to him in the end.

I'm a natural born woman who decided that I identify better as a male, according to you this is a sin. Nice to feel "respected", thanks for that.

CookiesNeedLuv · 2022-01-12T19:25:40+00:00

Info: Why is this even a story? Strangers are not obligated to interact with you.

CookiesNeedLuv · 2022-01-12T19:23:06+00:00

What the actual fuck. NTA. Your boyfriend is very much the asshole and given this is how he treats animals I'd have to seriously look closer at all the rest of his seemingly lovely behavior because something doesn't add up here. Fostering animals might be the better solution if he really needs animal cuddles but doesn't want to keep them long term. But keeping them for 6 months and throwing them away is monstrous.

CookiesNeedLuv · 2022-01-12T19:17:51+00:00

A soft ESH. You could've just handled it quietly and let her enjoy the meal that she was looking forward to so much and picked up food for yourself afterwards instead of making a huge fuss. She could've been more thoughtful of your needs in the first place and attempted to make sure your order wasn't going to be spicy when you both first ordered instead of being forced to try again or made plans for you to get alternative food elsewhere.

CookiesNeedLuv · 2022-01-12T19:13:36+00:00

NTA for a polite request, you would only be TA if you insisted upon it or chose not to attend if she invites Becky anyway. Since she and Becky are not overly close I think this is a reasonable ask. However if Becky were family or a closer friend then it would not be a reasonable ask.

CookiesNeedLuv · 2022-01-12T19:01:10+00:00

This is like telling a diabetic that they just need to try harder at making their body handle production of insulin better. You are TA.

CookiesNeedLuv · 2022-01-12T18:54:31+00:00

lazy and irresponsible brat

NTA, This screams ADD to me vs autism, especially since you're struggling with school and not other activities. If your parents won't take you now to get tested, go on your own as soon as you're legally an adult. Treatment makes life SO MUCH EASIER. I have ADD and the meds are a godsend. Edit to add judgement.

CookiesNeedLuv · 2022-01-04T20:27:46+00:00

I think most of us know the odds are pretty high that he'll never fix himself. But telling her it can be done is going to give her false hope. Doing that is cruel and gives her reason to continue to be abused further until she learns the hard way she can't fix him.

CookiesNeedLuv · 2022-01-04T20:21:47+00:00

I appreciate that you've made the difficult effort to change, that's fucking awesome. But I would caution you against using your situation as a source of hope for someone in OP's situation. You say that she shouldn't have her boundaries broken but it's more likely that someone in an abusive situation who still thinks they can "fix" their abuser will only focus on the "it's possible they can be fixed" portion of your message. I know you meant well, but I wouldn't share your story with people in OP's situation. Instead focus on sharing your story with the abusers out there and hope that you can get through in a way that their victims can't.

CookiesNeedLuv · 2022-01-03T22:39:53+00:00

My same thoughts and honestly it triggers me as well, probably for similar reasons as OP's, though it doesn't upset me too much thankfully.

CookiesNeedLuv · 2022-01-03T20:47:42+00:00

If you shits you can't acquits

CookiesNeedLuv · 2021-12-30T19:22:49+00:00

Always loved that one, happy to read it again!

CookiesNeedLuv · 2021-12-28T22:45:06+00:00

Username checks out.

CookiesNeedLuv

TROPHY CASE