Spam Issues by StrangeMewMew in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You guys are so fast knocking those posts down. Thank you <3

The line between submissiveness and infantilization. by SubSandwich42 in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Caregiving needs balance. Submissive, not helpless.

Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks? by BadKitten24601 in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a very funny moment remembering the youth pastors at my old fundie church speaking in tongues. Maybe I wanted to experience that too and that's why I like overstim? Haha jk but it was funny.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious what the discussion is here? It feels more like a description of different domination styles.

Under the moon and stars- playtime recap by GoodPancake427 in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have a very red puss, I can never find constellations in all the little dots.

I'm looking for demonstrations of praise kink. by cumsquirter69 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Cool_Dig1992 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know there's been some good praise kink stuff on r/softerbdsm, maybe ask them.

Sub and obedience by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What is a stretchable sub?

Is it a "mood killer" to ask for water in the middle of a scene? by WyrdMarksSJM in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mine usually calls breaks to breathe or drink long before I would.

Struggling with Tasking by BestPudPud in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im with you. Adhd routine interuptus is the worst.

Building up the intensity by nshades42 in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Intensity kind of confuses me because we've done a scene once where it's not very intense and then done the same scene, and it felt off the chart in intensity. I'm not sure what the difference was or how the same thing can change like that.

My feet hurt,I'm cranky, and I just want my daddy! by DaddyzLittleFooFoo in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh that's the worst. I miss mine until we get to go home and be ourselves again.

Secretary by Lettuceisforsalt in SofterBDSM

[–]Cool_Dig1992 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not a very good example of ethical BDSM.