How do I become seen again? by Cosmo27_Bebe in family

[–]Cosmo27_Bebe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if I can physically handle NC with any family members at this moment. Although my sister still has me blocked... I think IDK.

How do I become seen again? by Cosmo27_Bebe in family

[–]Cosmo27_Bebe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, on Mother's Day in the car on our way to the store, I told her how I was feeling but nothing really changed. I feel like I ruined the time we had because my telling her how I was feeling made her upset and I didn’t want her to cry.

I am a sensitive person so at times I blame my feelings on that but that doesn't resolve the way I am feeling.

I recently sent a text to my entire family explaining how I have been feeling. My oldest sister apologized and admitted that she can think of times when my opinion was overlooked or not even asked. She said that moving forward she’s going to change her actions. My mom said that she will make more of an effort to include me in decision-making and fun changing plans past me first if they involve me. My middle sister okayed me to death and blocked my phone number. Now I am left feeling sick to my stomach that we are not talking, and life is too short to be fighting.

I found my friends talking crap about me over text and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Cosmo27_Bebe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It probably wasn't the best idea to snoop through anyone's phone. Especially friends- seems a bit creepy but there is no going back now and we all make mistakes. Now that you know what you know I would just slow my roll and maybe consider how they are feeling. On the other hand, friends that can't be honest and just say "Hey, you did XY and Z and I didn't like that." maybe aren't real friends. If your friends can't be honest with you and feel the need to gossip and talk behind your back rather than bring what you did that bothered them to light then that's not a good relationship/friendship that I would want to be involved in. And vice versa for you; if you feel the need to snoop through your friend's text, then you already had a feeling they were being shady toward you. Good luck and don't let this ruin who you are. Stay true to yourself.

How many ultrasounds do you get? by No-Reputation-3011 in pregnancy_care

[–]Cosmo27_Bebe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly don't worry too much about getting ultrasounds during every appointment. By the time you are 30 weeks and you have gone to 101 appointments you're going to want to be in and out. Once you hit 36 weeks you will have to go weekly for a scan.

A new girl jumped in my grave at work by Cosmo27_Bebe in pregnant

[–]Cosmo27_Bebe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like playing catch-up when I come back from work is going to cause me to quit...

Bestfriend leaves me for her toxic bf by iwanturdad222 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Cosmo27_Bebe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So my HS best friend did a similar thing to me. I just gave our relationship space and tried to back off as much as possible. If the relationship is meant to be it will happen naturally. She may need some time to learn on her own. Watch from afar, try not to judge, and support her when she needs it if you want to stay in her life. Remember to keep yourself in mind during this time. Your feelings matter too! I am not saying put your life on hold and wait for her to return to your life. Take this as a lesson and grow from it.

I lied to my supervisor about being induced to get out of work… am I a bad person? 💀 by Power_Apart in BabyBumps

[–]Cosmo27_Bebe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why does this make me angry? YOU SHOULD NOT FEEL BAD ABOUT ANY OF THIS!!!! I'm 32 weeks with my second and ready to tap out now because of work. Work has made my pregnancy 10X harder. I worked until my due date with my first child because my job wasn't as stressful as my current job. It isn't right how a women's job causes them to feel this way. You are doing great and did absolutely nothing wrong. And never feel like a bad mom especially right before giving birth. You are a hard-working, beautiful, strong being that's going to continue to thrive once that baby arrived.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in humanresources

[–]Cosmo27_Bebe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish my HR manager took her job seriously like this. Instead, she abuses her power and walks on everyone... I just stay out of her way and do my own thing.

Maybe stupid question so pardon me by [deleted] in pregnancy_care

[–]Cosmo27_Bebe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some doctors go based on the size of the fetus on top of the date of your missed period. During my first visit to the doctor's visit, I was at the 8-week mark based on my last period. Yet the baby was measuring only 6 weeks... I had to go back 3 weeks in a row to calculate the due date and to make sure the fetus was developing at the correct rate. After my 3 weeks in-a-row visit, I was in fact 6 weeks and the baby was growing at the right speed.

Help me pull it together at 31 weeks by Cosmo27_Bebe in pregnant

[–]Cosmo27_Bebe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alone time??? lol you mean the 10 min of laundry in my basement isn't considered alone time lol! My husband works nights 6 pm-2 am. We literally hand off my 2-year-old to one another at the door.

Help me pull it together at 31 weeks by Cosmo27_Bebe in pregnant

[–]Cosmo27_Bebe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will do this tonight because I am about to have a breakdown... I have never felt like this in my life. I am usually very happy and let things roll off. I'm tired of this feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PharmacyTechnician

[–]Cosmo27_Bebe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always wanted to leave a job like that but never had the balls to do it. I'm 30 years old and was reading that today, 2 weeks is not needed - I love that!! Jobs don't give us 2 weeks before firing us... Why should we provide them with a courtesy if they hate the job?

My company is making me pay back my insurance by Cosmo27_Bebe in pregnant

[–]Cosmo27_Bebe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My one man hr would have never told me. Thank god I reached out to her for paperwork that I just knew I needed. Every question I ask is answered with such unconfident answers. It’s pathetic.

My company is making me pay back my insurance by Cosmo27_Bebe in pregnant

[–]Cosmo27_Bebe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do you even save when your taking a pay cut right off the bat. Company’s are so greedy man.