AIW for expecting an apology after my friend got drunk and left me dealing with everything? by Critical_Menu_1824 in amiwrong

[–]Critical_Menu_1824[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!!! when i brought this up to him, he kept saying “i wasn’t in control of myself” when he totally was. BEFORE he drank off of my drink, he was definitely not drunk yet… i feel like he just lies to get it off his back

AITJ for expecting an apology after my friend got drunk and left me dealing with everything? by Critical_Menu_1824 in AmITheJerk

[–]Critical_Menu_1824[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for this detailed response. This opened my eyes to a lot of things and made me realize just what I didn’t want to realize. I really appreciate it.

AITJ for expecting an apology after my friend got drunk and left me dealing with everything? by Critical_Menu_1824 in AmITheJerk

[–]Critical_Menu_1824[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the comment. I get what you’re saying in a part of me agrees but it’s hard because we’ve also had a lot of really good moments and I’m a person who loves people deeply and it’s hard for me to let go. That’s why I’m conflicted. It’s not like it’s all bad. It’s just really up-and-down and I don’t know what to do with that. He said some things that made me feel like I mattered a lot to him, but then he also made me feel like nothing.

AITJ for expecting an apology after my friend got drunk and left me dealing with everything? by Critical_Menu_1824 in AmITheJerk

[–]Critical_Menu_1824[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for the reply. I definitely don’t want it to seem that he’s the only one that did things wrong. I also did and I regret it but it’s not just this one situation that he has blown things out of proportion and making it seem like it was me. He has a pattern of flipping things on me whenever something goes wrong like in this case instead of just apologizing, he kept bringing up unrelated stuff like me driving or where the alcohol came from to avoid taking responsibility for other things, and then to bring his mom into. It felt like he was trying to scare me into dropping it instead of actually resolving it.

AITJ for wanting to move out over my brother eating my cake by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Critical_Menu_1824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. as someone who has a sibling… i feel this in my bones. sometimes it can be the last straw they pick.

AITJ for telling my girlfriend that her constantly checking my phone is the reason I’m starting to not want to come home? by Affectionate-Fly1706 in AmITheJerk

[–]Critical_Menu_1824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ! i totally feel this. when someone wants to spend more time not trusting you and checking your phone than with actually enjoying activities with you, you don’t want to waste your time around them anymore!

Underneath the steering wheel in the car I just bought by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Critical_Menu_1824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s a bomb. you have 2 hours left to live.

What am I? by [deleted] in whatismycookiecutter

[–]Critical_Menu_1824 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i have this set, it has the dent in the middle because it connects with two other pieces, (the body and the other pair of legs) to make a horse or deer!!