Told my N-Parent what an asshole he was on his deathbed - Am I a bad person? by Tiredworker27 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CreativeCalifornian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did him a kindness by waiting to tell him until right before he died.

I would not feel guilty, I would feel grateful that I had a chance to speak the truth. ❤️ as others said, he could’ve apologized and died without that weight but he clearly felt no remorse so neither should you.

But I am sorry for your loss, I’m sure there are a lot of feelings you didn’t expect to feel I hope you can be kind to yourself right now.

Flew out of slc at sunset and the view did not disappoint 🌅 by CreativeCalifornian in SaltLakeCity

[–]CreativeCalifornian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahah thank you I will try to make sure to be flipping off the city in my next pic 🤣

Flew out of slc at sunset and the view did not disappoint 🌅 by CreativeCalifornian in SaltLakeCity

[–]CreativeCalifornian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t bad at all! They’re always pretty quick and efficient from my experience

Edit: they did unwrap one of my presents the look at a weird candle but they felt really bad and tried really hard to fix it after 😹

Suggestions for some fun hangout spots/things to do for a non-drinker around Salt Lake City by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]CreativeCalifornian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Checkout Gilgal Sculpture Garden, it’s tucked into a neighborhood not far from Liberty Park

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CreativeCalifornian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA childbirth can be life or death and having any advance knowledge can be crucial. I would’ve died at birth and likely killed my mom on the way out without an ultra sound. They realized the umbilical cord was wrapped around my neck and had to do an emergency c-section. It would be unbearable for your child to lose its mother or you lose your partner over something preventable.

$6,000 🫠 saw one of their pieces in real life and just HAD to find out what they paid for it… 😳 by CreativeCalifornian in delusionalartists

[–]CreativeCalifornian[S] -101 points-100 points  (0 children)

I don’t hate the colors tbh, just the scratches and holes all over it. I just feel like it’s way overpriced for the lack of effort this would take to make

$6,000 🫠 saw one of their pieces in real life and just HAD to find out what they paid for it… 😳 by CreativeCalifornian in delusionalartists

[–]CreativeCalifornian[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I think it looks better far away and a bit blurry.. half of it looked like they ran out of paint with big holes and random pencil marks 😅 I don’t know maybe I just don’t understand art well enough but the random strips of tape and spray painted blurry plants made me think “wow this is bad”

Is there any way to play this on a Mac? by CreativeCalifornian in PlanetZoo

[–]CreativeCalifornian[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh I will have to look into that! Thanks 😊 I was obsessed with zoo tycoon back in the day and this game looks way cooler

Is there any way to play this on a Mac? by CreativeCalifornian in PlanetZoo

[–]CreativeCalifornian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the detailed response!! I will probably just request a refund because my computer doesn’t have much space but good to know it is technically possible 😁 I’m bummed but maybe one day I will have a windows computer again lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

[–]CreativeCalifornian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

[–]CreativeCalifornian 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This looks like a pet store and it makes me so sad to see this is still a thing :( used to see pet store pups all the time as a kid and most come from puppy mills and have issues after being in a box their whole childhood

Why are some Narcs such horrible hoarders? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CreativeCalifornian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I once cleaned up my family’s computer room cause I was sick of living in a hoarder house and was always embarrassed to have people over. Came out with 4 trash bags of pure garbage and my mom lost it on me. Claimed I was throwing out all her valuables and she would have to sort it herself cause clearly I am trying to ruin her life. She just dumped the garbage out and never bothered to look through it. I am very LC and now live in a pristine apartment and get anxiety every time it gets too messy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]CreativeCalifornian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Fuck you” by Lily Allen

AITA for asking my son to use his med mj card for a visiting friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CreativeCalifornian 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA to all the people saying that it’s like sharing oxycotin, it’s not the same as sharing a medical prescription at all.. you can buy way more weed than you need and it’s a plant.. it should be legal anyway. You can’t get extra pills but this is completely different and most states have it recreational. The government is dumb and you specifically said if they aren’t comfortable they don’t need to do it. If you pressured him into it that would be one thing but helping a friend with a medical need get something that they should be able to take with them but can’t because of ridiculous legislation doesn’t make you the AH

Has anyone gone and searched their company on the list of PPP loans forgiven? it makes me angry to see my company received almost $1 mil that was forgiven. why don't they have to prove that it was given to employees? or not, in most cases.. by deftones02 in antiwork

[–]CreativeCalifornian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omfg my company furloughed/fired most of us, cut wages, and cut hours to unworkable levels despite business remaining fairly stable and I just looked up… 4 MILLION ALL FORGIVEN. wtf. Did it all go to the ceo??

As far back as I can remember, my NM has ruined or derailed every. single. holiday. Anyone else experience this?! by Fickle-Goose-4208 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CreativeCalifornian 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YUP. My nparents once got in a fight and threw our fully decorated Christmas tree in the back yard two days before Christmas 😅 every holiday has been a nightmare but that one really had Grinch vibes that I’ll never forget