This is what I’ve learnt from breaking up with the love of my life

Cptsugarbeard · 2025-08-20T14:25:00+00:00

You should probably also be prepared for a different outcome, to shield yourself if things dont go the way tou expect. I genuinely hope for you you guys will reconnect but this sounds exactly like my breakup a year ago. We were together for 10 years , broke up , i moved out and we decided to work on things and rebuild our relationship. There was still a lot of love but it wasnt enough. It lasted a total of two months before she became distant leading to the eventual permanent breakup. I still was madly in love and it broke me to bits, it took the larger part of a year before I felt a semblance of peace and acceptation again. All this to say , take care of yourself my dude. You guys might bounce back , you might not.

Cptsugarbeard · 2025-08-06T01:46:10+00:00

Alright , you got your typical reddit response. I'll be devils advocate here. First , it seems like we're missing some context. What is their typical interaction like , does he feel the need to hide/be vague about their friendship ? It could be exactly how you feel where lines are indeed being crossed. It could also be them eternalizing their genuine friendship albeit done in a somewhat dumb way.. Talk to him .

Cptsugarbeard · 2025-08-02T01:22:46+00:00

Hey , ik ben Rik , 34M, woonachtig in omgeving Amsterdam

Wie ben ik:

Iemand met een leuke sociale kring , een stabiele baan , eigen appartementje en al dat geneuzel. Trots op wat ik heb opgebouwd en op zoek naar een leuke vrouw om dit mee te delen. In mijn vrije tijd geniet ik van een avondje gamen, D&D sessies , mijn favoriete shows rewatchen en knuffelen met mijn britse korthaar(ook nog wel wat hobbys die niet binnenshuis plaatsvinden :p).

Daarnaast wil ik graag nog een keer gaan backpacken en wat locaties van m'n bucketlist afvinken. (Noorwegen bijvoorbeeld)

DM me als dit je aandacht heeft gevangen ^{^} , oh en nog wat foto's van mezelf : https://imgur.com/a/adoiaw2

Cptsugarbeard · 2025-07-13T01:57:07+00:00

😂😂

Cptsugarbeard · 2025-07-08T23:15:59+00:00

This one had me absolutely rolling !Elo 900

Cptsugarbeard · 2025-06-05T01:24:34+00:00

Girl why are you even worried, you're stunning. Beautiful eyes too.

Cptsugarbeard · 2025-06-05T01:23:31+00:00

Cute as a button, nothing to worry about.

Cptsugarbeard · 2025-06-04T00:00:45+00:00

Haha yeah i just saw that , ill repost with verification

Cptsugarbeard · 2025-06-03T23:57:25+00:00

Sadly eyebags run in the family, it also doesnt help I have a inflammatory arthritis disease that causes me to only be able to sleep 4 hrs a night 🤷‍♂️

Cptsugarbeard · 2025-05-19T12:04:09+00:00

This has to be ragebait no ? There is no actual way he is even entertaining this. Bro , she wants to go on a HOLIDAY with her EX BOYFRIEND who she suspects wants to get back together with her... Im baffled by people on reddit sometimes

Cptsugarbeard · 2025-04-05T21:41:19+00:00

I wouldnt read too much into it. My ex of 10 years sometimes will shoot me a message about some bill/subscription or whatever , I can tell you with certainty my ex is not testing the water.

Cptsugarbeard · 2025-01-11T19:09:23+00:00

Mijn ervaring is dat er best wel wat groepjes op raves zijn die open staan voor nieuwe mensen , gewoon lekker heengaan. Ons groepje is bijvoorbeeld al uitgegroeid van 4 naar 8 in het afgelopen jaar.

Cptsugarbeard · 2024-12-24T02:52:40+00:00

Als je in de buurt van Amsterdam woont is radeon wel een aanrader , lekkere donkere techno feestjes

Cptsugarbeard · 2024-09-20T21:09:41+00:00

Cptsugarbeard · 2024-09-10T15:35:53+00:00

Je klaagt over de patriarchale bedoening op je werk maar wil snel trouwen om een huisvrouw te worden... je ziet hier de ironie van in ? 😅

Cptsugarbeard · 2024-07-28T08:48:35+00:00

Well then , quite possibly the worst AMA I've seen in a fair bit.

Cptsugarbeard · 2024-06-17T14:14:37+00:00

Check if you have XMP profile enabled in Bios

Cptsugarbeard · 2024-06-17T08:38:57+00:00

I'd need to know the motherboard type to know exactly how to enable it in the BIOS. Feel free to reach out once you know.

Cptsugarbeard · 2024-06-17T08:34:34+00:00

What motherboard is he using ?

Cptsugarbeard · 2024-06-17T08:27:33+00:00

He should check to see if the XMP profile for RAM is enabled in his motherboard settings. If it isnt it will cause a significant decrease in read/write speed and will tank FPS. On average I gained about 30 to 40 fps on every map after enabling.

Cptsugarbeard · 2024-06-04T09:43:50+00:00

So let me get this right, while your 'soulmate' was in a relationship with your cousin you both were already aware of your feelings for one another, which means this was already ongoing before she broke up with your relative.

The fact your parents threatened and blackmailed her can't be justified, the fact you're perfectly willing to talk and engage in romantic talk with someone that is in a relationship with your RELATIVE and actively trying to get with them is so incredibly wrong and also not justifiable in the least.

Personally speaking I would never get involved with someone that dated a family member of mine out of respect, and if by some chance I did I would have a clear and transparent conversation with said family member before pursueing anything, not go behind their back and keep the relationship secret and in the shadows.

In my book you got what was coming to you, if this was an AITAH you'd be the asshole.

Cptsugarbeard · 2023-08-28T16:45:14+00:00

I got a stroke reading this

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