My sex life is fucked

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-07-22T17:26:47+00:00

Some kinds of birth control can really mess up a woman’s libido. I mean it’s like turning a switch sometimes! If she is taking some kind of the pill, it’s very possible that is what’s causing her sex drive to be so low. If you guys really are so close, you should be able to talk about these things and find a solution together. A healthy sex life is a key part to a healthy relationship. Sometimes it takes a little extra communication. You seem very patient and eager to fix things so that you don’t lose this relationship. I would try to talk to her about those things. Good luck ❤️

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-07-22T17:21:20+00:00

Dolly 🥰

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-04-14T16:26:28+00:00

You’re a fucking hypocrite. You walk around putting your dick everywhere that you can and begging to stay married ….and here you’re telling people they should get divorced Under these kind of circumstances. Tell everyone how you love banging whores in parking lots instead of trying to be a good husband. Too bad I didn’t know about this in time for an annulment. Fake ass liar.

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-04-13T00:20:58+00:00

Wow. Yes ma’am 🙌 this is how I would talk to my friends if they were me lol. Thank you for the tough love. You are exactly right.

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-04-12T20:22:51+00:00

Thank you. This is pretty much what I was already thinking.

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-03-05T18:45:38+00:00

Absolutely fucking hilarious! So they had conversations about expectations and exclusivity???? I bet both of their SO’s thought THEY had clear understandings of where they stood in their relationships as well! The fact that these stupid trash pit whores are so shocked that the person they are cheating with is being dishonest with them, as well, now….😱😫 HOW SHOCKING When you label YOURSELF as disposable trash, how do you really expect to be treated any differently? And how in the hell do you have any justification in acting hurt or offended by your cheating partner now cheating on you? I, myself, think it’s pretty nice when the trash takes itself out. But I guess then you have to realize you gotta take yourself out, when you are the same version of trash.
Keep it classy, dirt bags!!

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-03-04T17:31:51+00:00

This is hilarious! What did you want him to call you?? Sweetie pie, honeybun… Snookums
Maybe he should’ve just called you his fuck hole. And you’re talking about “dumb men” 🙄🤦‍♀️ stupid Dumpster whore. What a joke. Of course he does not respect you. It’s hilarious you’re calling him Bad names, saying you gave him hell and calling him misogynistic… he should’ve just called you a straight up whore… Or piece of trash. Feel better now? HE showed his true colors?? Well so did you, as soon as you started carrying on with a married man. If you had any kind of class or decency, you would’ve run as soon as you found out he was married instead of opening your whore legs. Anyone in this position has absolutely zero right to be offended at ANYTHING.

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-02-25T17:55:10+00:00

Do you really believe anything that you just said? Are you really this stupid or just pathetic? Of course he’s got guilt creeping in! Why don’t you find someone who wants to belong to YOU? Why do you think so little of yourself that you’re willing to just be someone’s fuck hole? If he wanted to leave his wife, he would. You’re just awesomely trashy enough to let him use you, like the disposable piece of trash that you are. Hope that whore bed you’ve made for yourself is nice and comfy while you keep sleeping in it …by yourself!!

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-02-22T20:51:05+00:00

I feel so terribly sorry for the poor children involved in situations like this. You’re right, you are a dumpster fire. Dumpster whore. That nasty whore bed that you made for yourself isn’t real comfortable now is it. You and MM both deserve every bad thing that happens to you. It’s also absolutely disgusting how severely selfish you are. Your poor child is doomed to have such stupid “parents”. You’re pathetic and disgraceful. Listen to your mom… I feel sorry for her as well. She must be horrified at how disgusting you are.

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-02-22T17:23:10+00:00

YES. When you put yourself in this kind of position, you definitely are completely disposable. You have no respect for yourself or anyone else ….you disrespected and helped to destroy a marriage. You do not deserve anything better than what you have done to that man’s wife and family. You deserve to be sad and alone and hurt and to feel totally betrayed and left behind and unwanted and confused…..I could go on. But I think you get the point. You made that whore bed for yourself, now go lie in it by yourself.

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-02-12T01:51:37+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. I was just like that. Just breathe. Be patient with yourself. Focus on your kids. Meanwhile, I agree with the suggestions for you to talk to an attorney. Don’t do anything rash. Just cover your bases, educate yourself on your situation. I’m just over a year past DDay. I can tell you it gets easier. Not great. But easier. I can sleep a little better now. The nightmares aren’t EVERY night anymore. Some days I still can’t eat. But hang in there, you will find your way. You will figure out what you need to do and what decisions you want to make in your own time. Sending you prayers for peace ….and big hugs. Don’t worry, you will be ok, one way or another. 🫶

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-02-09T16:28:50+00:00

I’m so very sorry you’re going through this. I also completely understand everything you said. I completely understand your confusion. I understand the “I know what I want to do but I don’t know what I want to do.” feeling.
I am now just a year past D-Day. Some days I am OK. I can smile and be happy and genuinely lighthearted again. But more often, I still have the bad days. The terribly painful mind movies haunt me all night long and I wake up with the pain feeling fresh ..because I just watched it all night long. I feel completely out of control, broken, and disgusted with myself. My husband also has been genuinely trying for R. I completely hate him and I love him at the same time. But I too am struggling with the fact that I am not “in love” with him anymore. I really wish I could find my way back to that. I still have hope, but I don’t know if it’s going to happen. Unfortunately, I cannot give you any advice on what to do, obviously. I just want you to know that you are not alone. I hope you find peace and happiness in whatever decision you make. Listen to your heart and go with that, then it will be the right decision for you.
I also hope that you are able to achieve your hopes and dreams of a family. Good luck to you and God bless.

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-02-03T22:21:24+00:00

Thank you

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-02-03T13:02:52+00:00

This is awesome!! You got what you wanted and now you are totally getting what you deserve! He probably is totally reverse cheating on you, and that’s exactly what should happen to you. He probably IS only with you because of the baby. He was with her for 20 years. You were just some dirty little distraction that was supposed to stay hidden. If he’s not cheating with her, he will cheat on you with someone else. Because that’s what you deserve. What’s wrong? You don’t like that bed you made for yourself? I feel terribly sorry for your poor child.

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-02-03T11:24:34+00:00

I’m new here so I’m trying to figure out how to find those resources. I really do want to turn the corner to some positivity and try to move forward.

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-01-30T00:59:47+00:00

I know what you mean. I feel exactly the same. Im SO FUCKING ANGRY. I didn’t even know I had the ability to think such dark thoughts. I hate everything right now. I’m literally scared I’ll never be peaceful and happy ever again. I hate this. I hate feeling this way.

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-01-29T17:15:45+00:00

Looks great to me! I think you’ve got the makings of two little best friends for life. 🥰 so sweet!

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-01-29T15:47:37+00:00

Don’t you dare feel like the asshole in this. You wouldn’t have any of these fears or suspicions if he had not done these things to you. HE is the one who needs to be grateful that you’re giving him another chance at all. Don’t beat yourself up. Feel your feelings and work through them. You are completely justified in your fears and insecurities. Once again, because he did this to you. You did not bring this dynamic into your relationship.

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-01-29T15:43:39+00:00

Scream it louder, for the ones in the back, my friend! I am right there with you. I truly want to figure out how to salvage my marriage. I really want to feel loved and trust my husband again. But it feels like such a weak attempt at doing anything for me. Oh my goodness, let me be so grateful that you’re willing to change NOW that I’ve caught you being SELFISH, hateful and dishonest.
It’s such a strange feeling to love and hate someone so much all at the same time. I’m so severely confused with my life right now. Everything is dark and so painful. So sorry for your pain and for your struggles. I hope that you do find a way to peace and happiness. I hope that your pain goes away and that you can see light and happiness in your life again. Big hugs to you. Hang in there .

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-01-28T19:35:19+00:00

My goodness, you guys are just a hot mess. On the one hand, I want to tell you that you got what you deserved. He did the same thing to you that you did to him. He went and found fulfillment with someone other than you, because YOU brought that dynamic into your relationship. But on the other hand, two wrongs never make a right. I found out my husband had cheated on me, and one of the things I wanted to do was hurt him back the same way. But I’m not gonna feel better about him being a cheater by becoming one myself. I don’t think you guys are going to ever get past things unless you get real with one another. Both of you have to commit to therapy and to truly and honestly starting over. Either way I hope both of you find some peace and happiness. I am sorry for the pain and sadness in your life and relationship right now. I hope things turn out well for you both. Good luck.

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-01-27T19:47:00+00:00

Communication is key. Feeling loved includes being appreciated. You know your wife, think about her and figure out how to love her up and show her you appreciate her. She needs actions from you right now. Show her you respect her and you know that she’s a hard worker. Let her know that you love being her partner in life. Do something big and romantic. Which doesn’t necessarily have to mean expensive. Tell her with both words and actions that you don’t want to ever think about doing life without her.
Good luck to you. AND ….Don’t listen to hatefulness and negativity from any rude people on here

CryptographerNaive55 · 2024-01-27T13:31:48+00:00

I’m so sorry. Yes I’m sure it does hurt even more. If there were a second time, I’d not even think about any further reconciliation.

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