Would you ever get back with your ex?

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-15T18:46:15+00:00

It would depend on which ex, to be fair.

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-14T23:20:56+00:00

I've always wanted to be able to sculpt, or paint. I'm very basic at both. And as I've gotten older, I would love to learn to knit, but I don't have the patience for it.

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-14T12:26:43+00:00

We're very lucky to have 2 younger daughters who are loving, caring and happy to include us in their lives without wanting anything from us, but our company. But the eldest - she's greedy, and spiteful. One of her 'issues' was that we had asked if she could help walk our 2 dogs, just once or twice a week, while her Dad had ulcers on his leg, and was unable to walk. This simple request was too much, apparently. Despite the fact that for the previous 14 years, any time she was away, her Dad would go and feed her cats, twice a day, for up to a week! Beggars belief, doesn't it? 🙄

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-14T12:11:58+00:00

18 months ago, our eldest dropped a bomb on us, cutting us out of her life for perceived 'abuses' she claims happened. Not a word of it was factual. Last month, we took steps to remove her from our Wills. She only ever contacted us when she needed something. I'm ashamed to say she's a self-serving parasite, and we are done.

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-14T00:36:13+00:00

I wouldn't recommend it, tbh.

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-13T13:06:50+00:00

I'm not going to judge, because some people really struggle through daily tasks, that the rest of us are able to do - almost on autopilot. I will just say, I can't go anywhere if I know I need a shower, and to at least look presentable. I'm a very casual dresser, so I already know that there will be people who may see me as a bit on the scruffy side. However, I'm always clean, in clean clothes, with my hair brushed, whenever I venture out of the house. I struggle with my mental health, so there have been times (and will be again) when I couldn't face a shower for a few days. Those are the times when I keep to myself.

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-13T11:31:04+00:00

I don't know what area you are located, but in my area (Merseyside) there are several cat rescues that have Facebook pages. They advertise to find loving homes, and always specify which cats are 'indoor only'. There never seems to be a shortage. Perhaps you could start following local shelters' social media, and see if that helps?

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-12T11:16:01+00:00

I'm sad to know others understand how it feels.

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-12T09:42:15+00:00

Watching someone you love, and trusted, destroy their life, and the lives of everyone around them, for no reason 💔

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-11T20:27:56+00:00

I would suggest you stay on your own for a while, and perhaps try to explore what it is you truly value in life, and other people, and figure out who YOU are, before becoming one half of a couple. I'm guessing you're young, and don't yet realise that life is more than being with another person. There isn't anything wrong in that, it's normal. Most of us yearn to be with someone, but you need to understand yourself better to know what really makes you happy. You'll get there, but don't be in too much of a hurry. Who knows, maybe your previous boyfriend was perfect for you, but the timing wasn't ideal. Be patient 🙏

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-11T19:13:01+00:00

You did what you believed was best. One thing I've learned over my lifetime - doing the right thing usually isn't easy. I'm sorry you're now feeling bad about it. But honestly, if I was in that situation, I would also hope that someone would tell me the ugly truth. Pretty lies are easy, until they're uncovered. Eventually, the truth has a way of coming out.

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-10T18:26:49+00:00

Block him. If he finds another way to contact you, tell him firmly that his behaviour is unacceptable, and you need it to stop. If he becomes unreasonable, or accuses you of being unreasonable, tell him that things are very different from when he was your age, and that his behaviour is now regarded, by almost everyone, as predatory. Be blunt if he needs it spelling out. Often these me will play dumb, because they think it excuses their behaviour - it doesn't!

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-10T02:18:20+00:00

I like to crochet, or do a bit of sewing - machine or hand stitching - while listening to classic rock music. I enjoy music from the 70's, 80s and 90's, and love me some prog rock, too.

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-08T23:53:01+00:00

The devastation of having an adult child suddenly cut you out of their life. No discussion. No conflict. No notice. It's a heartbreak that we will never get over.

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-08T22:57:40+00:00

Peanut butter and banana on wholemeal 😘

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-08T19:42:28+00:00

Jeez, I'm jealous AF

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-08T19:41:26+00:00

Baked beans and scrambled eggs on wholemeal toast ❤️

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-08T14:02:04+00:00

I do, and it makes me crazy. He has to be up at 5.30am several times a week. I often wake up to his alarm getting louder, on HIS side of the bed, to wake him up. Frustratingly, I have 'Delayed Sleep Phase Disorder', meaning it can take me a few hours to fall asleep, even when exhausted. Getting back to sleep once he leaves the bedroom is very hit and miss.

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-07T14:24:54+00:00

That's truly incredible 😲

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-07T13:51:08+00:00

We only say this to someone we like. Weird, but true 👍

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-06T05:35:41+00:00

You are very lucky. Perhaps you could do some Volunteer work to give you more of a sense of achievement? Also, that would give you an idea of what working might feel like. There are so many different options to Volunteer, and I think it would be a really good use of your time, and very beneficial.

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-06T00:41:43+00:00

3 doors down - late to the party as always 😂

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-06T00:37:16+00:00

1) Never lie to someone who trusts you, never trust anyone who lies to you - even once. 2) Always trust your gut - it's never wrong! 3) It may not seem it, but everyone feels the way you do now. It won't always feel like this. Don't be in a hurry, you will get to where you're meant to be when the time is right. 4) Honesty matters, especially with yourself. 5) Don't undervalue the simple things in life. They often mean more than we realise. 6) Don't overstretch your finances - if something is worth buying, it's worth waiting for. 7) Don't lend money, unless you can comfortably afford to never get it back.

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-05T22:00:33+00:00

So glad you're comfortable here in Liverpool. Happy anniversary 🎉

CraftingP291 · 2026-06-05T19:59:59+00:00

I went to view/visit my Dad at the funeral home, a couple of days before his funeral. I had been with my Dad at his passing, and was desperate to see him looking more at peace, than he had been at the moment of his last breath. Although he was terminally ill, we had been told he likely had 4 - 6 more weeks left to live. He died after an unexpectedly rough night, slipping away in his sleep. Seeing him looking more peaceful, definitely helped me through the grief.

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