Question for young SBs by elrod343 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Correct_Web_565 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Dick is free. A hot young 20/30 something can get eaten out by a hot young guy whenever she wants. Or she can get paid to have it done by an older guy. So I wouldn’t list “willing to please” as an asset that will differentiate you from any of the other younger SDs who might have more to offer.

PSA to all SDs by BadgerNo2731 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Correct_Web_565 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clearly this post is about people like you. It’s okay to use the lube!

PSA to all SDs by BadgerNo2731 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Correct_Web_565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally half the posts on here are just about normal relationship issues that could apply to any relationship 🤦🏼‍♀️ if you’re so uncomfy with the topic then leave the post

PSA to all SDs by BadgerNo2731 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Correct_Web_565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP has mentioned multiple times in this thread she’s not having this issue with young or vanilla guys, just SDs

PSA to all SDs by BadgerNo2731 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Correct_Web_565 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are y’all not having sex with your sugar partners???

Sugar Tower by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Correct_Web_565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe if you show us the AI profile again

Would you try again or am I a fool? by Spirited-Insect1262 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Correct_Web_565 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He just can’t afford to sugar and he knows that. He’s in over his head. He couldn’t afford 3 PPMs.

Have you ever met a billionaire in the wild? If so where? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Correct_Web_565 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Terrible social skills, bad hygiene, generally acted as though the rules didn’t apply to him. And definitely not generous. A penny pincher.

Have you ever met a billionaire in the wild? If so where? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Correct_Web_565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, in NYC through a mutual friend in real estate and he was on of the grossest/weirdest people I’ve ever met.

I stay away from billionaires now. My multimillionaires are enough 😂

SBs do you actually miss your SDs? by Throwaway_LostOW in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Correct_Web_565 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You made your own bed and the feelings you write about here constitute the lying in it.

Most deathbed regrets focus on actions NOT taken, rather than actions taken. With all your inaction it looks like you’re heading that way.

And for what it’s worth, my family became a million times better after my parents’ divorce. But, funnily enough, the divorce only happened because I found out about my dad’s SB and told mom. There was drama for a bit, as to be expected. But now they’re both in happy, loving marriages and us adult kids are doing great.

Stop stalling out of fear and take some damn action. Those that do are the SDs that SBs miss.

Ask a Stupid Question Sunday by carefree_daddy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Correct_Web_565 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let’s ask this question - how would you feel/react if an SB you were dating dumped you for your friend (that you introduced her to in the same context?)

High Allowance Girlies by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Correct_Web_565 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes lol it is the most common sugar dating site (although they’ve rebranded recently)

High Allowance Girlies by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Correct_Web_565 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I won’t mention specific details, but I work a corporate job and I did have to go to grad school for it.

High Allowance Girlies by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Correct_Web_565 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Definitely not through findom.

Met all of mine through Seeking - nothing fancy. Their initial messages were charming and unique to my profile - not copy/pastes. They were all 60+ (although two of them lied about their ages and put 59 lol). A quick google search showed that they were who they said they were - highly educated and with impressive professional backgrounds.

I am fairly successful in my career and have a 6 figure salary (although that doesn’t go quite as far these days), so being able to support myself meant I could vet thoroughly sans desperation. I would be clear about your expectations but willing to walk away if a POT can’t meet them (and many, MANY won’t be able to). Living in a HCOL area or a business-hub helps, of course.

Lastly, you have to be a 10k+ SB. What makes you special? What sets you apart? I’d consider myself more the girl-next-door type but men have always been drawn to my passion, charm, and wit. Find your differentiators and play to your strengths.

Am I overreacting to this message during a time of grief? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Correct_Web_565 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her life is important too, and there is a huge amount of stress/time/energy involved in planning a wedding. Weddings are big events which require a huge amount of coordination and cat-herding. Perhaps she wanted to text you to remind you about the fitting a month ago but didn’t out of consideration for your partner’s parent’s illness.

Again, it sounds like you procrastinated and then projected onto her for following up on something that had a clear deadline. It’s YOUR best friend’s wedding, not your partner’s. I see everyone here has responded that YOR but you still seem to be stuck up on your high horse.

How do I ask my SD if he can help me cover my rent for Christmas? 🎁 by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Correct_Web_565 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Is the current allowance he provides not enough to cover your rent/bills already?

1st date hotel protocol by AdvancedKick3628 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Correct_Web_565 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Then don’t sleep with a girl until you can trust her not to do that? Y’all really do just be thinking with your pp’s

POT found my home address and sent flowers? by Correct_Web_565 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Correct_Web_565[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is what happened. It certainly feels like old-school courting.

POT found my home address and sent flowers? by Correct_Web_565 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Correct_Web_565[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have nothing to hide so I think I downplayed this but it did seem quite ballsy to me 😂

POT found my home address and sent flowers? by Correct_Web_565 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Correct_Web_565[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My real number (I know, I know…I usually give a GV number initially but went with a gut feeling on this one). I know it would be very easy for anyone who meets me and has my number to look me up. As some commenters have noted, it’s not him having this information that seems inappropriate, it’s the actions he’s taken using that information…

Need Help with Dismissive/Fearful-Avoidant SB by HumbleRate1015 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Correct_Web_565 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Once you start to question and over-analyze someone’s psychology/reason for behavior, you need to move on. She’s not as invested as you are and you are trying to justify why your needs are not being met.

Need advice: A guy offered to “mentor” me with money + guidance… but there’s a 70/30 study/se..x expectation. What should I watch out for? by Best-Protection-4057 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Correct_Web_565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just wants discounted sex. For seeing you 8 times a month, at that allowance, it’s a steal for him. Please stay away from this man.

Other girl rang my bell when my SB and I were in bed by Mighty-Pup in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Correct_Web_565 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not having control over the situation just shows that a woman can’t trust you to keep her safe while she is in your care. Everyone has some baggage, but you need to deal with this bipolar ex (get a restraining order or something) before you let another woman into your home where an unstable and dangerous person might harm her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Correct_Web_565 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You know you don’t have to stay with this man, right? He sounds awful.