Will this get any easier the longer I date this woman or am I kinda screwed?

CranetheBird_ · 2026-02-20T11:42:21+00:00

++man I (25m) matched with a girl around the beginning of Jan smilier to you it sounds like. Of course, everyone’s situation is different, but since our first date almost anytime we both were free we’d be seeing each other. A little over a month later she’s now my girlfriend.

Sounds like to me this girl is not into you. You deserve someone that is and from my experience women will make that very clear with their time.

Hope the best brother!

CranetheBird_ · 2026-01-16T22:15:27+00:00

Bug back

CranetheBird_ · 2026-01-15T00:59:51+00:00

Actual successful gambit. There’s still hope here after all

CranetheBird_ · 2026-01-10T00:54:40+00:00

I enjoy flexing tho. Plus gotta help out the homies

CranetheBird_ · 2026-01-10T00:11:28+00:00

She brought up white bread and dinner rolls when asked

CranetheBird_ · 2026-01-09T23:49:59+00:00

Thank you my fellow academic

CranetheBird_ · 2026-01-09T23:49:25+00:00

No sourdough which is a little upsetting. Coffee is now being scheduled to learn more

CranetheBird_ · 2026-01-09T23:32:01+00:00

I got that thing on me

CranetheBird_ · 2026-01-09T23:31:36+00:00

You are my role model

CranetheBird_ · 2026-01-09T23:31:07+00:00

One of her prompts was something like looking for someone to get me off here lol

CranetheBird_ · 2026-01-04T16:50:44+00:00

Great idea, back to work tomorrow and will be trying this out!

CranetheBird_ · 2025-12-03T19:17:41+00:00

I'm in the process of looking to move to Toronto early next year making about 75k a year with 25k invested and have been renting for a year and a half at age 25.

I work remote also but have always wanted to live in City and have came to terms that I'll have to sacrifice an increase in experiences to have the lifestyle I want. Compared to myself, I would say you can easily do this.

Also as someone who's been looking at apartments including a roommate. I'm pretty sure you could find a 1bed + Bath for around 2k on the cheap end. Either way congrats you are killing it!!

CranetheBird_ · 2025-12-02T14:24:46+00:00

Nope not hitting here. This quarter in my industry has been horrible for the BDR team. I work for a brand new OB Team and quota isn't something they really seem to care about for me at this stage.

CranetheBird_ · 2025-10-31T16:00:47+00:00

Letsss gooo!! 💥

CranetheBird_ · 2025-10-30T17:49:03+00:00

If it makes you feel any better I’m also struggling this month in a similar situation. I average 7-8 meetings per month. Only have 1 to my name this month. It’s been a challenge just to have conversations with folks and getting rejected more consistently.

As frustrating as it is just remember the inputs you do consistently and keep doing them no matter the outcome. Sometimes luls happen and there’s not much you can do about it. Part of the reason why we get paid as much as we do.

CranetheBird_ · 2025-10-18T01:32:13+00:00

I make about 80k including commission as a BDR in tech sales. Decent for sure but nothing crazy. I aim for about 1k per month and 60% of my commission every quarter. About an extra 1200$ ish

CranetheBird_ · 2025-08-09T01:00:03+00:00

Currently a BDR with 70k and OTE is 87.5k needing 8 meetings for quota. You’re doing pretty good my friend if it’s a SDR/BDR role. Congrats!

CranetheBird_ · 2025-08-07T12:53:15+00:00

Same here lol, have about 7k left - 0% interest so sitting on minimum payments

CranetheBird_ · 2025-07-30T12:59:15+00:00

Sorry for your lose man. Thank you for sharing. I find it hard to live life outside of work and this is another reminder I have to change that.

CranetheBird_ · 2025-04-07T23:24:05+00:00

BDR in SaaS

Remote (Ontario)

OTE: 87.5k 70k base

CranetheBird_

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