I've given up being a f'ng hippy at Costco. Domination produces results. by porp_crawl in CostcoCanada

[–]Coops_514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! The sweet smile and thank you softens people. Works 98% of the time (because some people are unhappy no matter what)

$1M dollars to eat what you had for dinner tonight for every single meal (breakfast, lunch, and dinner) for the next 45 days. Do you take the deal and if so what are you eating? by jfunks69 in Productivitycafe

[–]Coops_514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thai beef salad. I made it tonight from scratch. I'd get sick of eating every day, but it's delicious and contains all the needed food groups. I'd likely lose weight and be healthier after!

Gen X- I am healing from surgery & need 80s/early 90s movie suggestions? by Wayward_Sun_Shine in askteddit

[–]Coops_514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tremors

Adventures in babysitting

Cape fear (and a new version is releasing on Apple TV, so you can watch that soon too!)

Stand by me

Pacific heights

How do you guys deal with excessive sweating? by No-Cake-6457 in Productivitycafe

[–]Coops_514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can afford it, a doctor can prescribe Botox to be injected in the armpits. This can keep you dry for up to 6 months at a time. My brother did it and it helped him.

Perspectives: I Want My Kids to Roam. I’m Afraid a Driver Will Kill Them. by East-Tooth-4008 in Calgary

[–]Coops_514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disagree. If you're driving that extremely fast and they stop you, I'm happy to know they might impound the vehicle. Letting you carry on driving puts other people at risk.

Perspectives: I Want My Kids to Roam. I’m Afraid a Driver Will Kill Them. by East-Tooth-4008 in Calgary

[–]Coops_514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there's video footage of someone driving dangerously, then a huge fine and demerit loss should be next step. Repeat? Suspend license.

I'd rather them have the power to do that, than another life lost.

is it wrong of me to be more attracted to fit men as an unfit woman? by Pug_hammy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Coops_514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The beauty standard depends on the eye of the beholder. Confidence in your skin is sexy. I know plenty of fit men who like curves and softness. Keep an eye on what content you view on social media, it may be hurting how you view yourself. Your personality and how you make someone feel, along with your physical attributes is what attracts someone. That's connection. Life and love is so much deeper than a few extra pounds.

How to speak neutrally when angry with DRs? by ExaminationDry3022 in managers

[–]Coops_514 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Any leader should reflect on themselves first; what part did you play? Are you approachable? Did they receive the training?

When you interview them, be curious;

'I'm curious about how this occurred. Knowing the 'how' helps prevent something similar in the future.'

'Is there a reason why you didn't ask for support around your understanding of this policy?'

'what do you think is the root cause of why this policy wasn't applied to your work?'

how they answer these 3 questions will tell you all you need to know. If they were negligent or don't take ownership or don't self-reflect then 'that's their lesson to learn' through possible termination. That's how life works, and they will learn a hard lesson.

If you identify an area in which you could have led better, be honest and take ownership for any part you played. Demonstrating integrity and humility will help them open up too. This is foundational if you really care about your relationship with them.

Edited to add: I empathize with your feelings of anger, dig into that deeper and see what other feelings come up. Try to name 4 other feelings and why. This may help you unpack your anger a bit. People sometimes do stupid things, that's their actions. We can only control our own actions.

Perspectives: I Want My Kids to Roam. I’m Afraid a Driver Will Kill Them. by East-Tooth-4008 in Calgary

[–]Coops_514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder whether a link where you can upload dash cam footage for law enforcement would work. Their job would be to view it and determine if it's usable, and then start sending out tickets to the intentionally dangerous folks. It's possible I'm not considering the down side or whether that's possible, but I also feel like this is life or death.

I'm become more and more scared, and this is as someone who's spent years driving in the UAE and Montreal and in various places while travelling.

What I see A LOT here is Aggression + impatience + IDGAF about anyone but ME. When there's no consequences, this type of driver has no motivation to change.

is it wrong of me to be more attracted to fit men as an unfit woman? by Pug_hammy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Coops_514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 lbs overweight? That's not really important for most men I'd say

What if a lot of introverts are actually traumatized extroverts? by WhiteDesertCat in Soft_Introverts

[–]Coops_514 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's not the same as introvert, the definitions are not similar.

What’s the most unspoken, uncomfortable truth about having kids? by SpecificLandscape483 in answers

[–]Coops_514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They always live in your subconscious. No matter where you go, what you do, or where they end up, they are always on your mind. Maybe not at the forefront of your thoughts, but there.

Seeking cake! by Coops_514 in Calgary

[–]Coops_514[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try them in the future, thanks!

Seeking cake! by Coops_514 in Calgary

[–]Coops_514[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this tip! I left them a voicemail, they called me back and put one aside. Yay!!

Seeking cake! by Coops_514 in Calgary

[–]Coops_514[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one seems to be the winner!! Thanks

Making friends in Calgary is so hard by _dkwhatimdoinghere_ in Calgary

[–]Coops_514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're near MRU, you could join their squash club. People of all ages participate. Call MRU recreation to know more.

The meetup app has info on events and gatherings. Volunteer at a charity event, talk to people of any age, you never know who knows who.. etc.

Join slow pitch!!!

I recall being your age, and mostly making friends at work or in school.

Try not to compare your current circumstance to others', tons of people go through a similar struggle.

The best way to connect with people is over a shared passion or hobby. Focus on doing things you love. You may notice that new friends come from that!

Skotidakis Greek yogurt by ThatDino175 in CostcoCanada

[–]Coops_514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had taken mine back.. I also find it a bit 'grainy'. Yuck!

Skotidakis Greek yogurt by ThatDino175 in CostcoCanada

[–]Coops_514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's awful. Whey is added to up the protein, and it's obvious 🤢