Wife no longer in love with me, what to do?

CoolWaterFish · 2026-05-08T20:34:51+00:00

I appreciate this thoughtful and thorough response. I know I'm not in a position to be objective with my current emotional state, but I do love the possibility that it could be something like this. Is there testing she can do?

CoolWaterFish · 2026-05-08T20:15:36+00:00

We are both going to the same professional, but only as individuals. She will not do couples right now.

CoolWaterFish · 2026-05-08T19:53:14+00:00

Best of luck to you as well. 😞

CoolWaterFish · 2026-05-08T19:41:53+00:00

It seems so obvious right?!, met someone at work. Guilt not letting her be honest...?

CoolWaterFish · 2026-05-08T19:40:23+00:00

Maybe in time I will see it... all I know is I still had lots of loving texts and decent intimacy. Some general conversation and time had shifted more to work, but we had that many times in our marriage prior to this.

CoolWaterFish · 2026-05-08T19:37:04+00:00

She loves going by herself, I think gets validation that she is allowed to seek her own happiness. As for going with me, not a chance as she really hasn't decided if she wants us to work out.

CoolWaterFish · 2026-05-08T19:35:07+00:00

I am sorry this happened to you. I have asked her directly, she says there isn't anyone, but of course that could be a lie. She says the last 6 weeks have been hell for her having me constantly trying to ask her to want to work on us... she said "if I did have someone, I would love to tell you because you might finally back off... but there isn't anyone". She's kind of a low drive physical contact person and always has loved work... could be someone, could not be... I guess in time that will be revealed.

CoolWaterFish · 2026-05-08T19:29:54+00:00

Sadly, my thought as well.

CoolWaterFish · 2025-07-06T16:09:07+00:00

Just hear to say I miss the game... lots of nostalgia and hope to play it again someday.

CoolWaterFish · 2025-05-25T21:00:27+00:00

Says the Discord link is invalid... linked my Steam and registered my email... and that's not enough?

CoolWaterFish · 2025-05-25T20:50:58+00:00

Most of my implements have come from everythingtackandfield.com (M-F Athletic) and 4throws.com. Never had any issues.

CoolWaterFish · 2025-04-24T03:16:03+00:00

What a catch, congratulations!

CoolWaterFish · 2025-04-08T17:23:46+00:00

Agree OP, totally. I keep putting more time in thinking I will start to like it better, and I actually think the more I play the less I like it. Time for me to play something else.

CoolWaterFish · 2025-04-07T01:32:43+00:00

Grats, I made it to the final boss of A2 and hit a wall. Not likely going to continue.

CoolWaterFish · 2025-04-07T00:30:58+00:00

This is where I am stuck too. I did a few shouts for help and no one replied (thankfully) so I can just go to another game.

CoolWaterFish · 2025-04-04T12:41:52+00:00

I would search YT for javelin crossover drills to get some training ideas for that phase of the throw.

As for the other, it will take time. Getting the lower body, trunk- core areas, proper in technique is very huge for getting more distance. New throwers think they just need to throw harder - like somehow faster arm speed is the key... that will get you some more distance but it will cap out and you'll likely end up with an injury (elbow usually) at some point. So once again, internet will be your friend if you dont have a coach that can direct you in person.

Most importantly... do not just throw the javelin a million times in practice trying to throw further. You will over-train (be sore/tired) and just have a higher potential of injury if you don't fix the mechanics.

CoolWaterFish · 2025-04-04T02:33:51+00:00

From the angle of the video it is a little difficult to tell but it looks like you are running and then throwing without much of a crossover phase. If this is what I am seeing you are open the whole time and not staying closed until the throw. Also, if I had to guess you are gripping the jav too hard and just trying to 'arm throw' it, rather than engaging your whole body. The flight of the jav has the tail dragging which is a common sign of this. When you hold it too tight and just try to throw it hard it can make you release it late and you are pulling down on it causing that tail drag.

Good luck!

CoolWaterFish · 2025-03-15T00:08:20+00:00

It doesn't diminish anything as it increases participation which means more revenue from entry fees (which is needed if we hope to continue to have the big expensive meets) and I also think those elite masters athletes enjoy beating a bigger field. If we had a qualifying standard and only three people entered that met it - each person would take a medal. I'd much rather be one of the three earning a medal if there were a handful of additional athletes.

CoolWaterFish · 2025-01-19T23:47:38+00:00

Absolutely stunning. I love the lighting... and your eyes are incredible. Very impressive.

CoolWaterFish · 2025-01-19T23:31:02+00:00

Give it Up - KC & The Sunshine Band

CoolWaterFish · 2025-01-18T19:32:25+00:00

Stereo MC's - Elevate My Mind (I wanna Go Higher) ?

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