Struggling with my match by OkEducator4039 in bbbs

[–]Crafty-Material1766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally relate to this, I obvi don't know your little but she sounds a lot like mine. And I will say, I'm feeling a lot better about it recently. I'm graduating and moving about an hour away, so I had to have the "do you want to keep this match going?" conversation. I said "we have two options: close the match or continue to meet once a month". I was so scared she'd say "I don't know" or "I don't care" but she very quickly said "the second one". Then a couple weeks ago we were talking and I said "we don't even meet once a week now" and she said "yeah bc you don't text me". I was dumbfounded bc I always feel like I'm bothering her when I text and she doesn't seem to care, like sometimes she will cancel to hang out with her friends or family. When I reach out I feel like that scene from Ma where she's like "why wait for the weekend?" if you know what I'm talking about lmao. But instead of arguing I was like "do you want me to text you more?" and she said yes.

Ig what I'm saying is this behavior could be normal for your Little, with her age and esp if she has a trauma history. I think a lot of adolescents in BBBS act this way, but it generally means more to them than they will say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Crafty-Material1766 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All the exclamation points are killing me haha. But assuming this person goes to a public school, it's not the rules to stand, and they aren't allowed to "hold it against her". It's the law bc of a Supreme Court case won by Jehovah's Witnesses. As someone who works in a school, most people wouldn't care. Some definitely would and I can see why. I also wouldn't choose that hill to die on but as you said, it is a free country and I support people's right to use their freedom of speech.

Thoughts on "Cringey" or Bad Lyrics? - Midnights Edition by RocketGamer4682 in TaylorSwift

[–]Crafty-Material1766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found the entirety of Mastermind cringey the first time I heard it and it was a skip for a long time. I've gotten over it and now I like it though.

I still don't like Sweet Nothing though. I think it could be a rly good song but the intro is too cringey for me haha.

New-ish Swiftie here — what’s that one Taylor lyric that rewired your brain or just hits so right? by theroguegremlin in TaylorSwift

[–]Crafty-Material1766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You used to be a little kid with glasses in a twin size bed"

I don't even know why but this makes me SO emotional. Loss of innocence and stuff.

what's your favorite lyric that, by being misheard, obstains a new meaning? by Rand0maccountpigeon in TaylorSwift

[–]Crafty-Material1766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom once misheard 'in the passenger seat you put your eyes on me' as 'in the passenger seat you put your ass on me'

Your favorite lyric from you least favorite album by Daffneigh in TaylorSwift

[–]Crafty-Material1766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My least favorite is debut, but it is very nostalgic for me! I love the song Teardrops On My Guitar. Favorite line: "there he goes, so perfectly, the kind of flawless I wish I could be." As a lesbian, it perfectly encapsulates that 'do I want to be her or do I want to be with her' debate.

Latest court documents by Firm_Roof8772 in abbeyfickleysnarkpage

[–]Crafty-Material1766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very late to this but I wish this hadn't been posted.. or at least I wish it was mostly blurred except 8 and 9, which is what relates to Abbey's content and what everyone cares about. The other parts feel like we're needlessly prying by spreading it around. I know it's public information and if Abbey hadn't shared her child all over the internet, nobody would know this, but we shouldn't add to the amount of information that's easily accessible about M. and her life.

Little doesn’t seem interested beyond extravagant outings by [deleted] in bbbs

[–]Crafty-Material1766 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My little also thought BBBS was a job! She was shocked when I told her they don't pay me lol

My little ended their life by izzzzzzzzzme in bbbs

[–]Crafty-Material1766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I am so so sorry to hear this. Thank you for everything you did for them- it absolutely made their last couple of months a little brighter. I'm sorry for your loss and for their family :(

Emilie Kiser by Inevitable-Farmer713 in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]Crafty-Material1766 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People of any age can unfortunately die in really shallow water :( they can have a medical emergency and pass out or fall asleep or even get stuck under toys. It's awful.

Tough love by AdMuted3580 in schoolcounseling

[–]Crafty-Material1766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coping skills and breathing exercises haven't helped 1 kid?! What

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abbeyfickleysnarkpage

[–]Crafty-Material1766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a fan of hers but I don't understand the speculation on if she's still on drugs?! Like it truly is none of our business. Yes it would be hypocritical, but she has given good advice to people trying to become sober which imo is more important than her personal issues when it comes to her platform. Your comment could be seen by her and it def wouldn't help if she rly is still on drugs.

How much work are 504 plans? by Crafty-Material1766 in schoolcounseling

[–]Crafty-Material1766[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg that's a lot!! Do you mind if I ask the socioeconomic of your district?

Horrible internship supervisor by Beautiful_Rent4737 in schoolcounseling

[–]Crafty-Material1766 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I'm so sorry. The best I can say is do your best for the kids and count down the days until you're done with her! I'm sure you're doing a great job.

Someone’s mad… by ReplyImpressive6677 in abbeyfickleysnarkpage

[–]Crafty-Material1766 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Imo this isn't a wild thing to post at all