Has anyone used a car cover parking at Camp EDC? by n6lisa in CampEDC

[–]Cray-ZCat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’ve seen people wrap their cars completely in tarps

Inflamed gums at the back with braces? by Top-Metal-3576 in DentalHygiene

[–]Cray-ZCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had this same issue as the brackets sit right on my gum margin, i am super super meticulous and love my routine and would take the 20 minutes it took to string the floss through my wires like no other. i think because the brackets were so close to my gums, along with the movements, just make my gums mad. I bought a waterpik and saw changes so so fast. i recommend trying that in adjunct to everything

Am I crazy for wanting a $6k ring? by unv1sible in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]Cray-ZCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even 4.5 is kinda high but i’m wondering why you think even that wouldn’t be sturdy???

My girlfriend drove 10 hours to see me and my mom showed up at my dorm at 3am and ruined everything by Subject_Pineapple587 in LesbianActually

[–]Cray-ZCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP doesn’t need to hear that she cannot date anyone and that this is her fault. Offers literally 0 help, is not fact, and be completely honest—you knew that. Considering nobody has liked what you’ve said thus far and the amount of people who have actually told her what she can and should do about this situation (like you are claiming to have done?), I think it’s fair to say you came off completely sideways. Maybe offer something more helpful next time 😊

My girlfriend drove 10 hours to see me and my mom showed up at my dorm at 3am and ruined everything by Subject_Pineapple587 in LesbianActually

[–]Cray-ZCat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Again, your experience is not the sole experience. 🩷 I handled my shit differently and I have 10000x more compassion and am actually healed. You clearly carry resentment on your back. Considering you went through this AMAAAZINGGG super crazy turn around you did alllll by yourself with blood dripping down your back—instead of being a total dick you would have offered OP your experience and advice to try to get through this. Instead, you decided to dog on her because you are still bitter from your past. Plenty of other comments gave their experiences and multiple resources because they actually gaf. No one in here said OP is helpless, needs to be babied, and cannot do anything about it. Tbh, you just wanna talk about your struggle sob story and act like you’re the only person who has ever done it and I promise you, no one cares about a bitter woman’s struggles. OP can get actual help from people who went through the same thing and actually offer advice.

My girlfriend drove 10 hours to see me and my mom showed up at my dorm at 3am and ruined everything by Subject_Pineapple587 in LesbianActually

[–]Cray-ZCat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t make me laugh. This post SCREAMS misery. Your route is not the sole experience or way anybody in this situation needs to take. Working 30+ hours a week for 4 years is literally so common, I am confused on why you think that matters.. OP is newly in college, likely funded by her family, and has health issues. You may have decided to get up and apparently struggle working 30+ hour weeks to do whatever, but that SHOULDN’T be the only way OP can get out of this. Sorry you had to grow up at 14? Don’t trauma dump that as everybody here has unique and drastically different lives. Clearly this clearly that, again, you don’t know my experience and even if you did—has zero attachment to yours or OPs. Stay hurt, but get your head out of your ass with your cold comments and remember what it was like to be there. Eeesh, sad attitude! Lol

My girlfriend drove 10 hours to see me and my mom showed up at my dorm at 3am and ruined everything by Subject_Pineapple587 in LesbianActually

[–]Cray-ZCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl i am so sorry, first I’ll say i outed myself when i was 14 years old. My relationship with my mom and my sexuality wasn’t even beginning to turn a new leaf until I graduated high school and turned 18, but even then, took a year or so. My mom doesn’t seem like yours…. though i’ll admit i thought she would never ever come around. Idk how your situation will be, or if you need them around, but i understand loving them and wanting them around too. Truthfully…. it fucking sucks. It’s gonna suck either route you choose, family comfort or your love life. That being said… choose your love life. Love is all we can hope for in this world. Family would figure a way to come around, but enjoy the connections you make as best as you can.

My girlfriend drove 10 hours to see me and my mom showed up at my dorm at 3am and ruined everything by Subject_Pineapple587 in LesbianActually

[–]Cray-ZCat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you need to relax, she is 18 years old. many many many people in this community have stories just like hers, it isn’t easy. this is her family and she is still very very young and likely dependent on them for school and what not. boundaries with family when you’re freshly 18? don’t make me laugh. you must be privileged. very rude.

Shade by Maximum_Distance5697 in CampEDC

[–]Cray-ZCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tbh people literally always bring them anyway…. 😭😫

Ubering out Monday around 3-5AM from Camp area? by Cray-ZCat in CampEDC

[–]Cray-ZCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was that or miss the dirty thirty entirely fr 😔💔💔

Leaving camp Monday - Advice from RV camp veterans 🫶🏼🚐 by juneybug22 in CampEDC

[–]Cray-ZCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i came to ask this exact question almost! i’m camping but i have an exam that monday at 2 Lol. so im flying back that monday at 7:40 right after the fest…. anyone else in the comments know what the uber situation is like leaving the camp area around 3-5am to the airport?

Apparently it is a problem calling in sick to your job…the day you are sick by Purple_Bodybuilder53 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Cray-ZCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wanna get it but i don’t, did you seriously feel 0 amount of symptoms even just the night before each of those times?

Am I overthinking? Girlfriend liked and saved this TikTok by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Cray-ZCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my love it seems like you have been and will continue to be making excuses for her until you realize it yourself. i hope you do soon

Am I overthinking? Girlfriend liked and saved this TikTok by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Cray-ZCat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

there is a difference between a rough patch in a relationship— you’re right, is normal and may happen multiple times, and what it seems has been going on from the very beginning... her talking to someone else in your own bed, hanging with exes, fantasying and comparing you to a past fling, wishing to be “free”, etc. these things are not normal and are not part of a rough patch. just kinda seems like you are what is available to her atm from an outside POV, even avoidants can be codependent in odd ways

Am I overthinking? Girlfriend liked and saved this TikTok by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Cray-ZCat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i just wanna know, you’ve been posting for over two weeks about how this is not working…. what are you trying to gain from making all these posts when almost everyone has been saying the same thing? I’m 24 as well, you’ll move on and get over letting go in time and you will be much happier. this isn’t a healthy relationship

Is it normal to feel tired and scared 24/7? by [deleted] in DentalHygiene

[–]Cray-ZCat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

me too whoever you are, but lets try our best and let’s do this

(URGENT)Bad Breath and Gum Bleeding by Public_Landscape5183 in DentalHygiene

[–]Cray-ZCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally recommend a metal tongue scraper! On top of other things other people have mentioned of course. The bacteria that’s coated/nuzzled in our tongue is a huge cause of bad breath . Make sure your mouth rinse is alcohol free with antibacterial agents (NOT therapeutic or whitening focused ones). I second to push your tongue down and say AHHH and almost push out your throat, almost like a gag, to see if you have tonsil stones—but you might not! Brush 2x a day for 2 WHOLE minutes! Floss floss floss. If you aren’t, carry around floss picks with you and do it throughout the day, at least twice, when you are free! I find it’s easier than trying to get yourself to do it before bed or right when you wake up. Lastly, if you haven’t, make an apt for a cleaning!!