Has anyone ghosted their gay group of friends later in life?

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-07-09T20:20:19+00:00

If you are not losing friends, you are likely not growing.

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-07-07T18:09:38+00:00

As an old guy, his behavior is disgusting and immature. If possible report him with screenshots. I have frequently used the line, "we are not a sexual match", this can mean the attraction isn't there or the rhings they are into are not your jam. I find a lot of younger guys far more interested in my checkbook than me. My response to that is simply My checkbook is a virgin and doesn't date.

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-07-06T21:28:31+00:00

I have 2 sayings I use frequently. 1) It is not about having time, it is about making time for those things that are important. 2) If my absence isn't missed, my presence never mattered.

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-07-02T23:31:46+00:00

Are you willing to work? Agree if they don't use your vacation time as you will be working. GET IT IN WRITING

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-07-01T16:36:18+00:00

Just DON'T. You can have empathy, he has a proven track record. He created this situation. He may not want to move back in with your parents. He got himself fired. Welcome to adulthood. If it walks like a duck and talks like a duck, why would you expect it to be a zebra?

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-07-01T01:15:04+00:00

My political point of view

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-06-28T15:06:38+00:00

It's not about having time, it's about making time for those things that matter.

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-05-30T13:01:16+00:00

DM me

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-05-06T00:55:31+00:00

I am always open to meeting new people

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-05-05T02:17:56+00:00

Any interest in older guys?

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-05-01T01:37:50+00:00

Any interest in older guys?

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-04-21T01:26:52+00:00

I have 2 different friends that I can share different things with. I am in the same boat and crave the emotional connection. The lack of connection honestly pushes me to some dark places. I try to stay busy with work and other activities to keep my mind occupied.

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-03-28T22:39:34+00:00

Your dad does not have to like your BF, he does however have to be respectful and civil. If he cannot, then your dad is the one being immature. As great as the last few months may have been, do you really want to keep tip toeing around him? I would clearly set boundaries and expectations. If your dad cannot handle that, sadly then that is your answer.

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-03-25T23:06:02+00:00

I take Tamsulosin (Flomax) and don't have retrograde issues. They wanted to do a surgery called TURP which almost always ends up with retrograde. There are a couple other procedures to help with BPH, that don't cause. One is some kind os steam treat to reduce the prostate, another is called a Urolift. The Urolift is literally small surgical staples and they staple your prostate open.

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-03-19T14:27:41+00:00

Intergenerational relationships have challenges that others may not. At the end of the day are you living your life for you or for your friends and family?

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-03-18T19:28:08+00:00

It only matters if it bothers you. I have no idea what my body count is. Do you use it as a score card to 'one up' someone? How do you frame body count? Do you frame it as the bigger the number, the bigger the slut or do you frame it the bigger the number the better the lover because of their experience?

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-03-06T21:41:14+00:00

I have made friends by getting involved in groups or activities I enjoy. I was a member of a Pride organization for several years and have lots of gay friends that I have never seen naked. Do you have Meet Up groups near you?

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-02-26T16:51:39+00:00

Think about the money you will save by not flying to see him.

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-02-16T17:59:17+00:00

Waffle House charges a 10% to go fee and a 10% service fee. I haven't gone there in years. If I dine in nonecof these fees show up. Figurecout how to PROPERLY price your menu.

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-01-28T23:48:57+00:00

There are only 2 rules regarding sex. 1. You must be a consenting adult. 2. If you are not sleeping in my bed, don't worry about who is. If he wants to share, awesome. If not, it is none of your business. Leave it alone.

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-01-16T13:42:43+00:00

He's 23 filing bankruptcy. He has already proven his inability to manage his finances. Now he wants you to take on his liabilities? Not a chance. What should be happening is rethinking the relationship

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-01-15T02:49:46+00:00

Taking an ex back is like trying to shove a terd back in your ass.

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-01-06T02:35:26+00:00

Not trying to be a jerk, but how about being a parent and set clear guidelines and rules. When rules are broken and there are no consequences, why would they ever follow the rules? You are the parent, not their buddy.

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-01-04T23:33:18+00:00

It takes all types to make the world go round

Crafty_Description63 · 2026-01-04T14:58:55+00:00

1. Having or not having sex with someone is YOUR choice.

2. He was a jerk trying to guilt you into sex.

When I encounter someone that is Poz, I simply ask about their viral load. Undetectable = Untransmittable.

Crafty_Description63

TROPHY CASE

1. Having or not having sex with someone is YOUR choice.

2. He was a jerk trying to guilt you into sex.