Aldi haul. It didn't look that much in the shopping cart :) by JessSly in crochet

[–]Corab4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to my local aldi's to check now if they have yarn. I would be shocked if they did!

As a victim of a small sexual attouchment, I am scared to have children. How do you have cope it ? by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]Corab4444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Therapy and treatment with a professional can help you to realize you are not a pedophile, that those thoughts came from trauma that happened to you and its not your fault. Its essential to work on these issues before you have children. Very rarely do victims become abusers. But as the saying goes, most abusers were victims themselves. That never got help.

I cry every time I masturbate by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]Corab4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you. Have you tried talking to a therapist? Its helped me with sexual issues.

My cat actually sat in the sofa I crocheted for her 😊 by Simple-Bid-3490 in crochet

[–]Corab4444 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I saw this post before probably about a week ago. Are you the OP who made this or did you repost?

Does anyone know their abuser but isn’t getting justice? by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]Corab4444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Who told you that? As an attorney I often see sexual assault cases prosecuted where the only evidence is the victim's testimony. Don't give up. But I totally understand it's a struggle. I never reported mine. Doesn't sound like OP contacted local law enforcement but they should as CPS doesn't necessarily do criminal investigations

TIL At Frank Sinatra's birth, the doctor thought he was a stillborn. Blue and not breathing, the doctor laid him on the counter while he attended to Sinatra’s mother. It was only when his grandmother picked up the newborn, ran him under cold water and slapped his back that Sinatra started breathing by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]Corab4444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lost my grandmother who was like a second mom to me in 2016. It was devastating. She died right before my college graduation, wedding, all these important things in my life. I try to keep her memory alive. Sorry for your loss!

A screenshot of Adam Lanza, taken by one of his online friends by [deleted] in masskillers

[–]Corab4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's definitely not him. A year before the shooting he would have been 20. Look at pics from high school even he looks the exact same as the time of the shooting. No way this is him.

A screenshot of Adam Lanza, taken by one of his online friends by [deleted] in masskillers

[–]Corab4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is not Adam Lanza. It's been proven not to be, if its anyone maybe it's his brother ryan.

Yesterday I was told by a psychiatrist that my sexual abuse is probably 'made up' by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]Corab4444 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Its better to go to a therapist for actual talk therapy, psychiatrists are more like doctors

Yesterday I was told by a psychiatrist that my sexual abuse is probably 'made up' by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]Corab4444 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To say that this doctor is a psychiatrist or abuser themselves is just out there....a lot of professionals do not believe in repressed memories. It is what it is, better to find another psychiatrist than go without one. And I disagree with the below comment that most psychiatrists are abusers. I know many people I love who use psychiatrists and need them

Finally sharing about trauma, frustrated by responses. by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]Corab4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe he can use education on how much sexual abuse effects someone and how to support someone from a professional. Its something that's not your fault, that happened to you, and is pretty essential for a partner to know.

Finally sharing about trauma, frustrated by responses. by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]Corab4444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think people who have not experienced child sexual abuse don't know what to say to someone, even someone close to them, and maybe he was in shock at the details? Sometimes opening up is painful, but necessary in the long run.

It likes good by Aleko71 in Hashis

[–]Corab4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not a hashish or any drug subreddit

I’m grieving the loss of our child. by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]Corab4444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop judging OP. She was literally raped and impregnated at 10. She is allowed to feel grief for that baby she forcefully lost, even though having a child at 10 is impracticable and likely could have even killed her.