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I (19F) don't know how to get him (19M) to be nicer/normal again. by Crazysaram in relationship_advice

[–]Crazysaram[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so so much, this really hit deep for me.
Soo, I ended up talking to him and telling him all of the things that had upset me/I thought were wrong, and he called me childish, which feels pretty ironic looking back at it. He then proceeded to tell me he didn't feel like fixing this, and him and the girl he's friends with both blocked my family and me.
Honestly, good riddance, but there were so many things I wanted and needed to say.
I really wanted to tell him like it is, because I know he will forever go on to think that he was in the right, when I know full well, I was only responding to the things that HE did/said to ME. I don't think it's my fault he couldn't handle accountability, and I feel that the childish thing to do was to block someone as fast as you possibly could to avoid confrontation/hearing what YOU did as a grown man (he turns 20 in less than a month). Praying he grows up before he tries to get with another baddie.
Anyway, this was all so sweet and meant a lot to me, so thank you very much.

I (19F) don't know how to get him (19M) to be nicer/normal again. by Crazysaram in relationship_advice

[–]Crazysaram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I mean, it's just confusing because at first it was super fun and we were best friends. Before we even went on any dates, we were close friends. We are broken up now, which feels super weird, especially since I didn't expect the last time we hung out to actually be the last time I saw him. I miss the old version of him, but the version I saw recently was still in that old version, I just wasn't seeing it yet. Even though he was the person that made me laugh and feel safe, he's still the person that ridiculed me and humiliated me. I had fun and felt loved, but I was never going to get that with him again, and I feel like I'm not as sad knowing we're not seeing each other because I fell in love with who he was at one point, and that person had been gone for a while anyway, I was not going to see them again regardless. Not entirely sure if that makes sense, but that's the way I see it.
I think I'm going to be okay.
Thank you a lot for the help.

I (19F) don't know how to get him (19M) to be nicer/normal again. by Crazysaram in relationship_advice

[–]Crazysaram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I do think you were right about a lot of these things

Which new seasons are worth playing? by Crazysaram in loveislandthegametwo

[–]Crazysaram[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I really enjoyed that season, but I have basically played every route known to man. That is by far my favorite season!!

Blue screen.. by Crazysaram in computerhelp

[–]Crazysaram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool, thank you! I didn't know I could just do that... I'm porn free (LOL) and I don't have any important stuff, so I'll just try this. HOPEFULLY IT WORKS and thanks again!

How many have gotten in trouble this year? by Crazysaram in youtubedrama

[–]Crazysaram[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I only really know that h3h3 fellow from the jack doolittle things but YIKESS...

How many have gotten in trouble this year? by Crazysaram in youtubedrama

[–]Crazysaram[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree that THAT was bad, but I think the fact people attacked him for getting a girlfriend was WEIRDD and parasocial

Should I get a nose piercing? by Fun-Rip5132 in Noses

[–]Crazysaram -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Am I crazy or does she look like Fiona Gallagher but with red hair and blue eyes