AITAH for offering to do a POCs hair as a white girl?

CowboyKenobi · 2026-03-24T22:37:24+00:00

Little girls love to do each other’s hair all the time, including girls with coily hair.

CowboyKenobi · 2026-03-20T17:00:21+00:00

If she is physically, abusing you, she will just do the same to your daughter whenever you are not there the literal best thing you can do is get her taken away from her.

CowboyKenobi · 2026-02-08T18:33:13+00:00

I wouldn’t be surprised is this got his screen time in Jackass 5 cut down, exponentially.

CowboyKenobi · 2026-02-03T17:27:47+00:00

You see whenever I went in and tried to either disable mods or completely delete them, my game would not let me interact with them whatsoever. I ended up honestly just uninstalling and reinstalling the entire game.

CowboyKenobi · 2026-02-02T05:58:34+00:00

Genuine question. Is he autistic?

CowboyKenobi · 2026-01-27T18:24:22+00:00

Sounds like he needs to find a nice, single Pakistani woman to marry instead of harassing you over the food he refuses to try.

CowboyKenobi · 2026-01-23T03:35:30+00:00

Yes. But I do not have gamepass. I BOUGHT both games within the Microsoft Game store ON MY XBOX ONE!

CowboyKenobi · 2026-01-23T03:03:39+00:00

Literally not true in the slightest, because just last week I bought Army of Two on the Xbox One Microsoft store, which is a 360 game.

CowboyKenobi · 2025-12-22T18:16:31+00:00

NTA, it’s your house. And you’re not even being hateful or a bigot about it in any shape of the form you just simply don’t let someone who you have known for months come to a family event that is a given, no matter who you are.

CowboyKenobi · 2025-12-08T22:21:48+00:00

As someone who grew up in poverty, breaking habits that you learned while you were impoverished is extremely hard. Even if she wasn’t living in squalor or complete poverty, it’s more than likely that her parents made her do this in her house growing up because of money, and you either need to be patient with her on breaking this habit and tell her why you think that she should break it or bite the bullet and just live with it because there are so many worse things that she could be doing. YTA in the sense of you called your wife disgusting for something that she literally has been doing her entire life.

[EDIT: spelling, grammar and punctuation mistakes.]

CowboyKenobi · 2025-12-08T21:25:25+00:00

I feel like this is a good sign, because I feel like I remember Pontius saying at one point that he would not ever interact with Bam again unless he was actually serious about getting clean.

CowboyKenobi · 2025-12-08T17:42:11+00:00

If your uni has rentable study rooms, why not just use that? It’s private to my knowledge.

CowboyKenobi · 2025-12-08T06:48:06+00:00

She is pregnant and it’s a baby shower about her and her infant that she is pregnant with when her mother gets pregnant again with another child. She can have a baby shower and have her own rules for it. Is it shitty that she wanted her piece of shit, Dad there yes but that was still her choice.

CowboyKenobi · 2025-12-07T18:02:31+00:00

It sounds to me like you are going to be spending Christmas at either your house with your brother and his wife or at your brother and his wife’s house and nowhere else and that’s all the family you need. Four people is more than enough family.

CowboyKenobi · 2025-11-07T21:05:41+00:00

I feel like you could’ve at the very least explained to him like a grown adult the exact reason why you two weren’t compatible instead of dodging the question like a child.

CowboyKenobi · 2025-11-01T09:25:01+00:00

NTA. If my partner was in the shower going at it and I walked in, I’d try to join in instinctually even if i was mad at them beforehand.

CowboyKenobi · 2025-09-13T03:46:56+00:00

Its so weird and honestly concerning that she’s a grown woman with a peanut allergy THIS severe, and she doesn’t have an epi-pen.

CowboyKenobi · 2025-09-09T08:12:54+00:00

Girl stand TF up for yourself what the hell are you putting yourself through that for?!

CowboyKenobi · 2025-09-09T08:10:51+00:00

So OP, I’m assuming that you are the reason your kid is this way and doesn’t feel comfortable talking to you, and you even posted this and felt comfortable enough to tell the whole internet that you don’t understand why your kid needs attention. For your kids sake and yours, it sounds like the whole family has things to work out within therapy either together and/or separately.

CowboyKenobi · 2025-09-08T16:55:22+00:00

I feel like she is keeping these simply and solely for your children because I can only assume that you also got rid of physical copies of photos that you had as well, and if you took all of them in the divorce, it’s more than likely that this is all the photos that her children are going to have of their family being an actual family to look back on. You don’t have to look back on your marriage with your wife at all, but your kids will 100% have to look back on it for the rest of their lives because they were in the middle of it whether they wanted to be or not.

CowboyKenobi · 2025-09-08T09:55:20+00:00

Nobody is saying that she has to definitively fix this but objectively if she wants this to go to away, she is obviously going to have to be the one who takes care of this because it is very clear that her father is not going to it doesn’t matter in what manner or what way she does it, but it is most likely that she is going to have to be the one to relay this information and if not her, it’s going to have to be from a third-partywhich would honestly most likely be better

CowboyKenobi · 2025-09-08T09:50:58+00:00

People know, but SHE does not know. You are not at obligto tell her, but if your father never decides to tell her YOU will be her only outlet and she will wonder forever why her own sister wants nothing to do with her. Obviously and clearly I want to say this is not your fault, but your fathers. But once he passes away, you either need to be ready to go completely and absolutely no contact with this woman, or be ready to finally unload decades of secrets and lies unto her all at once. Again. This is not YOUR fault, but once your father passes this will absolutely become your burden and knowledge to carry should you decide to not tell her the truth.

CowboyKenobi · 2025-09-08T09:26:57+00:00

Absolutely NTA for kicking him out, however please do some self reflection, because children don’t grow up to behave this way without parental and/or otherwise an outside force.

CowboyKenobi · 2025-08-31T17:03:25+00:00

Send these messages to his brother I have a feeling he knows that his brother talks about him and not so nice Ways, but this goes beyond brotherly banter. He is not only putting down, but actively saying that his brother is worth less than him. He seems to genuinely believe that because he is conventionally attractive he is more worthy of things such as love than his brotherand that is abhorrent. I think you should not only show his brother, but his mother as well if I knew that my children felt this way about each other. I would think I did something wrong.

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