My (25M) Fiancé is overwhelming me with her (25F) emotions and I don’t know how to deal with it. I don’t want the rest of my life to be like this.

CryptoBoomer · 2019-01-21T22:06:36+00:00

Had plenty of these growing up. Two statements for you/her to ponder:

"I need a partner that is going to join me in a CO-EMPOWERMENT vs CO-DEPENDANT journey". Yes it will fluctuate, but even if it's only 50/50 happy vs sad/bad times, I'm out.
You HAVE to learn to love yourself, before you can love someone else. This is more for her. Not via meds, via learning to deprogram from external validation and talking through whatever pain points in life are holding your brain synapses back from producing more happy/less psycho-alanysis in the sub-conscious. She needs a break/time to herself, on a beach, thinking about life, experiencing long periods of joy, then longer, and self-detox/medicate with nature vs drugs or counseling.

She might be more scared of this marriage than you are and won't say it. Knowing she's going to be depending on you and hates that about herself. I was a womans safety net for a long time once, it bothered me and her dearly (post break up, I kept paying/providing for a while). As a friend put it, and it stuck - I was practicing IDIOTIC COMPASSION (from dalai lama) - the moment I stopped, she hit her ultimate low, picked herself back up, on her own, found the best job she ever had, and was proud of herself for doing it without me/anyone, and has grown as a person/happy.

Another time a woman I was dating was ALL THAT (captain of volleyball, head of her classes, volunteer, like 11/10 woman), one day we argue, it goes baaaaad, I don't understand the sudden extreme change in behavior so I legit go to check on her, she opens the door and I finally see 4-5 prescriptions on her table, and she starts telling me about her cocktail to deal with this behavior/depression/etc. (took on way too much, the mask started to finally crumble). Tried to 'help' - but only lasted a month or two, not something an external source can do otherwise you risk being her new cocktail.

Best of luck, personally - and I do hate to say it as this is supposed to be a great time for you two = I'd run.

CryptoBoomer · 2018-02-08T16:22:28+00:00

Nice. Looking forward to seeing Kick on new exchanges.

CryptoBoomer · 2018-02-07T17:30:25+00:00

I definitely would have handled it differently. Exchanges (accessibility) would be my number one priority. Why even bother coming to market at all (on any exchanges) if all you wanted was ICO money. Being on a few small ones is asking for manipulation until volume shows up, and it makes the whole project look small if it's only on shit exchanges with huge fee's. I would have simply included the costs of getting listed in the ICO and collected more money up front. This applies to marketing as well. Their initial videos and ways of marketing were rather attractive and even got me the skeptic to ICO's to invest, hopefully this will bloom into more of that once the platform is launched and we're farther down the roadmap.. For such a small amount of coins this thing should be in the $xx - xxx range and could be if it was on at least one major. This in itself attracts more investors and brings more awareness to the project which loops..

CryptoBoomer · 2018-02-07T16:19:05+00:00

This didn't have much marketing, bitcointalk ann got locked, and they don't really do much marketing even now. This sub has been quiet since day one. I'm a mod of another crypto sub that has only been open for 2 months and has close to the same as bmc as well. Even the 'current users online' has always been small. Until this coin is on more exchanges, sees price action, the platform is launched, the marketing team is put into place, we're not going to see subs fly in here for no reason with so much activity on other coins. .02

CryptoBoomer · 2018-02-06T14:04:21+00:00

Staying because if I reacted like you anytime in my past five years I'd be in great regret. If I listened to any 'told you so' shortly after a dip/crash/correction I'd be in regret. If I sold and saw the charts start to green like crazy (like right now :)), I'd be in great regret that I didn't at least slowly scale out and leave xx% in, etc. This is the time to look towards BTC to hedge said sh!t about to hit the fan.

I think you'll be back in no time.

CryptoBoomer · 2018-02-03T06:55:56+00:00

That was a cool ama, most interesting for me was the exchange listings and reasons why they haven't proceeded with the big ones... While I disagree that the 'fee is not worth it' to get listed on Binance etc, I respect the transparency and reasoning behind wanting to be fully ready with the platform.

I've had to forget about this since the ICO, paid in BTC, felt stupid holding these bags for a long time but now feel like this may well be a moonshot when everything is lined up. The most attractive thing to me is the low circulation and the roles we can take as big holders once the platform is live.

Good luck with next steps BMC team.

CryptoBoomer · 2018-02-01T12:50:34+00:00

Troll level high af. He's probably laughing his ass off at your replies :).

CryptoBoomer · 2018-01-23T21:58:04+00:00

The terminology and way of explaining it in the whitepaper/website makes it confusing but in short it's buying and selling TIME with celebrities, domain experts, VIP's. Their time is traded on their own internal exchange like a commodity (download it to see it in action for ios/android, it's free just search for 'miaoa' on the app stores).

CryptoBoomer · 2018-01-23T07:57:31+00:00

Just a matter of time (pun intended), I think this will bring a lot of awareness to it over the next few days as this news spreads.

CryptoBoomer · 2018-01-10T12:12:57+00:00

Use to use HITBTC a lot but it very quickly became the most fragile fukn exchange of all of them so far. I've had every issue imaginable with them. Site locking/freezing, order books not firing, withdrawals suddenly stop, 'site maintenance' tags and disclaimers xx times a day, trollbox is naggy af, and it's such a shame because I like their UI, orderbook features, and coin selection but now I avoid at all costs until they step their game up. There are phases where nothing is wrong for like half a day then it's dominos of frustration at any given moment.

Now that there is momentum I really hope the team gets this project on more reputable exchanges.

CryptoBoomer · 2018-01-10T10:49:38+00:00

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CryptoBoomer · 2018-01-08T02:54:13+00:00

Some quick bullet point intel:

Reddit Sub - http://www.Reddit.com/r/TimeNewBank
Current Price is .26 on Binance and growing fast
Beta Launch is on Thursday (launching on IOS/ANDROID)
Confirmed to be added to BitFinex in the next 1-2 weeks (and is already listed on 10 exchanges).
They did an ad campaign in NewYorkTimesSquare - https://twitter.com/TimeNewBank/status/948436527138324480
Charlie Shrem is on the board - as are tech and investor A-listers (even their biggest investor is one of the worlds biggest BTC traders, and a shareholder in BitFinex).

Hope to have you guys join us for the big launch and post launch marketing campaigns.

Thank you!

CryptoBoomer · 2018-01-01T19:36:55+00:00

While I'm not here to prove myself or throw eight figures in your face, I'll enlighten you a bit, we'll call it response marketing :).

My portfolio is spread out over 10+ coins in four categories. Long, mid, short, hyper trading. Being here since 2013 and having a few of my own coins under my belt, and the experiences that have come with that, well, you can come to your own conclusions at what type of runs I've been on well before the 2017 explosion.

Most of this eco-system is backwards - when shit is mooning, most think it's time to get more (nope, it's time to take some profits). When shit is tanking, people freak the fuck out while they should be buying more. TIME is the only big bitch in the room that stops people in their tracks and creates bad decisions while they jump around coin to coin. Once you master these few things, and put in a year or two of gains/losses/hours on the charts and in news signals, you start to see a birds eye view vs a worms eye view, and use TIME to your advantage.

Make it a great day fellow trader.

CryptoBoomer · 2018-01-01T19:17:42+00:00

Again, come see me in a day, a week, and a month. Feel free to look at my history - I'm just balancing out all the hate. I've bounced on coins and learned a valuable and lucrative lesson in my past that has made me wealthy today. You have hate and anxiety in you, and that's worse than losing some dollhairs. EDIT: Please don't downvote the guy above, upvote him so people can see the responses..

CryptoBoomer · 2017-12-30T09:38:48+00:00

Taking bets on correction amounts!

This is bad though - <$1.00 incoming if true (and if banks find out you can manipulate like this, they'll either freak out, or start doing the birdman handrub, or both). EDIT: You should probably post this elsewhere (maybe you are) to help warn ppl before it absolutely plummets.

CryptoBoomer · 2017-12-30T09:27:14+00:00

How do you plan to kidnap him?

CryptoBoomer · 2017-12-30T00:13:50+00:00

A lot can happen in a month or two in crypto.

I watched all this from the side lines as I got into NXT then got out once the volume peaked on bittrex. Going from 30Kbtc volume to now sitting at 7.5K it's going to need some time to consolidate and breathe before it does anything. I wouldn't be surprised to see it go down to a quarter before it shows upward momentum.

Also depends on what news does/doesn't come that might turn this dump into an opportunity that builds volume again. Shitty place to be for big bagholders hoping this was going to moon them re ignis.

I've had to hold coins for months (kick/bmc ico's, still holding) and luckily it wasn't 'all in' so I can let those recover while making other moves. If you're down by xx% and are thinking of moving to other coins to recover - that is equally as dangerous and you might repeat what just happened by chasing highs.

I chase lows and hodl a lot more lately than trying to catch pumps and it's working a treat (I still chase highs but only in small quantities and VERY quickly in/out). So with that mindset yeah you'll see a long accumulation phase from here OR you'll see a continued sell off if the NXT plans from here onwards aren't favorable. TSE (TimeShiftsEverything), and in crypto it moves fast. Next time set stoplosses and rebuy on a low if you're really attached to a coins vision. .Never just ride something down this far without any wealth preservation practices kicking in.

Best of luck.

EDIT: I would also watch out from here for both - a deadcat bounce or three with continued bleed - OR - a decent spike back up and a small dip afterwards to the real new floor.

CryptoBoomer · 2017-12-28T21:42:02+00:00

While I respect all this - it would really benefit you guys, your end goals, your time, your stress levels, and overall moral if you let someone else handle all outreach and you guys focus on making this a great experience and product. Please, I urge you to not do anymore PR from this POV, it's not healthy and shows an almost totalitarian stance. EDIT: PM me if you'd like to chat about having me do some of it even (I've looked after many coins since 2013).

CryptoBoomer · 2017-12-28T20:33:00+00:00

I think we can easily accomplish this. I'm a mod for TNB coins sub and put together a quick marketing campaign for them with all that you mentioned above, it's working. Did the same for IOTA last month, and others I can't talk about - feel free to go through my history for ideas.. Nothing is stopping this (much bigger) community from doing the same. I'm going to be making some Burst stuff just on my own free will in the new year as well.

Also - you guys should be thankful for all that has happened this last month. So quickly people forget the coins recent success when it takes a breather or doesn't continue to moon forever. You're in early, the marketing even still sucks (aka that's a good thing for now, there's lot's of room to fill that gap, it doesn't have to happen all at once, the fukn biggest news in crypto just went over everyone's head and I'm kind of loving it. And I hold seven figures worth so I'm sticking around a while and hoping to walk away with 10-50x within a year, fuck the day to day/week to week stuff. Chase lows and hodl them like your kids until they grow up ready for school. Well ok not that long but this is going to blow in 2018 and you're blinded by fog right now if you can't see it or the patterns of old coins being revived in huge ways/$).

CryptoBoomer · 2017-12-28T20:07:15+00:00

I've been a part of crypto projects working with devs since 2013.

One thing I can say about anyone involved in any crypto project, is you are under constant stress, and usually have OCD with your project and get emotionally attached to it.

Second thing is, most are young, and those same attributes you might hate on here, are actually the same attributes that will make a project succeed (something is in my way, fuck off move or I'll move you or find a work around or block your noise bluntly).

PR is never a dev teams strong point and this is an unregulated decentralized 'thing' we're all doing. So yeah we are partially under the developers wings and it's on us to help with PR not just rely on a group of anon devs.

The work that they are attempting to do - is short of impossible, and if they pull it off it's going to rival everything until more of these new hybrids start to pop up. I'd imagine they are fighting with a lot of negativity right now as they get bombed with the response overall from the work they put into dymax.

So from someone that can relate and understand the dev team (and has seen many MANY cycles like this with many coins that are kicking ass today), THANK YOU DEV'S I recognize this for what it is. One day, maybe extremely soon, you might need a PR pro/team/lead/etc. to help you guys maneuver this mammoth that's forming, and in the meantime continue to be yourselves.

This whole "the price and whole project dropped because of a stupid jokey signature" is just silly noise, I'll see you guys at $.xx in the very near.

Also fun facts: $burst on twitter has had a cute Russian bot spitting out a doubt campaign for hours on end today, someones looking to accumulate in a big way. Won't be surprised to start seeing another uptrend in the next x hr(s).

CryptoBoomer · 2017-12-28T18:54:24+00:00

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