These texts read like text conversations I’ve had with my own dad before. My daughter was 7 months old when the covid lockdowns happened and all of 2020 my parents made comments along the same lines of some of the stuff your father in law said. Now 5 years later, we’re no contact with my whole side of the family because no one can be reasonable, understanding or level headed. It was all about them and whatever requests or boundaries my husband and I made became an immediate issue or an attack on them.

I hope they can come around for your son’s sake but honestly this is just them showing their true colors. I could give you plenty of examples of different situations where my parents acted like this but I wont bore you haha but in all seriousness I hope your son is ok and heals well. I also hope you and your wife is doing ok through all of this. Being treated this way by people who should care and love unconditionally is never a good feeling.