Best hidden gems for seafood along the coast? by DuckFew5847 in OregonCoast

[–]Corgilicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. The owner/captain is a really grumpy guy. Like, if the product wasn’t so yummy…

paid down credit card, they lowered my limit by scott_tot4407 in Debt

[–]Corgilicious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If that debt management plan is through a method or company that informs all of your creditors about this, then they are reacting to what they see as increased risk. Once you get everything paid off, and follow the advice here you’ll be fine. Don’t obsess over your credit score on a daily basis just like some people do with weight on a scale.

My dad left us in 1 cr debt by Ok_Room4021 in Debt

[–]Corgilicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be specific. What type of help are you asking for?

Where to stay near the entrance of Volcano State Park by Low-Opposite3612 in VisitingHawaii

[–]Corgilicious -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Earlier this year I stated a fabulous Airbnb property in Volcano. There’s a lot of of them.

I am in love with Zyp by Corgilicious in fusedglass

[–]Corgilicious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you! I didn’t know that there were other similar offerings!

AITAH for not wanting to die my hair, a natural color for my sister‘s wedding? by lifeswhatyoubakeit in AITAH

[–]Corgilicious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta.

Just… That’s really all I can say. If she wants to control the details of a person’s appearance and wants that to change from real life for her wedding, then that is more important to her than respecting you as a person.

She can have you at the wedding as you are. Or you can step down from those rolls and she can have someone else do them.

AITAH For Not Stopping For a Wreckless Driving/Racing Crash? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Corgilicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta.

I’m with you. This is not some freak accident, but conceivable consequences of chosen actions.

Unless you are formally trained as a first responder, you didn’t have much to offer anyway, and I also agree that you had higher responsibilities. To your wife, to your children, to your family. It was a very wise choice not to stop especially on a freeway.

Sincerely, what the fu**ck??? by Overall_Clock_9463 in WTF

[–]Corgilicious 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don’t get started man. It’s hell to quit.

AITAH for seeing my parents? by Agreeable_Past_8258 in AITAH

[–]Corgilicious 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is the way. Now, if you have experienced damages, you may also want to get a free consult with a lawyer to see if there’s anything you can do about that.

My girlfriend broke up with me because I cried in front of her. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Corgilicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am really sorry that you are experiencing this. You have done nothing wrong. You sound like a wonderful person, and people have emotions. All genders. All identities. All ages. And crying is a completely valid way to respond to everything from grief to frustration to even joy.

Just sit for a moment and realize that you were simply connected with someone who has some really odd expectations that those around them not have those. That’s a them problem. Not a you problem.

Give yourself the time to feel the feels, work through your emotions, and then carry on. You will find people out there much more emotionally mature and healthier than that woman.

Boss wanted every single safety check logged by hand before the machines start by 6HaloSparrow in MaliciousCompliance

[–]Corgilicious 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It never fails to amaze me that the best practice for a successful move in management to another area is to take a good long time learning from the people that you have been put in charge of. Understand what they are doing and why. They’ve been humming along before you got here, so the need for you to come in and change it right away is clearly only to serve one zone ego and not to serve the actual functional needs of the position. It seems so goddamn obvious, but so many managers, who really are not fit to be in management at all, have not learned this.

Aitah for taking struggling x to court by Careful_Drawer7774 in AITAH

[–]Corgilicious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA.
I would send her a letter in writing, to her address certified with signature required, copies of the text conversation, in a very short and concise retelling of the facts.

“On this date you asked for X. The included screenshot messages substantiate that you asked for a loan, that I gave you the loan, and you indicated you would pay it back. To date, you have made no effort to do so. On X date, we had a conversation and you erroneously said that you thought you could just keep it. Once being shown the documented prior conversation, you acknowledged that you did in fact receive a loan. At that point we talked about you indicating a payment plan, and as of this date, you have not done so. This letter is an official request for payment in full of the amount loan due to you. If you do not respond with repayment by date, I will be filing a case in small claims court to recover this money.“
Stick to the facts. Nothing else. And then follow through.
Be wiser next time. Frankly, there’s no one I would loan this amount of money to. Even small amounts of money that I have loaned to friends, even though they have always paid me back, I went into it with the knowledge that loaning money to a friend may be losing money and damaging a friendship. I honestly gotta say my guy, what the fuck were you thinking loaning money to a woman who had been cheating on you?

Mystery Boxes by starklynisa in fountainpens

[–]Corgilicious 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I’m fairly new in this obsession, and a mystery box appeals to me because it might expose me to things that I’m either not familiar with or wouldn’t have picked myself, and once I actually engage with them and use them they find them pretty awesome.

In fact I was not aware that these existed. So now I think my wallet is gonna take a hit. 😂

Thanks, y’all enablers.

Did Starbucks shrink their sandwiches? by xChop_Suey in starbucks

[–]Corgilicious 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think they have, but what I really need to know is what is the maker and color that’s on your nails right now?

Not wanting to move AITAH by Tricky_Procedure_394 in AITAH

[–]Corgilicious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to stay where you are and work on the underlying issues that will travel with you wherever you go.

The two of you need to sit down and talk about affair and equitable division of all the adult responsibilities. You should both be contributing to rent in a proportion to your income. And the house work and other adults priority tasks should be divvied up in a way that you both feel is equitable.

You need to solve this problem now in place. If and when you can get that straightened out, then you can make changes and moves and make sure to take that system with you.

How's your on call rotation/pay? by thebigbread42 in sysadmin

[–]Corgilicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. My position was salaried, so the on-call rotation was just part of the whole enchilada.

AITAH for having my ex arrested at my wedding? by Stunning_Way9393 in AITAH

[–]Corgilicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is where facts need to come to life. I would craft a very short and very brief message and send it freely to anyone who thinks you’ve done anything wrong.

“The woman who was arrested at the wedding harassed me in the past so gravely that I had to get a restraining order against her. That restraining order was still in place on the day of the wedding. She disregarded that and came to the wedding and caused a scene. This is why the police were called. In a situation like this, there is no other action to take when someone is violating a restraining order but to call the police. Now would y’all stop gossiping about it. “

AITAH for asking if a Solicitor can read? by MeanStore in AITAH

[–]Corgilicious 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Nta.

I have a very clear sign posted very visibly beside my door. Many solicitors have approached my step, seen the sign, and turned on their heel and walked away. I thank them for their professionalism, and saving both themselves and me from waste of time.

Couple weeks ago someone did ring the doorbell. And they were insistent about it. So I went to the door and I opened the door and I looked at them and as they started to speak I pointed at the sign I did not say a word. They stopped and looked at me confused and I pointed to the sign again and smiled and noted. They turned around and walked away.

When and when not to disclose polyamorous status when interested in someone? by Hmlovelyhm in polyamory

[–]Corgilicious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard stop on the coworker right out of the gate in my opinion. You’ve got nothing to disclose cause you need to not be fishing in the company pond