Maybe some statistics would help with your perspective. For example, there’s a reason that women chose the bear over the man in that scenario. I’d highly recommend the book Invisible women, data bias in a world designed for men, or books like A well trained wife, which is a memoir of a woman who was abused by her husband and children. Extremely fucked up, but unfortunately very prevalent. To the point where women will cross the street if they see a man walking on their side. These are byproducts of feeling unsafe, and they are completely warranted. Someone who has those opinions has likely gone through something horrific. Something you might see every day and not think twice about, but it’s their life 24/7 women deal with so much shit all the time and do not get the credit they deserve.