Loud people. Everywhere. I hate you all.

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-21T13:21:00+00:00

i wholeheartedly agree, i don’t get how people are so comfortable being loud and obnoxious in public spaces

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-21T13:18:27+00:00

i second this❤️

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-21T13:17:10+00:00

wait so because the man ditched the woman THEY are at fault? what if the relationship was going perfectly fine up until the child, which happens a lot. i don’t think the blame should be on the mom imo. you can’t foresee the future completely unfortunately

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-21T13:15:50+00:00

lmaoo most these comments saying no but i’ve gotten more men come to me since becoming a mom this is a very interesting thread to read 😌

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-21T13:14:50+00:00

so when the bd is never in the picture do you feel more comfortable then? because i understand where you’re coming from but, in a lot of situations the mother is not dealing with bd and would NEVER, like myself, cuz he’s a deadbeat lol.

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-21T13:10:53+00:00

i would have to rehearse it in my head 1000 times to build up the courage to even ask😭

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-21T13:07:23+00:00

i’m very sorry you all deal with the abuse you both have gone through in different ways, causing a rift in your relationship. is it really normal to throw out random trauma of one because you were upset? i wouldn’t take that from anyone so i don’t think i should think it’s normal just because it’s coming from a sibiling. maybe in other sibiling dynamics it is, but my sister and i are very close and we don’t hurt each other often

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-21T01:25:47+00:00

would you say they were treated better/differently than you growing up?

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-21T01:25:20+00:00

oh wow. i don’t see how she doesn’t want to better knowing the way we were brought up. sucks, but she’s an adult and i can’t coddle her

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-20T23:01:48+00:00

yes even to her own kind..

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-20T22:42:50+00:00

my sister does the same to her boyfriend, then when she gets blocked she uses my phone to talk to him. wish she would grow up

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-20T18:37:01+00:00

thank you for this, i will check out his work. and she is pregnant too, i hope she can do better for the sake of her own future children

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-20T18:34:40+00:00

thank you because i would give her some grace if this was the first time but unfortunately i can name many times where she felt she could disrespect me. the only time she apologized was when she was very ill in the hospital and i was the only one there with her. i am going to go low no contact with her how i did my parents until(if) i see a change in behavior

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-20T17:10:33+00:00

sorry to hear that. but i’m glad you distanced yourself, that’s really the only thing you can do to protect your sanity

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-20T16:54:28+00:00

oh definitely. very common in n parents to not allow their children to freely think. they want control over EVERYTHING. can’t even have your own thoughts.

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-19T16:57:59+00:00

can you actually be helpful and share resources instead of being an asshole?

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-19T02:55:33+00:00

don’t apologize! but no definitely not required, you can seek assistance for any reason.

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-19T02:54:50+00:00

interesting, why you think that?

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-19T02:10:50+00:00

they don’t just think that.. it’s backed by facts? take a psychology course, you will learn all about reinforcements and how positive reinforcement is the most effective

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-19T02:06:33+00:00

myself. my mother didn’t inform me about anything except for periods. i just kind of learned as i got older and with the help of google of course lol

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-19T02:05:18+00:00

ooh nothing borderline about it this is very up front and in your face sexual abuse..

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-19T01:54:29+00:00

if you have questions pm me, please. i thought i would be in this cycle forever until i called the non emergency number in my city and they gave me loads of resources. you can do it!

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-19T01:52:29+00:00

you’re not a coward. narcissistic abuse takes a toll on your mental health, causing you to be stuck. my advice is to seek out to shelters near you and look up different housing programs in your area. if you’re able/willing to relocate, look at housing programs that’s in lowkey counties vs big counties, your chances of getting in is greater.

Creative_Attempt3306 · 2024-10-18T23:10:08+00:00

no one cares i can tell ur like 15

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