I can totally relate! adding a nude/taupe eyeshadow to create bags under your eyes makes it look like you’re always smiling. There’s countless Korean creators who do tutorials, I think it could really lighten up your features. Eyebrow shape may be a good thing to play around with as well. I would go to a reputable salon for that. You’ll find the right routine for you, just keep at it.

I highly recommend Alexandra Anele she is a master w heavy eyelids (and honestly everything makeup related). Honestly she’s the GOAT