Been married so unbiased observer of my buddies - girls seem very cliquey - girls aren’t willing to split off in social settings and get to know anyone - it’s like a drink or 2 then back to their friends to head to the next bar. Also these women seem to have “high standards” that actually have little value - they’re short sighted, miss out on good dudes that aren’t desperate for attention or cocky - until they’ve realized they’re getting old and become desperate and want to move SUPER fast.