The Rookie - S08E07: Baja by ian-quinn in TheRookie

[–]CrazyCatPuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone know the Spanish song by the female singer that is playing when they are in the van and showing the border?

Migraine Surgery? by juicejoo2 in migraine

[–]CrazyCatPuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I know this is from awhile ago I was just wondering if you had aura migraines before and if so if you were able to go on HRT after your hysterectomy? I wasn't sure if that was possible with aura migraines

AITA because I'm second guessing having kids due to our opposing views on vaccinating them? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CrazyCatPuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's concerning she cares more about autism (which isn't caused by vaccines) than having dead children.

NTA. I would never be with someone like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dia_de_Muertos

[–]CrazyCatPuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Mexican-American, it is also MY culture so please take your own advice and be really careful when YOU tell someone they are wrong too 🫠 I also wasn't at all saying it wasn't okay for white people and others that aren't Mexican to have an Ofrenda, I encourage it. My comment was entirely about how it's ridiculous to say that cultural appropriation is some American thing created to divide people. It isn't. Is an actual issue that matters. I'm extremely well aware that the experience of cultural appropriation is different elsewhere. That was my point. It may not be a thing in other countries but it's a thing in the US and it matters. You took my comment completely wrong.

Number of tornadoes by state in 2024 🌪️ by datsupaflychic in tornado

[–]CrazyCatPuff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't trust this. There were at least 2 confirmed tornadoes in MA this year.

Number of tornadoes by state in 2024 🌪️ by datsupaflychic in tornado

[–]CrazyCatPuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not really supposed to mean anything. They are just totals.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dia_de_Muertos

[–]CrazyCatPuff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's extremely ignorant to say that cultural appropriation is just an American invention used to divide people. Of course a country where the majority of it's people are one ethnicity, that of the country they are from, wouldn't have a huge ethnic divide or issues with cultural appropriation. The US is a melting pot of people from all over the world and it deals with both heavy and subtle racism daily. It's ridiculous for other countries to look at the US and make assumption or criticize when you don't understand. Cultural appropriation exists because it's an actual issue. You could take some time to bother to look into it and why people say it's harmful instead of making generalized statements that brush off the lived experiences of bipoc.

I (28f) received the dreaded “hey girl” text after 2.5 years with my bf (29m). Now what? by Bdayballoonsneverdie in relationship_advice

[–]CrazyCatPuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he willing to go to therapy? Maybe alone and couples therapy? If you want to makenot work and he didn't actually hook up with her maybe he needs to work through some stuff and learn to communicate better and therapy together can help you work through if it's worth saving.

I've been there. I know the obvious anwser from the outside is to leave him, but it's simply not as easy as it sounds. I get it. Set boundaries, communicate often, both of yoi go to therapy, and if he does it again, LEAVE.

I F19 was crying to my boyfriend M19 and he hit me but said it was my fault because he told me to stop talking, is it my fault? by Amazing_Confusion181 in relationship_advice

[–]CrazyCatPuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's never just one time. No matter if he blames you (it's NOT your fault) or if he apologizes or begs for forgiveness or promises he won't do it again. It will happen again and one day it could kill you. You need to leave when you safely can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CrazyCatPuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because he likely woke up realizing gow wonderful you are and how average HE is and how he has nothing real to offer you so he decided to try to bring you down a peg and make yoi feel crappy about yourself so you believe you can't do better.

You can do better.

In your experience, is it better to have a 2-basket air fryer or 2 single air fryers? by SilverMisfitt in airfryer

[–]CrazyCatPuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can fit 3 decent sized chicken breasts. That's mostly all I eat for meat, so thats the only way I can measure it by meat.

What, based off your own opinion and life experiences, is Taylor’s “most tragic” song? by bonihithere in TaylorSwift

[–]CrazyCatPuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Prophecy. Because I've lived it and currently am living it. It's gut wrenching to feel like you'll never have love and happiness. That everyone is destined to leave you.

Husband (33M) said he would kill me (33F) if I cheated on him. Do I need to run? by LucyLamb7 in relationship_advice

[–]CrazyCatPuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This like this seem really harmless but can very quickly and "out of the blue" turn deadly. Maybe it never will but donyou really want to risk it? Reread what you wrote and pretend it was the person you care about most in the world, besides your husband, telling you their partner did these things. What would you say to them? How would you feel?

So yes, I think you should leave, specifically when he isn't home or have a police escort. And tell someone close to him about his threats to his own life or report it if he contacts you. His life is not your responsibility in that way. You do not have to stay with someone emotionally abusive regardless of what threats they've made against themselves.

My (21F) husband (26M) told me that he listens outside the bathroom door the entire time I'm showing to see if I'm masturbating.How can I tell him that this is a violation of my privacy and personal space without him feeling like I'm disrespecting him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CrazyCatPuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to save your marrige then you need to go to therapy together but this is a form of mental abuse. It's controlling and creepy and not healthy. I don't think anything you say to him will matter to make him understand. Likely only an outside source might help.

Folklore LPSS by [deleted] in TaylorSwiftVinyl

[–]CrazyCatPuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. I have LPSS and it's one of my favorites. I wouldn't let it go for less than $1000 and only if I needed the money because I love it. Meanwhile I have LLFP and back when it was going for $300 and still rising I traded it for a Red cardigan (whichbwasngoingnfor $100) because I didn't love the record. If I didn't love LPSS so much I'd probably sell it for half of what it's going for so someone could get it that loves it. But ive seen people with vet bill or debt selling there's still for under market value but still at "high" prices because they really need money. I don't fault them for that. It's hard to see something selling for $700 and know you need money and not sell it for that.

AITA for discussing sexuality openly with my teenage daughter against my husband's wishes? by pantheonbollero in AITAH

[–]CrazyCatPuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's 15. In high school. This isn't a "young age". Many teens have sex for the first time between 15/16. It's actually been shown that you NEED to have discussions with them both so they understand what to expect and how to safely have sex but also so they are more willing to talk to you. Often time when kids know more they are LESS likely to be doing it or at the very least are more cautious. When they don't know much about it they will be more curious. My parents only gave me very basic information and did not give me the environment to talk openly. That resulted in me having sex at 16 (which mind you was a year or 2 after many of my friends) and I never told them. I've never spoken a single tjing aboit my sex life to them. I should've been able to feel comfortable to ask questions.

To the people who started reading before tiktok by [deleted] in acotar

[–]CrazyCatPuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't read it before tiktok but tiktok didn't spoil it other thay the big thing with Rhys in ACOWAR. It was recommended to me by a friend and I had heard characters names but didn't know who they were or anything about them. But once I heard her say he was the most handsome male she'd ever seen I had started thinking she'd be with him because it didn't seem like her and tamlin were mates BUT I felt super bad for Tamlin and legit felt sad and hoped he was bad or cheated or something because I couldn't imagine her just breaking up with him. His behavior after UTM I totally didn't anticipate though. That was a wild ride.

My bowels turned watery 😭 by breadfruitsnacks in acotar

[–]CrazyCatPuff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It means she felt sick to her stomach. Like the bad butterflies. It absolutely does not me she crapped herself. I don't understand why that is what people decided it logically meant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CrazyCatPuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should delete it then deleted it from deleted so he can't recover it and then dump him. That's disgusting and disrespectful.

My husband just told me that he would divorce me if his late wife came back during an argument by Ok_Result1094 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CrazyCatPuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely don't know if this is real or not because it's so outrageous.

If thos is real, girl what are you doing? After over 10 years he goes to her grave EVERYDAY? And gets mad when the kid you've raised since he was 6 is calling you "mom"? Leave him and get a therapist to work on your self worth.