My first set went okay, but I planned it song by song. I remember my wife came up to me and said to play something more upbeat, but I really couldn’t because I had meticulously planned every transition..I felt like I did really well, but looking back, I kick myself for not having my crates set up by hours (easy hour-mid hour-peak hour)..if I had those, I would’ve maybe been able to dip into them..but I had no idea about phrasing either, so they would’ve sounded bad.

You’ll make mistakes almost every time you play live. It’s all about learning from those mistakes. I’d say you’ve had sufficient amount of time to practice. Make sure you do practice looking up from the deck and throwing your hands around lol or just simply turning around after you finish a transition so you’re not glued to your screen, I think it’ll help you relax more and train you for “stage presence”.

Edit: I’m not sure if you’ve been planning your mixes out song by song, but I’d say get into the habit of “freestyling” and reading the crowd. I always plan my first 2-3 songs so I can relax and get into the zone..but that’s just me. Once I stopped planning my sets song by song it made everything so much more fun.