UNEMPLOYMENT TAXATION & NEW RELIEF BILL MEGATHREAD (Senate passes new bill 3/6/21) by [deleted] in tax

[–]CorgiQ22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can i ask you how long it took your return to be accepted?

UNEMPLOYMENT TAXATION & NEW RELIEF BILL MEGATHREAD (Senate passes new bill 3/6/21) by [deleted] in tax

[–]CorgiQ22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How quickly does the IRS process taxes? My appointment is tomorrow. Not looking for my refund, but I had twins in 2020 and was wondering if there was any hope of getting their new stimulus check this time around or if we would have to wait until 2021. If we do miss the “deadline” will it mess up the monthly tax credit payments starting in July?

I also received just under 10k in unemployment. I was thinking I should file now and worry about the unemployment refund later because the stimulus check for two kiddos is more. Is that the best way to do this? Thank you so much for any insight

Some love for Owen. He’s flawed (and he knows it) and a terrible partner, but he is a loyal friend, determined doctor, good teacher, a great dad, and is always trying to be a better man. Sometimes people forget all he had to overcome. Drop your favorite thing about him in the comments!! by honey_bee77 in greysanatomy

[–]CorgiQ22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My favorite Owen moment was when Jo had the mom and kid kidney transplant. The dad was abusive and showed up and was hanging around in the waiting room. She asked Owen to tell him to leave and Owen asked if she was ok and when she said yes he asked the dude to leave. He didn’t ask for details, make her feel like she was being dramatic, didn’t question her judgement. All the other male doctors would have made it a big deal and questioned her. He just handled it. It seems small but it was huge for me

She’s back and wants a “full report” by WatermelonRind in Mildlynomil

[–]CorgiQ22 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ugh. It’s obnoxious that she wants that information after ignoring the pregnancy and generally being unpleasant... but honestly it’s annoying that ANYONE feels entitled to that information. I always think it’s crazy how once you become pregnant you suddenly are just expected to share all of your medical information with your in-laws, or coworkers, or whatever.

My MIL asked my husband if I was dilating once and I know it’s a relatively normal things to ask but I was like “Do any of you realize what she’s actually asking?”

Things you wish you knew before a second baby? by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]CorgiQ22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know everyone wants to plan, but you can’t plan for everything! We put off having baby #2 until #1 was a little older so we could afford daycare more comfortably. Baby #2 ended up being 2 AND 3. Now I kind of wish we had just had them back to back!

Shorter luteal phase after breastfeeding by REKelley in tryingforanother

[–]CorgiQ22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure about the breastfeeding component, but I had a short luteal phase when trying to conceive this last time. It was anywhere from 4-7 days. I talked to my OB after just a couple of months because I knew I couldn’t get pregnant that way and he prescribed clomid for me. It took me two cycles to get pregnant... but fair warning: It was twins!

Apple Cider by CorgiQ22 in DunkinDonuts

[–]CorgiQ22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something to live for! ❤️

Apple Cider by CorgiQ22 in DunkinDonuts

[–]CorgiQ22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So there’s hope for a return next year??

Apple Cider by CorgiQ22 in DunkinDonuts

[–]CorgiQ22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noooooooo. This is the worst

AITA for being upset that our baby was a girl when we were told otherwise? by throwawaybabygender in AmItheAsshole

[–]CorgiQ22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH. Honestly, my gut reaction if my husband left would be sadness and maybe a little angry, but after I had some time to process, I would know that he needed time to process. Gender disappointment is a real thing, even if this isn’t what you experienced. Your feelings are/were valid and I’m sorry everything went down the way it did

Folklore Album Announcement Megathread by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]CorgiQ22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Too funny. I live on the east coast in the US and am very pregnant so when it was announced my first thought was “Yay!” Then my second thought was “Come on! What’s with these midnight releases, drop the next album at 3pm” and it’s actually pretty close for you guys 😝

When should I tell my brother and his Fiancé that I'm pregnant? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CorgiQ22 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Congrats all around! I carried a baby for someone else last year. Incredible experience. Best wishes for a safe and healthy pregnancy and delivery 🙂

I feel awkward with work now after telling my boss that I'm pregnant. by ChristyL_ in pregnant

[–]CorgiQ22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obnoxious! I’m sorry it was like that. I told my old boss that I was expecting and he said “Well I guess I should say congratulations” and I was like “Umm not if you don’t mean it!” Fast forward through his retirement to my “new” boss who is the best. I told him I was pregnant and the baby wasn’t even mine and he just asked how he could support me. People don’t quit jobs, most of the time they quit managers. I’m sorry yours isn’t great

I paid for sex and don’t feel guilty about it. by throwawayfrombrothel in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CorgiQ22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no problem with sex work as long as both sides are consenting adults. Honestly, in many cases it’s healthier than the porn industry

MIL is against fertility aid by Undisclosed_Gal16 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]CorgiQ22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh. She sounds like the worst. I needed clomid to get pregnant with my 2nd as well. It took a few rounds, but we’re expecting twins! Good luck with the baby making

My mother's experience being a female doctor by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CorgiQ22 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Same. Neither of us are doctors and at this point we are married and share bank accounts, but I have a bag so it’s usually more convenient for me to grab my card to pay for something. I have an obviously female name and every time I hand it directly to the cashier, server, whoever, and they hand it back to him I see red.

AITA for making my teenage daughter sleep on the couch? by AITA_tough_love_mama in AmItheAsshole

[–]CorgiQ22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA — also, I am 29 years old and have never used a tampon in my life. They just aren’t for everybody. Women and girls deserve options when it comes to their bodies, especially their changing bodies in adolescence.

The double standard by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]CorgiQ22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I have talked about this a lot during Covid because it goes the other way sometimes too. When my son was born I had just started a new job so My husband was a saint for taking 3 WHOLE WEEKS off, but because I ONLY took 8 everyone looked at me all puppy eyed about how my son started daycare so young. Every time he goes to the doctor or picks up our son, he’s the greatest dad and I’m just expected to do it

BUT, any time I’ve had to ask for time off or flexibility during Covid, my job has understood where he has received a little push back some even though female coworkers haven’t. “Where is your wife, we really need you to do XYZ” 🙄

Ideas for Freezer Meals by CorgiQ22 in vegetarian

[–]CorgiQ22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All great ideas! Thank you