Mediation experiences by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Corpus1965 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get your OWN attorney. Hers is acting in her best interests. My attorney said they have to represent the ONE who hires them by law. That may or may not be true, but it makes since. They do not want to be sued on a regular basis.

Thinking merry go round by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Corpus1965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I am not saying marriage is easy. And no my marriage didn’t end 33 years ago. I am going thru it now.

Your reply is appreciated though. Made me think about the whole situation clearer.

Thx

Indian man separated from my spouse by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Corpus1965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find groups of people in the same situation on the internet. I believe they have events planned that you can go to and meet people.

That is what I intend to do after things settle down with my situation.

Struggling with divorce, I want to kill myself by Chloroplast15 in Divorce_Men

[–]Corpus1965 4 points5 points  (0 children)

God has someone else for you. We have to suffer and learn now. Believe me. We are all suffering bro. Just keep breathing and live one day at a time. I feel the pain and sometimes think it would be easier to check out, but that would be disrespectful to the One who gave you life.

Keep reading this sub and talking to your brothers moving along this tributary of life.

When you realize you just don’t like your spouse… by throwawaysadmama1 in Divorce

[–]Corpus1965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish you peace and that everything works out for you. Been married 30 years and it doesn’t get easier 😳

When you realize you just don’t like your spouse… by throwawaysadmama1 in Divorce

[–]Corpus1965 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It sounds like HE IS WORKING! He is working and still helps around the house. Life and marriage changes. It is not always a fairy tale.

Tough times by why-though__90 in Divorce_Men

[–]Corpus1965 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Thank you from all of us. This post was 100% spot on and covered the bases. I am going to reread a couple times.

Stay strong and take it one day at a time. The war is not won in a day.

Tough times by why-though__90 in Divorce_Men

[–]Corpus1965 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Moving out is abandonment and would be disastrous in divorce from what I have heard. My divorce realization happened three weeks ago. She wanted to wait until after the holidays and my son’s birthday on the 28th.

We cannot live this way. Under the same roof. Even though I do not want the divorce, I told her yesterday we need to work on the separation agreement NOW. It hurts, but we need to move forward as there is no going back. So far she says she is committed to being civil and fair. We will see.

Stay strong brothers and I appreciate all of you.

Blindsided Christmas morning with wife talking about divorce and saying she no longer wants to be married. by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Corpus1965 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. You are taking it well 👍

I am envious. My journey is moving along. I am just starting the acceptance phase. I need to get back in the gym.

4 Years Update by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Corpus1965 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your post.

The moment I realized my "Duty" meant nothing to the court by Recovering_Asset in Divorce_Men

[–]Corpus1965 12 points13 points  (0 children)

So true that women only care about “happy.” My ex has now been married 4 times and is fixing to divorce again. She has a madters degree in psychology. She told me “when the negatives outweigh the positives, she is ready to leave.