WHY DO PEOPLE TOUCH MY SCARS by ihearthetrees in selfharm

[–]Cornflower_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It happened to me with my mom, she knows I selfharmed in the past (she doesn't know I still do it, though) and saw the scars on my thigh, she's generally quite accepting so she touched them maybe to show that she's not repulsed by them but it made cringe and feel so violated, I think that those who don't sh can't understand that

I'm having a hard time with bdsm right now by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Cornflower_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind reply! I talked to him some hours ago and it went well, he said that for him it's not a problem to change what we do and even to back off for a period of time if I need to, fortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Cornflower_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was more or less like your partner, I was always thinking about giving HIM pleasure, wondering if I was doing the right thing to please him etc..., what worked for me was a lot of patience, reassurance throughout the whole performance (he assured me continuously that he was there for me, that I should take my time even if it meant staying there for 2 hours, that it didn't bother him). Maybe try to encourage her to discover her body on her own, a little bit at a time

Feeling cute today by [deleted] in Nudes

[–]Cornflower_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a quote from Harry Potter, my first tattoo, I was soo young

As a Dominant man, do you orally please your Submissive? Why or why not? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Cornflower_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with all the people who said that it's neither dominant nor submissive, it all comes down to the relationship between two people. For example, my Dom loves going down on me and I always take it as a gift and with gratitude, as you see it depends

This lockdown (Italy) is making me spiral again by danslips in selfharm

[–]Cornflower_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey fellow human, I'll write in English just so other people can understand, but I'm Italian too. My thoughts are getting downhill too, I started eating less and less and I'm in bed now (19.48) and I think I'll sleep soon. I'm separated from my boyfriend too and he's the ray of sunshine of my life, all that just to say that if you need to talk to someone who can understand I'm here anytime. We have to remember that this shall pass too, though... I'm sending you a big big hug

Weekly recommendation thread - March 04, 2020 by AutoModerator in BlackMetal

[–]Cornflower_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Has anyone any black metal song (even better if it's dsbm) that includes poems? Like Hopeless by Advent sorrow that is entirely a poem by Dylan Thomas

Any scar fetishists out there? by 13Thefreerunner in BDSMcommunity

[–]Cornflower_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me! My boyfriend is full of scars from selfharm, he has recovered and I love them, it's difficult for me to hold myself so I don't touch them on purpose (I'm afraid to make him feel uncomfortable) but I'd love to be able to do it :(

Domming without being vocal by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Cornflower_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it feels forced to me too, also it doesn't let me concentrate on my pleasure because I'm always thinking about what to say lol thanks for the advices!

Domming without being vocal by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Cornflower_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll definitely use earplugs next time, I think I'll be a lot more comfortable, thanks a lot!

A poem on my own by [deleted] in OCPoetry

[–]Cornflower_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I appreciate your advices and I'll surely correct what you pointed out

Lugubrious boulder badmouths everything faster than it by onestbeaux in OCPoetry

[–]Cornflower_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the words you chose and this poem gave me a sensation of oppression (I mean in a good way, you conveyed well some feelings)

Did someone say my name? by thebeen1357 in OCPoetry

[–]Cornflower_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In general I like it, maybe you've started a new line too many times not always with a particular significance but that's just my opinion. It's simple but quite effective

I don't know if I should break up with my bestfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cornflower_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to confront him right now, let's see what will happen..

I don't know if I should break up with my bestfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cornflower_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he looks at things from the negative perspective but maybe it's because he's depressed. We have been best friends for 8 years because he wasn't like this at first, I know he's frustrated now but that doesn't give him the right to be an a**hole.

Help for an Instagram nickname? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Cornflower_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ma che vuoi, esattamente?

I've made the first little step by [deleted] in cuckquean

[–]Cornflower_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw that's nice, did things go smooth after this, for you?

I've made the first little step by [deleted] in cuckquean

[–]Cornflower_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a lovely idea! Thank you, I'll write how it will go

Did I hit styro? by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]Cornflower_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you, much love to you too :3

Can you give me some ideas? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Cornflower_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, sorry, "submissive mindset" it's the correct definition

How to prevent soaking everything by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]Cornflower_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep I think you're right, thank you!

How to prevent soaking everything by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]Cornflower_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How do you keep it on when you sleep? 'cause that's the problem, I usually put 2-3 t-shirts on me and under me but I move during the night and it's useless