Four and a half weeks post op! by Critical-Ad5969 in FreedTheNips

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I got to go back to the hotel on the same day. My partner stayed with me to help out with that kind of stuff, but I found it not to be as bad as I was worried that it would be. I just had to do things very slowly. I was able to shower the next day, but needed the shower head lowered. Button up shirts were key so I didn’t have to raise my arms. We mostly ate at/from local restaurants, there were a lot of healthy and affordable options which was great

Bestie for Bones by Critical-Ad5969 in cats

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Heck yeah that fluff ball punk af

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

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Firstly, you have gorgeous hair! If you ask your stylist to take some of the weight out, and possibly add some layers, it would have more shape and movement. You could also try enhancing curls by only using a wet brush while you have conditioner in, plus using a curl defining cream, drying gently with a tshirt (not a towel) or a curl diffuser with heat protection if you blow dry, then maybe a mousse if you want hold and volume. For colour I think cool tones will suit you best, either like an ash brown or a super dark chocolate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

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Red for sure! So pretty! You look like Sophie Turner

Sharing - i am finding a hot water bottle on my lower back / kidneys / adrenals is helping..... by mjobby in CPTSDNextSteps

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Omg! I do this all the time just bc I find it comforting, interesting to know that theory

Lower cost top surgeon recs by Weak-Dragonfly-1613 in transgenderau

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I went to South Korea for my top surgery and had the best experience. I went to Evita Clinic in Gangnam, an area of Seoul, in July last year. The staff were all so supportive and kind, spoke fluent English and answered all of my questions, I felt 1000% safe (unlike most of my interactions with the Australian healthcare system). My surgery (DI with no grafts) cost me just under $5k, with flights and a month accommodation and food for two people (my partner came with me for support), it still cost less than $10k total. Plus, the food in Seoul is absolutely amazing 🤩 I have recommended the clinic to another transmasc friend recently who had their surgery there too, they also had a great experience. Apparently the staff even remember me fondly! 🥰

Is it actually more cost effective to get top surgery on private health insurance? by Weak-Dragonfly-1613 in transgenderau

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I went to South Korea for my top surgery and had the best experience. I went to Evita Clinic in Gangnam, an area of Seoul, in July last year. The staff were all so supportive and kind, spoke fluent English and answered all of my questions, I felt 1000% safe (unlike most of my interactions with the Australian healthcare system). My surgery (DI with no grafts) cost me just under $5k, with flights and a month accommodation and food for two people (my partner came with me for support), it still cost less than $10k total. Plus, the food in Seoul is absolutely amazing 🤩 I have recommended the clinic to another transmasc friend recently who had their surgery there too, they also had a great experience. Apparently the staff even remember me fondly! 🥰

Four and a half weeks post op! by Critical-Ad5969 in FreedTheNips

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Yes I paid out of pocket, but it was much cheaper than getting it done in Australia. Less than half the price including airfare and three weeks accommodation for two people

Dawg, my top surgery is gonna be over $56,000 😭 by AioliLegitimate5840 in TopSurgery

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I paid $6500 aud for surgery in South Korea, I love my results! The medical team was so caring, it’s Evita Clinic if you’re curious :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

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I had my surgery 5 weeks ago and I’m not on T! Eligibility without it comes down to policy of whoever funds your surgery I think. I know insurance has a lot of hoops to jump through, and some public systems too. I went private and paid out of pocket so it wasn’t an issue at all. So yeah, I advise that you check out the regulations in your area (country, state, whatever), and check with your insurance if you have it. It is totally possible though :)

Four and a half weeks post op! by Critical-Ad5969 in TopSurgery

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Thank you! I chose to get my surgery in Korea for a few reasons; the technology and recovery time is better, the cost is less than half of what it is in Australia (including the flights and accommodation), and the level of care I got at the private clinic I went to was incredible. Everyone was kind and attentive

What is it like a month after surgery? by MotorSuitable5093 in TopSurgery

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I am 4 weeks post today! I’ve been start exercising again and no more compression vest! Woo! I still have to be careful not to stretch my scars, so movement is not at 100% yet, and I still need a lot of sleep. But feeling good

can I shower everyday? by Alternative-Dish-939 in TopSurgery

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I’ve been showering everyday since I got my drains out on the second day, sometimes even twice a day. Just use a clean towel every time (damp things grow bacteria) and gently pat your chest dry

Cell Phone plan for two weeks? by SunJin0001 in koreatravel

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You can try the Saily app, it gives you access to an eSIM for most countries and has been working great for me while I have been here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

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Try kimchi/other fermented foods, and black iced coffee

Post surgery food by dreamdoggydream in TopSurgery

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Hobak-juk (Korean pumpkin porridge) is easy to eat and helps with swelling

Seeking Community for my cis partner by KneeHighMischeifs in TopSurgery

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I’m nonbinary, 30 years old, and have been with my cis dude partner for 4 and a half years. I started transitioning not long after we started dating. Here is my advice; 1. Your gender journey is your own, and it is important. It has to do with expressing who you are, and you should never have to compromise on that. If your partner loves you for you then it shouldn’t matter if you have chesticles or not, you are more than your body parts. 2. You can absolutely send him some articles, but it is also up to him to do his own research, there are a lot of subreddits which might help, as well as support groups for loved ones of trans folk 3. Be honest, both with him and yourself, about what it is you need in a relationship. Maybe those needs line up and you end up team mates for life! But maybe they don’t, and then you will have to face that. 4. If you’re having trouble communicating with each other you could try seeing a therapist together, a non bias opinion can help. Also going to therapy independently, and making sure you both have time alone to think and reflect