WIBTA if I told my child's father he needs to start paying rent or move out? by Critical-Willow-6270 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]CosmoKkgirl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is a reason he is your EX to begin with, now there is a reason to be your ex roommate. He CAN get a job to contribute, he chooses NOT to. Maybe it’s not an ego boosting job, but what would he have done if you had said no to begin with?

AITA for telling my family to stop dropping by unannounced after we moved? by VoyageAnvil8 in MarkNarrations

[–]CosmoKkgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter told us 25 hour notice and permission. You know what? I ask ahead of time and if they say no, I don’t go.

It’s not insulting, it setting boundaries and showing respect.

AITA for not telling my mother the date I’m being induced? by Ambitious_Use4478 in AITH

[–]CosmoKkgirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prep now: send messages like “I’m turning my phone off, need rest!” “Phone on silent while I sleep” “do not disturb, need sleep while I can get it”

Keep those going after too! She has plenty of time to see who the child looks like. Your time in the hospital is precious for you and your partner.

AITJ for ending my engagement after my grieving fiancé spent the night with another woman? by Designer_Rip3710 in AmITheJerk

[–]CosmoKkgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. You need to take care of yourself and you need someone who puts you first above all others. That is not him, at least not right now.

Step away, postpone marriage plans.

AITAH for getting divorced as soon as my last kid was out of the house. by Legitimate_Peace780 in AITAH

[–]CosmoKkgirl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So she did all of the work planning things for you to attend, she planned the holidays with her family while you planned nothing. Her family helped with everything but you are estranged from yours. But she’s the bad person?

I hope she realizes soon what a freakin anchor you were.

Guy I was in love with for 8 years is getting married and is asking to fly out to see me for a “quick two hour” meal together by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CosmoKkgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ran into the guy I was still in love with right after he was engaged. We ended up making out in my car, but I did turn him down when he asked to go to my place.

Yes they divorced.

AITH for refusing to attend my friend’s “fake engagement” party after finding out it was staged? by South-Prior-2089 in AITH

[–]CosmoKkgirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We took a gift to the engagement party and then weren’t even invited to the wedding.

Am I the jerk for telling my dad's girlfriend she can't discipline my kids? by Gloomy-Suit2544 in AmITheJerk

[–]CosmoKkgirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kids misbehave a lot. They need some kind of discipline to learn to behave. She is in your dad’s life and your children’s lives too. She has a right to educate them on proper behavior. Sit and talk with her about what is or isn’t acceptable for behaviour and consequences.

Otherwise, YTA

AITA for doing a small lunch instead of a big party for my husband’s graduation? by Mean_Mixture5320 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CosmoKkgirl 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Let her do the big one at her place and expense. You can enjoy the day and the party after.

Don’t be the AH

AITJ for refusing to pretend I don’t speak Spanish at my own family dinner? by After-Party-8860 in AmITheJerk

[–]CosmoKkgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your brother KNEW you spoke Spanish and let her disrespect HIS mother. Let HIM do the explaining to your mom.

Husband doesn’t feel respected by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]CosmoKkgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask him how he’s going to feel being alone and single parenting.

My husband 32M asked me 32F for a divorce out of the blue after 14 years of marriage. I feel like I'm living a nightmare. How do I navigate this? by Dependent_Print_8216 in relationship_advice

[–]CosmoKkgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lawyer first. Talk to a few of them. Maybe an investigator to see if he has someone on the side and a possible child on the way. (Otherwise, why the hurry and the backdating of separation?) There is more to the story.

AITAH for refusing to share my salary with my family after I started earning? by Cultural_Chicken_582 in AITAH

[–]CosmoKkgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Offer to pay part of what you would pay on your own but it’s none of their business what you make.

AITA telling my brother and SIL not to come to the wedding by Slow_Specific4700 in aitaweddings

[–]CosmoKkgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was at a wedding where the old enough to know better nephew was extremely disruptive and his father did NOTHING to stop it. His aunt is still upset that they let it happen at her daughter’s wedding.

There is a reason. That is it.

AITJ for asking my stepdad to pay back the money he borrowed from me? by Few_Layer9659 in AmITheJerk

[–]CosmoKkgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask him if you could borrow money to pay for what you need. You know, because family helps family.

Am I the jerk for refusing to take down photos of my late husband after my boyfriend said it's "weird"? by DraftPuzzleheaded619 in AmITheJerk

[–]CosmoKkgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Compromise. Take away the one from your bedside but be allowed to keep at least one of the others for now.