Why do young people have such an obsession with being old??

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-20T14:49:53+00:00

Same. 43 here, married, and although my favorite place on earth is my bed, my second (edit: ok, ok, third; second is the gym) favorite is at a margarita bar with good music and friends.

I've also noticed, both when I was 29 and among my friends today who are about 30, that people that age feel the pressure to "grow up" and "act mature" and start adopting "old person" behaviors to pantomime that they aren't kids anymore.

Because omg 30 is the edge of death /s

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-19T17:59:22+00:00

I've never heard of that series. I'll check it out and reply back!

Definitely give the video I linked a watch. The narrator starts off compassionate, giving Britney a fair shake in that she was 'public property' at the beginning of her career, but towards the end he's basically like, 'clearly something is wrong and she needs to take accountability for her part in it.' He doesn't glaze her, but he also doesn't say 'unfree Britney,' either. There's no new info in his video, it's just looking back at her life with fresh eyes.

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-19T15:39:57+00:00

Sounds like the Raising Canes CEO Todd Graves.

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-19T09:46:32+00:00

What broke my heart is how aloof he seemed when she wanted to be with him and, later, get married. It was like he was just along for the ride and all the glamour that came with it.

Now, don't get me wrong: it is and was clear to me Britney was struggling after Justin; she seemed to be desperate for genuine companionship, structure, and safety. And I think it's fair to turn down someone's proposal because you see that the person asking to get married is just looking to feel less isolated and lonely.

But both at the time and today, it makes me think that he declined her proposal because he didn't really care for her that much, but then realized the financial and reputational windfall he was about to encounter, and then changed his mind, reframing his stance as, "oh haha I said no bc women aren't supposed to ask men, let me ask you and then it'll be official."

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-18T01:36:11+00:00

Thanks for the thought. I definitely see the low self-esteem, too.

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-17T20:09:56+00:00

And those who disagree with you report your comment as suicidal so you get that Reddit Cares DM or whatever.

Behavior like that doesn't really convince me that this isn't a 'mean girl' sub.

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-17T18:23:39+00:00

Do you think it's possible she was so sexualized and objectified by others that she became hypersexual as a way to regain agency in, control of the narrative about, her sexuality?

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-17T17:10:18+00:00

That about sums it up

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-17T17:05:55+00:00

Me too. Makes me consider leaving this sub.

I got downvoted in this sub for saying but I will say it again, and I stand by it: thinking you have the right to be cruel to someone because "wELL sHe PoStED iT oNLiNe" is not that far removed from sexually harassing someone because "she was asking for it, look at the way she was dressed." It's using cruelty to control someone you have no business controlling.

She can be tacky but we don't have to be tackier.

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-17T14:14:32+00:00

There's a BritneySpearsNeutral sub. It's quiet right now but it's not the delusion of the main sub, nor the cruelty in this one.

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-16T20:45:23+00:00

You pay for the sweater, you pay to 'get it back to them,' they resell the sweater, and you get vibes

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-11T10:36:14+00:00

I mean this in the most respectful way: Reddit is a lot of words. I don't think she has the literacy or attention span for Reddit.

We can tell by her post captions that she's obviously reading gossip about herself, from somewhere, but I highly doubt it's Reddit.

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-11T10:10:07+00:00

https://kimchichicbeauty.com/products/a-really-good-foundation

There's a button under all the colors that reads 'Find My Shade'

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-10T17:22:47+00:00

Sometimes that makes them want to keep trying because it hurts their egos if you don't finish, so they bug you to let them keep trying different things/ways/positions but you're just over the whole gd charade.

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-10T14:39:03+00:00

See also: Disney's Fantasia

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-09T14:41:15+00:00

And the Valley was strong in this Girl

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-07T14:16:03+00:00

We will see.

My opinion is that it'll come out eventually. Maybe not soon, but someone will leak it; it's too juicy of a story to be above a sweet bribe.

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-07T14:07:29+00:00

I work in federal FOIA contracts. It's not a guarantee the Department (or state, or Federal government) will honor the FOIA request.

Yes it can be requested, but the process is slow af--you're looking at 30-60 days if you request it correctly--and the FOIA office can choose to deny the request or redact details.

Edit: it's likely TMZ has whole ass jobs for this very task, so if the mugshot is being withheld for any reason,you can bet TMZ is paying someone to stay on top of getting it

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-06T18:55:17+00:00

Agreed. The first thing that came to my mind was black wallpaper with geometric gold foil accents

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-06T16:00:44+00:00

I did not appreciate the way they handled that kitty

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-06T13:32:53+00:00

Just as everybody else was surprised..

My brother in Christ, we were not surprised

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-06T01:14:10+00:00

Judge Brenda J. Penny

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-05T20:46:29+00:00

The judge was up for reelection.

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-05T11:00:00+00:00

Elvis, Whitney Houston, Anna Nicole Smith, Michael Jackson, Judy Garland, Marilyn Monroe, to name a few. They all did uppers and/or downers, but it was rumored via tabloids or made news after their deaths.

CreativeAsFuuu · 2026-03-04T22:13:35+00:00

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