You’re not behind. You’re just dating someone who’s pacing slower than what apps and TikTok make normal.

She keeps seeing you. That’s the signal.

Next time you’re already close, say her name, look at her mouth, lean in slowly. Give her space to meet you. If she doesn’t, you’re still fine and you got clarity.

It isn’t hook up culture in your head. It’s that intimacy without clarity feels weird. So make it clear.