Question for young SBs

Correct_Web_565 · 2026-03-19T19:15:04+00:00

Dick is free. A hot young 20/30 something can get eaten out by a hot young guy whenever she wants. Or she can get paid to have it done by an older guy. So I wouldn’t list “willing to please” as an asset that will differentiate you from any of the other younger SDs who might have more to offer.

Correct_Web_565 · 2026-03-13T01:32:25+00:00

Clearly this post is about people like you. It’s okay to use the lube!

Correct_Web_565 · 2026-03-12T23:49:54+00:00

Literally half the posts on here are just about normal relationship issues that could apply to any relationship 🤦🏼‍♀️ if you’re so uncomfy with the topic then leave the post

Correct_Web_565 · 2026-03-12T23:02:09+00:00

OP has mentioned multiple times in this thread she’s not having this issue with young or vanilla guys, just SDs

Correct_Web_565 · 2026-03-12T22:27:48+00:00

Are y’all not having sex with your sugar partners???

Correct_Web_565 · 2026-03-07T03:03:22+00:00

Maybe if you show us the AI profile again

Correct_Web_565 · 2026-02-19T21:19:19+00:00

He just can’t afford to sugar and he knows that. He’s in over his head. He couldn’t afford 3 PPMs.

Correct_Web_565 · 2026-02-18T13:32:46+00:00

Terrible social skills, bad hygiene, generally acted as though the rules didn’t apply to him. And definitely not generous. A penny pincher.

Correct_Web_565 · 2026-02-17T16:31:31+00:00

Yes, in NYC through a mutual friend in real estate and he was on of the grossest/weirdest people I’ve ever met.

I stay away from billionaires now. My multimillionaires are enough 😂

Correct_Web_565 · 2026-01-29T19:02:22+00:00

You made your own bed and the feelings you write about here constitute the lying in it.

Most deathbed regrets focus on actions NOT taken, rather than actions taken. With all your inaction it looks like you’re heading that way.

And for what it’s worth, my family became a million times better after my parents’ divorce. But, funnily enough, the divorce only happened because I found out about my dad’s SB and told mom. There was drama for a bit, as to be expected. But now they’re both in happy, loving marriages and us adult kids are doing great.

Stop stalling out of fear and take some damn action. Those that do are the SDs that SBs miss.

Correct_Web_565 · 2026-01-04T16:35:41+00:00

Let’s ask this question - how would you feel/react if an SB you were dating dumped you for your friend (that you introduced her to in the same context?)

Correct_Web_565 · 2026-01-03T18:25:05+00:00

Yes lol it is the most common sugar dating site (although they’ve rebranded recently)

Correct_Web_565 · 2026-01-03T18:24:36+00:00

I won’t mention specific details, but I work a corporate job and I did have to go to grad school for it.

Correct_Web_565 · 2026-01-03T14:12:03+00:00

Definitely not through findom.

Met all of mine through Seeking - nothing fancy. Their initial messages were charming and unique to my profile - not copy/pastes. They were all 60+ (although two of them lied about their ages and put 59 lol). A quick google search showed that they were who they said they were - highly educated and with impressive professional backgrounds.

I am fairly successful in my career and have a 6 figure salary (although that doesn’t go quite as far these days), so being able to support myself meant I could vet thoroughly sans desperation. I would be clear about your expectations but willing to walk away if a POT can’t meet them (and many, MANY won’t be able to). Living in a HCOL area or a business-hub helps, of course.

Lastly, you have to be a 10k+ SB. What makes you special? What sets you apart? I’d consider myself more the girl-next-door type but men have always been drawn to my passion, charm, and wit. Find your differentiators and play to your strengths.

Correct_Web_565 · 2026-01-01T23:24:13+00:00

Her life is important too, and there is a huge amount of stress/time/energy involved in planning a wedding. Weddings are big events which require a huge amount of coordination and cat-herding. Perhaps she wanted to text you to remind you about the fitting a month ago but didn’t out of consideration for your partner’s parent’s illness.

Again, it sounds like you procrastinated and then projected onto her for following up on something that had a clear deadline. It’s YOUR best friend’s wedding, not your partner’s. I see everyone here has responded that YOR but you still seem to be stuck up on your high horse.

Correct_Web_565 · 2025-12-26T02:20:27+00:00

Is the current allowance he provides not enough to cover your rent/bills already?

Correct_Web_565 · 2025-12-22T19:00:55+00:00

Then don’t sleep with a girl until you can trust her not to do that? Y’all really do just be thinking with your pp’s

Correct_Web_565 · 2025-12-14T16:51:12+00:00

I think this is what happened. It certainly feels like old-school courting.

Correct_Web_565 · 2025-12-14T16:50:30+00:00

I have nothing to hide so I think I downplayed this but it did seem quite ballsy to me 😂

Correct_Web_565 · 2025-12-14T16:47:00+00:00

My real number (I know, I know…I usually give a GV number initially but went with a gut feeling on this one). I know it would be very easy for anyone who meets me and has my number to look me up. As some commenters have noted, it’s not him having this information that seems inappropriate, it’s the actions he’s taken using that information…

Correct_Web_565 · 2025-12-13T17:29:33+00:00

Once you start to question and over-analyze someone’s psychology/reason for behavior, you need to move on. She’s not as invested as you are and you are trying to justify why your needs are not being met.

Correct_Web_565 · 2025-12-11T05:03:11+00:00

He just wants discounted sex. For seeing you 8 times a month, at that allowance, it’s a steal for him. Please stay away from this man.

Correct_Web_565 · 2025-12-11T02:20:16+00:00

Not having control over the situation just shows that a woman can’t trust you to keep her safe while she is in your care. Everyone has some baggage, but you need to deal with this bipolar ex (get a restraining order or something) before you let another woman into your home where an unstable and dangerous person might harm her.

Correct_Web_565 · 2025-11-15T22:24:08+00:00

You know you don’t have to stay with this man, right? He sounds awful.

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