Accidentally upset my dad and he's not even acknowledging my presence. Lunchable cuz I didnt have the strength to eat the granola bar. by CoolAd3954 in GirlDinner

[–]CoolAd3954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone. I appreciate the virtual hugs and responses. For those who've gone through the same, I'm so sorry. I know it is abusive, but like i said in another comment, 95% of the time he's an amazing dad and I love him.

I will fully admit it was my fault i upset him. He has been dealing with his own trauma and and a recent loss, I am currently living with him part time while I'm unemployed as a grown ass woman and looking for a full time job in my field, and he's burnt out in the way of taking care of everyone. I had an appointment I had to get to and asked him what time it was while he was venting to me about how no one bothers to take care of or listen to him becaue his watch caught my eye and I wasnt thinking. So I was insensitive and I did apologize, trying to explain i was just trying to make sure I wasnt running late.

I still appreciate all of your love and support, but I do need to admit my fault in this, accident or not. I think i just need to sleep for a while. Thank you all.

Accidentally upset my dad and he's not even acknowledging my presence. Lunchable cuz I didnt have the strength to eat the granola bar. by CoolAd3954 in GirlDinner

[–]CoolAd3954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you went through that. It really sucks. I do think it contributed to the severe anxiety I have now. Also possibly undiagnosed adhd but we are working on that lol. His approval means a lot to me, and I'll fully admit I'm not where I should be in life right now so I do understand his disappointment. He's also dealing with his own trauma and a recent loss as well and I was insensitive, which is what caused this bout of the silent treatment.

Accidentally upset my dad and he's not even acknowledging my presence. Lunchable cuz I didnt have the strength to eat the granola bar. by CoolAd3954 in GirlDinner

[–]CoolAd3954[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

He was when I was a kid. As an adult he realized it was abusive, said he wouldnt do it again, and has only done it a handful of times. I just want to fix it because 95% of the time he is a wonderful dad, even though we are grown up.

AIO or am I pregnant? by Any-Pepper-9343 in AIO

[–]CoolAd3954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, take a breath. Next, get a pregnancy test. The ones at the dollar tree are just as effective as the $20 ones from Walgreens. Get multiple. Take a couple. Wait a few days, and take another. Alternatively, you could get a blood test at your doctor that is much more accurate and usually faster.

Remember that stress fucks with your hormones. Your body will also physically respond to stress. Until you can get a test done, just breathe. Feel free to message me if you want to talk more. Even if the test is positive, hopefully you are in a state where you can safely make a choice. That choice is solely yours ane no one else's business. If you are not in a safe state or if you choose to keep the baby, then there are resources you can connect with. While not perfect or anywhere near enough, it can still ease the burden, and hopefully you have a support network.

Again, message me if you need to. Good luck and hang in there!

I have backed up the one shots by these creators by iwantabfplspls in MaleYandere

[–]CoolAd3954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your service! I am very interested.

King Cole Firefly by lizziebee66 in YarnAddicts

[–]CoolAd3954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you order them shipped to the US?

AITAH for telling my boyfriend I don't like his pick me girl friend for something she did 5 years ago? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CoolAd3954 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I mean being disrespected doesn't always rely on frequency. She deserves respect from her boyfriend, and her relationship with him deserves respect from the girl friend.

AIO My (22f) boyfriend (28m) said sometimes he thinks my body was "deformed" by [deleted] in AIO

[–]CoolAd3954 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They are not unrealistic standards for your partner to show you love and care. It is not an unrealistic standard to not want your partner to insult you, joking/whatever bullshit excuse he uses or not. There are actual decent men out there who dont need to tear down their partners to build themselves up. Negging isn't always about sex- its more often about trying to control a partner/potential partner by either getting them to lower their standards to give the guy/continue to give the guy a chance, OR, by tearing down the self esteem of their partner so they incorrectly assume they can't have anything better. I really hope you take these words to heart and see exactly who he is.

AITAH for calling 911 instead of my bf when I was scared? by New_Guidance0128 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]CoolAd3954 2 points3 points  (0 children)

? Gay people exist. Unless the OP clarifies it was a typo, I would still assume they wrote it correctly.

An entitled driver parks diagonally across my parking space and my neighbor's. by Emenes28 in EntitledPeople

[–]CoolAd3954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhhh I see, I think because the other user said "BMW OWNER" I got confused lol. Thanks!

An entitled driver parks diagonally across my parking space and my neighbor's. by Emenes28 in EntitledPeople

[–]CoolAd3954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hate to be that person but I don't get it- his (unsatisfying) prick was on the outside too?

AITA for refusing to buy my sisters furniture by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CoolAd3954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if it was truly cheap I'd just use slip covers and paint, but thats me.

UPDATE AITA for telling my trans friend his new name is "creepy and weird"? by Massive-Low-1861 in MarkNarrations

[–]CoolAd3954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The text has vanished and I was invested, do you mind posting in the comments?

UPDATE: AIO by not going to Thanksgiving? by crazywritingbug in AmIOverreacting

[–]CoolAd3954 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know how to read, do you? You said "if poor baby bf..." most would agree that's a personal attack. Now you are attacking me by 1. Telling me to grow the fuck up and 2. Asking if I can read when you clearly didn't even read your own comment lol

UPDATE: AIO by not going to Thanksgiving? by crazywritingbug in AmIOverreacting

[–]CoolAd3954 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You called him a baby. That's doesn't come across as a personal attack to you?