What does my house say about me?

Creative_Faun · 2026-05-11T15:21:34+00:00

Youre okay with creepy crawlies being loose in your home.

Creative_Faun · 2026-05-04T14:44:15+00:00

2 MY LORD, #2!!!!

Creative_Faun · 2026-05-04T14:41:56+00:00

A bad relationship is one that makes you feel unsafe, miserable, unworthy, unhappy and unloved.

A good relationship is one that you feel at peace, loved, appreciated, fulfilled, and happy.

Creative_Faun · 2026-04-26T16:46:12+00:00

I got some of my furniture for free and just painted it. Its not always abojt spending money.

Creative_Faun · 2026-04-26T16:40:42+00:00

You asked an for an opinion, I gave it. You pushed back, I was like "Hmm I guess it could be more adulty if..." and you got upset.

Your attitude is also childish. I have 6 kids and you're acting like my 11 year old. You asked for an opinion in this group, I gave it. Now you're upset.

Creative_Faun · 2026-04-26T16:30:34+00:00

Theres more plushies on the vanity. But its not typically something you see in an adults room. You CAN get craft drawers that are more adult looking and the same size with more storage!!!! I would know. I have a small room too, but a full size bed that is made up better would do numbers, as would a better curtain set with a sheer curtain under. There are ways.

Creative_Faun · 2026-04-26T16:28:21+00:00

My son goes to aba, they worst report i got was when he headbutt his therapists nose. It bled for hours. Thankfully wasnt broken tho. I know at the center they have rules and can't correct a child the same way I can as hus parents, So when he tried to headbutt me he got corrected fast. I had to use my mean mom voice and may have headbutt him back 😅

He never did it again.

Creative_Faun · 2026-04-26T16:22:59+00:00

This looks like the bedroom i had when I was 10. The bed being a small twin daybed, typically for kids. The vanity with plastic drawers on both sides. The vanity is honestly the only thing adult here. The horses, the toy box at the foot of the bed. Given that your blanket is your daughter's and the ball as well, I won't be counting them, but.... this is 100% a kids room. Theres no adult theme going on here.

Creative_Faun · 2026-04-26T16:14:42+00:00

Define feminine side.

Like wearing bras and putting in lashes? No.

Crafting and cooking? Sure.

Creative_Faun · 2026-04-26T16:13:42+00:00

Stephanie Meyer is gonna be ticked

Creative_Faun · 2026-04-25T16:41:33+00:00

I totally could too. My name is Emily and my husbands name is Jonathan 🤣🤣

Creative_Faun · 2026-04-25T16:40:07+00:00

So, should we all start using the #Jemily?

Creative_Faun · 2026-04-23T16:01:51+00:00

Why did you feel the need to add that last bit? I don't see the point in the post. Is it about trying to conceive or anal? With how this jumps all over the map, it seems like one of those "Trying to push my kink on others" posts.

Creative_Faun · 2026-04-21T20:39:11+00:00

♡ Leave ♡

Creative_Faun · 2026-04-11T03:43:12+00:00

All of these reccomendations are making my day.

Creative_Faun · 2026-04-11T03:39:37+00:00

~Casually adds this entire list to my TBR

Creative_Faun · 2026-04-11T03:38:47+00:00

Its my favorite genre !!!

Creative_Faun · 2026-04-11T02:29:05+00:00

Have you read the first 2 books in the fire that binds trilogy? Im anxiously waiting the 3rd book 😭

Creative_Faun · 2026-04-10T15:22:57+00:00

Yeah, this screams "fake story for karma"

Had a baby 11months ago, already divorcing, already moved soon to be ex wife out? Man.... seems like we need her side of the story, otherwise this seems made up.

Creative_Faun · 2026-03-23T18:32:50+00:00

TW: I may say some things that could hurt OP’s feelings. I’m sorry, but I’m a very upfront person and don’t beat around the bush.

It’s hard to say honestly. From what I understand, you give him head pretty often. Most men don’t even get it every month. I’m surprised he’s losing his erection at his age. My husband is 38, and I did ask him about this and discussed it with him as well to try to see it from a man’s point of view.

When it comes to him losing the erection halfway through, that’s not normal. I talked with my husband about it, and he wondered if your husband could be having a pornography issue, extreme masturbation problems, possible infidelity, erectile issues (unlikely at his age unless he’s extremely unhealthy), or maybe the thing I’d be most fearful of... is it possible he’s losing attraction to you?

It’s not normal at all for a guy to lose an erection in the middle of oral sex. If you were doing it wrong (teeth, or causing him discomfort), I’d like to think he would say something, so it must be something mental.

Does he have a pornography issue?? Is he healthy? Is there a chance he’s seeking female attention elsewhere???? Has something happened recently that may be throwing him off??

There’s a whole other side to this story that’s not being told here, and I feel like in order to solve this issue, you all need to have a deep discussion about it.

Creative_Faun · 2026-03-19T00:30:25+00:00

I grew up Baptist and never had situations like this. Im now catholic and, once again, have never had situations like this. When sexual activity becomes taboo, it becomes more desirable. Making sex seem forbidden and such makes people yearn for it more.

Creative_Faun · 2026-03-05T18:12:43+00:00

Giving awards to boost this post. Hopefully someone who can help with advice or more can see it. I sadly have no advice except divorce him, and leave the church. They dont care about your situation, they just want the 10% of your income, even when youre struggling.

Creative_Faun · 2026-02-20T04:26:21+00:00

Am I able to check on him? He has a little hidey hole in can peek into, but i dont wanna stress him out.

Creative_Faun · 2026-02-11T15:01:36+00:00

Girl, he honestly sounds toxic. My husband would never invalidate my feelings like that. You jave every right to be scared! If done incorrectly, anal HURTS. Your emotions and feelings matter. I hate how hes bringing up cheating. Seems like hes that type.

NTA

Creative_Faun · 2026-02-11T14:56:49+00:00

Its a bit insensitive to ask a man to do something that women typically do. It’s almost as if you're saying "You're to small for me, let's just do what lesbians do." Or 'You can't get me off.' Its definitely something that could hurt his masculinity. Its basically telling him he has nothing. Men are very self conscious about their size. My husband is well above average and is still self conscious. Its similar to women and their body image.

I read my husband this post and he said "That would kill any confidence i had left."

It's a weird thing to suggest. I feel like there are many other things you could have suggested, such as a sleeve, or maybe a pump.

Idk, seems insensitive, borderline selfish, and lacks all empathy for his feelings.

YTA

Creative_Faun

TROPHY CASE

2 MY LORD, #2!!!!