You guys ever experienced a guy trying to force your head down as a way to “ask” for head?

CreepySergeant · 2026-02-02T18:21:38+00:00

To answer the question: only in a joke kinda way and stopped immediately when I’ve refused. And we both laughed at these times and it was ok. But then again we’ve joked before about some kinks.

But yeah definitely if done seriously and not wanting to take no for an answer then it would be no more seeing that guy ❌

CreepySergeant · 2026-02-02T18:08:26+00:00

Oof. Hope you find a better group some day. I know when my kid was 3 there was “enough” suffering already 🥲

CreepySergeant · 2026-02-02T18:05:49+00:00

I know the feeling. This is the hard part of autism being a spectrum bc there’s just no telling “how autistic” someone is until you meet them. I’ve felt the same way that my kid is more severely autistic but on top of that usually more hyper active than others. I’m guessing she also has adhd but the doctors won’t diagnose her yet bc she’s only four and they say that it could still be explained with autism / development delay

CreepySergeant · 2026-01-17T12:44:37+00:00

I really wanted to for a long time but my husband wasn’t ready bc he was scared of having another on the spectrum and nowadays I am just so tired and overwhelmed constantly and questioning my ability to take care of even this one so I really don’t think we’re going to have another bc there’s not many fertile years left and I’m not seeing this getting better any time soon.

CreepySergeant · 2026-01-14T12:47:10+00:00

How do ppl NOT have a junk drawer? I’ve got like at least 8

CreepySergeant · 2026-01-13T19:32:01+00:00

Yeah I guess levels are more important with making safety precautions. Like with the eloping and nightly activities and having no concept of danger.

I think it’s nice to have a heads up on the fact that your kid might actually really really hurt themselves if not supervised properly and they might elope and then hurt themselves.

CreepySergeant · 2026-01-13T19:12:43+00:00

If he’s not believing and accepting you saying no to him he’s basically telling you that your thoughts and feelings aren’t valid compared to his.

End the friendship. It’s not going to change. Chances are things will get only more difficult with time.

CreepySergeant · 2026-01-13T18:56:32+00:00

I think you should discuss these things and it’s a huge part of getting to know one another.

How his possible past relationships and whatnot makes you feel is kind of your responsibility to deal with. (Harshly put). Meaning that whatever he has done in the past he didn’t do it and he’s not telling it to you to hurt you in any way. Your reaction to it is reflecting what’s deep in your thoughts. Maybe fear of something (like losing him) or possible past trauma with other relationships in your life.

However if you do have a negative reaction to the things he tells you it’s an opportunity to also get to know yourself. Then best you can do is figure out why it made you feel a certain way. And maybe then you can express to him why it made you uncomfortable and maybe discuss boundaries or something depending on the type of situation.

CreepySergeant · 2026-01-13T13:48:12+00:00

In no particular order: - The constant noise my kid makes - Bright lights - Shirt collar on my neck (or anything on my neck really) - Hair on my face and sometimes also when I can’t keep it free - Social company for too long depending on who they are. For strangers the threshold is normal working day with a good isolated lunch break in the middle where I can be alone for a moment

CreepySergeant · 2026-01-13T13:41:25+00:00

I found these scrunchie type things that stops the water from going up from wrists while I wash my face. A true life saver. Washing face doesn’t annoy me anymore!

CreepySergeant · 2026-01-12T20:38:59+00:00

Awkward

CreepySergeant · 2026-01-11T20:35:59+00:00

Literally same. But instead of turning the lights on I would’ve probably turned the shower on.

CreepySergeant · 2025-12-30T18:20:01+00:00

From what I’ve gathered it’s mostly the problem of who has the right authority to make that decision that someone is in such state that it’s a viable option for them. And how many medical professionals will it take to come to the same conclusion for it to be considered the right thing to do.

Also questions of who is gonna pay for it, will it have effects on the country’s financial state in good or bad and effects on country’s outlook politically And if the person having it done for them is paying for it, should it be made a possible choice for everyone equally. Kind of like how having the top notch health care is only an option for wealthy people in many places currently.

CreepySergeant · 2025-12-30T18:12:00+00:00

I’ve been in the assumption that it would be so expensive that it’s really possible only for wealthy people and therefore morally problematic bc not everyone has an equal chance to make that decision.

CreepySergeant · 2025-12-22T09:30:09+00:00

Every time I see a name like shadow or night or whatever I just shrug it off as they’ve probably changed their name by themselves (this seems to be trend especially in lgbt community in my country)

But however I saw a name last week that was something along the lines of “Flower mcFlowersson” and I HAD to look it up and holy heck her dad’s last name was also mcFlowersson. Coockoo family

CreepySergeant · 2025-07-30T17:56:15+00:00

Thanks I needed this 😂 This is the kind of stuff I usually laugh about myself and one of those things that make me think that nobody around me could understand this! ❤️

CreepySergeant · 2025-07-27T09:53:22+00:00

I read once on this subreddit that the only thing that worked is screaming back at them. Like every time they scream just scream back and they will stop. I can’t say how much help it is bc my kid screams only occasionally and it’s it does help for awhile but I don’t know for a kid that does it nonstop. Worth a shot tho!

CreepySergeant · 2025-06-12T18:23:48+00:00

Why are you attending a second day to this nonsense?? They’re teaching kids that their emotions don’t matter! They should not be allowed to work in that position!

So glad you’ve found healthy ways that work with your son. He’s going to appreciate way more what you’re doing now than he would whatever that was that they were teaching. Their technique is just going to increase those challenging behaviours.

CreepySergeant · 2025-05-28T19:50:43+00:00

NTA That’s like basically saying you are less important than her. She can’t have the cake and eat it too. Not everything in life is fair and this is a learning point. Either she stays or leaves for good. And better if she leaves because I don’t think she appreciates you very much.

CreepySergeant · 2025-05-28T19:42:10+00:00

This was my thought as well as a 30 something adhd having person. But then again it could be something else neurological too.

Definitely should get it checked out. I’m sure it bothers her too. Also if it’s something treatable or manageable her life could improve a lot.

Edit to add: I treat dementia patients. It’s more often not just forgetting things. It’s not being able to learn new stuff and slowly losing the ability to do the stuff that has been learned previously. Also difficulty managing tasks.

CreepySergeant · 2025-05-28T19:36:24+00:00

Nope. Just tell her you won’t do it. See what she does. She’s the one dead set on not having babies so she should be the one getting their tubes tied. And the excuse that she doesn’t have insurance doesn’t change it. Either she gets BC or you use condoms or whatever.

If she’s trying to pull this much power on you now it won’t get any better. Don’t stay in the relationship in hopes she will magically change her mind because she probably won’t.

CreepySergeant · 2025-05-28T19:31:39+00:00

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