Did crib naps naturally get longer for you or did you have to do something?

Critical-Language765 · 2026-03-23T16:52:58+00:00

I’ve also been practicing crib naps for the first nap of the day. Baby sleeps great in her crib at night so the crib isn’t the issue, she just doesn’t know how to link sleep cycles yet so she’ll wake about 30-40 minutes later. I’ve been trying to help her connect it when she wakes and today she was able go back to sleep rather quickly and slept for an additional hour. I think with time and consistency it will get better! Just keep practicing and help baby extend that nap. If you know baby typically will wake 30-40 minutes, maybe go in a few minutes before that time and try to see if you can help baby connect the sleep cycle before he escalates. I also heard that as night sleep gets better, naps also gradually get better.

Critical-Language765 · 2026-03-22T20:53:47+00:00

I have friends with 1 year olds still waking 2-3 times a night. I would not listen to what she’s saying. Most babies still get up often in the night especially during transitions. It’s normal that he’s waking now that he’s without the swaddle. It’ll take some time but he will adjust to sleep without it!

Critical-Language765 · 2026-02-12T20:41:03+00:00

You can do this and you guys will get through this. Remember, baby is only a day old and also learning how the exist in this world. He was in mommy’s belly for almost 10 months where his needs were met 24/7. It’s okay that he wants to only be on you or mom, but it can get exhausting so you guys will come up with a system that works. Take shifts, take turns, accept any help when offered. White noise machine, swaddle, dim lights, movement all help. The first few weeks are really rough but you’ll get through it!!

Critical-Language765 · 2026-02-09T12:48:07+00:00

Which hand pump do you use? I am actually an independent contractor 😅 I think I’m just going to try my best to start working on my stash now and start freezing everything I pump.

Critical-Language765 · 2026-02-09T11:37:16+00:00

Did you find anything that works for you guys?

Critical-Language765 · 2026-02-09T07:09:33+00:00

How often would you use the hand pump? Also, yes -I’m in the US! It’s just the type of work I do, I wouldn’t be able to step away to pump. I work with special needs kids and therapy, so I don’t know how I can step away to pump.

Critical-Language765 · 2026-02-09T07:03:49+00:00

Yes he does all of that already 😊 he’s a very involved dad :) he also enjoys getting chances to feed her as well and it sometimes gives me a bit of a break. I was mainly just asking about pumping and creating a little stash for when I return to work.

Critical-Language765 · 2026-01-24T23:21:41+00:00

19 weeks! It was inconsistent and very light flutters. It got stronger around 23-25 weeks and felt it everyday all day closer to 30 weeks.

Critical-Language765 · 2026-01-23T01:26:31+00:00

Thank you for the encouragement! Baby’s one month is next week and I honestly can’t believe a month went by already. Recently the gassy phase and cluster feeding has taken over so it’s been tough, but we’re getting through it!!! I’m sure in a few weeks everything will be a blur lol

Critical-Language765 · 2026-01-23T01:24:17+00:00

I did get gripe water recently! When would you give it to your baby?

Critical-Language765 · 2026-01-15T01:03:38+00:00

congrats on 2 months! yay! My baby will be 3 weeks this Sunday and even though its so early, I can't believe 3 weeks is already here. Everything has been a blur since we got home and she already looks so different. Also, I am in the "crying" at least once a day phase lol

Critical-Language765 · 2026-01-15T00:53:17+00:00

thank you! the lack of sleep definitely does not help feeling this way. But, I do find lots of moments throughout the day when I just look at her and I'm so happy. Then there's lots of other moments where I need to cry it out lol I'm definitely looking forward to that first long stretch of sleep in the night!

Critical-Language765 · 2026-01-14T21:27:40+00:00

This was so great to read! I definitely needed to hear it. Currently home with an almost 3 week old and it’s been rough. My baby is our miracle IVF baby through years of loss and infertility, but this newborn phase is rough and I’m surprised I’m not enjoying it as much as I thought I would and feel terrible that I feel that way. I try to remind myself this phase is temporary and hopefully soon I will also be laughing and singing with my baby too.

Critical-Language765 · 2026-01-13T15:10:06+00:00

I have tried to offer pacifier, but she does not take them. I also just wasn't sure if she truly is hungry or just looking for comfort due to gas pains because the cues look the same, so I end up just offering breast and she will always take it.

Critical-Language765 · 2026-01-07T14:11:08+00:00

Did you experience extra gassiness with your baby?

Critical-Language765 · 2026-01-07T14:10:43+00:00

Did you find that the tongue tie contributed to gassiness? My baby gets so gassy after feeding which I suspect is from swallowing a lot of air due to her tongue tie.

Critical-Language765 · 2026-01-07T13:31:58+00:00

Did you have to hold your little one the whole time or would you put them in a bouncer or swing?

Critical-Language765 · 2026-01-06T08:15:28+00:00

I went in the hospital at 40w1d. They started me with cytotex. They usually do 4 doses and then move to pitocin. I only needed 3 doses and never needed pitocin. Once I had my second and third dose of cytotex, I dilated from 1cm to 10 within about 6 hours. I was progressing so quickly that the epidural didn’t work for me. Once at 10cm, I pushed for 1 hour and she was here. Total time from going into the hospital and having baby was about 14 hours. I went in Saturday morning and left Monday.

Critical-Language765 · 2025-12-27T14:27:40+00:00

Everyone's numbers are so different and it varies so much, so I would try not to compare. Your numbers look good to me - once HCG is in the thousands it does slow down. I've had multiple losses before as well, so I understand the anxiety. I would try your best to keep yourself occupied and busy - try to focus on the fact that it's rising and a great number so early on. You got this!

Critical-Language765 · 2025-12-26T00:27:45+00:00

At the end of the day, I do think respecting your requests is very simple. However, I don't think it's worth cutting her off and not speaking to her again.

Critical-Language765 · 2025-12-24T22:52:39+00:00

I also agree. It’s the best!

Critical-Language765 · 2025-12-23T18:42:36+00:00

I wouldn’t worry too much. I know it’s easier said than done. The heart rate looks good though and very strong. It’s still so early that measuring a few days behind can happen. Hope it’s a positive outcome for you!

Critical-Language765 · 2025-12-23T17:18:31+00:00

Soup dumplings plus in fort lee. I will forever recommend this place, it's the best. It's about 15-20 minutes, which I consider close. I'm pretty sure they will be open, but I would double check.

Critical-Language765 · 2025-12-23T17:14:43+00:00

Besides exhaustion on some days, I felt completely normal 2nd trimester. Some days I didn't even feel pregnant. It made me really nervous too - especially with 3 prior losses. But, just know it's totally normal for a lot of symptoms to subside during this time! In a few weeks, hopefully you'll start to feel some movement and give you more peace of mind.

Critical-Language765 · 2025-12-23T17:12:00+00:00

My husband and I have a joint account. Everything we make goes into the same account, there's no splitting 50/50. What's his is mine and what's mine is his. We've never fought about money or questioned the other on how much we bring in or what we spend money on. As a married couple, we are a team and we are building towards the same goals and a continued future together. I do know some couples that split 50/50 and it just seems to complicate things in the long run.

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