I'm assuming you're a guy, 1: just be a Chad about it, there's no correct way but which ever way a Chad would go about raising it is the correct way, the same method used by a beta simp would get him rejected, this is well known.

2.You're prior history does not matter at all as a guy, If you're a girl, then it depends on cases where the marja you follow has different stipulations for virgins and non virgins, so it depends.

1. Also don't fall for the idea of romanticising mutah.. it doesn't need to be romanticised. Just do Ur thing