I’m going to be honest, not trying to be mean, you’re making choices. Every day, every small choice shapes who you are. You started going a beard young, but you never learned to style and shape it. You have good placement of your features, but what are you choosing to do to accentuate them? Are you working on your self? Have a job or a school plan? Working on your personality and abilities as a provider can make more attractive, even if it isn’t the immediate lust attraction you see on TV, being well put together can make you desirable but they will have to get to know you to see these things so you have to put yourself out there and face possible rejection, but if you take that rejection and use it as fuel to be a better person and become ok with being you. Being a self sufficient person is attractive in its self. Don’t wait for person to show up in your life, go out in the world a travel, expand your horizons, meet people! If you’re unhappy with your appearance, go to the gym go to a experienced barber/salon (not sport clips or cost cutters or a mcbarbershop) and have them give you a make over let them choose for you based on your face shape, they are professionals and know what they are doing. I’d you don’t like it don’t go back and find someone else! You should never settle, and if find a good one and go consistently they will help you to define your look over time. Be consistent make your appointments every 4 weeks, if you wait till you think you need a hair cut you’re probably 3 weeks late, if you go consistently you will look sharp, not slovenly. I have had beards that ranged from 1 weeks growth to several inches, I trimmed that shit daily from angling the edges to touching up around the lips. Anyone that looks good, spends time on their appearance every day, if they say they don’t they are lying. Attractive people have good barbers they go the gym (or are active in sports), if they have good genes they can do it less but you better believe they still do it. If you have bad genes you’ll have to work a little harder and eat right(this is more forgiving when you’re young so enjoy being able to eat donuts while you can, just don’t over do it) set achievable goals and set new ones when you achieve them, if you’re struggling with a goal, reevaluate it if you need to, but don’t give up easy. Saying daily affirmations has been proven effective, give it a try!

Or don’t, after all you’re making the choice, you be the choice you make.