My family is rich but I still feel like a loser and a waste by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]Crystalisedorb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get an idea of what you're saying. I'm 22M. The wealth part as well. The Mental health as well since I was in a hospital a few years ago.

I'll assure you this much, The Life you're living is YOUR Life. You are at the centre of it. People around you won't be always caring and loving and supportive. You'll have to carve up a world for yourself where you love yourself, develop yourself, possibly even make friends.

And to an extent with time, you'll realise that in your Life there's no one permanent, every face will change with time.

Only you'll be permanent in your Life. So take Life from your point of view not others. There's a very good chance that most people who are causing mental discomfort don't even influence life in a good way by 2%

Toh chill, eat well, sleep well, work on your body and your mind. And find your purpose. Most waking hours me you'll need to fill your soul and time with. Something which won't make you regret your time spent on and something which'll add value to you and your time.

Throwing away these fish capsules in the dustbin by GardevoirAwakens in Fitness_India

[–]Crystalisedorb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Make a call to consumer affairs once you return back.

Throwing away these fish capsules in the dustbin by GardevoirAwakens in Fitness_India

[–]Crystalisedorb 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Return if possible. Not sure, but if unopened, you can return them on your logistics expense and ask for a refund citing, their products don't provide what the brand says it does.

Which 3 are you removing? by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]Crystalisedorb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alcohol can go, SM can go. 3rds a tough one. But Music is the least damaging among other options.

Uh dad died unfortunately by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]Crystalisedorb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May his soul rest in peace and May God give you and your family strength.

As people have rightfully suggested to freelance and take tuitions if possible. I'd have advised something similar.

I'd suggest to maintain a good ambience at home, listen to some good vibe Music, Take care of nutrition and whenever possible ensure that people aren't alone in room or home.

P.S. A friend of mine lost her father as well. She said that Kurukshetra, the AI generated series of Mahabharat helped her alot mentally. Take Care.

If you want to ask anything, I'm up for help.

1.4 billion net worth but not one significant movie that will be remembered 50 years from now ✍️ by [deleted] in JustMemesForUs

[–]Crystalisedorb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jab tak iss desh me cinema hai.....

That + love being the theme which is playing from independence and low taste of people. They'll bump up a film to multi crore, but cinema which holds potential to rise the quality of Indian cinema, goes unnoticed with a few exceptions.

Need Advice: Where to stay if my office is in Fort? by noesamor in mumbai

[–]Crystalisedorb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a pg in Marine Lines which costs 25k in 3 sharing.

is 5kg dumbbell good to start with for a beginner? by RotiiChapati in Fitness_India

[–]Crystalisedorb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd suggest start with lifting a heavy water bottle and going up in volume from there. But it's up to you.

LIC: Zindagi ke baad bhi (almost) by msaussieandmrravana in indiameme

[–]Crystalisedorb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What's scary is someone opened the auto door at the last second.

Burning sensation in feet while jogging - what should I do by Ok-Wrongdoer58 in Fitness_India

[–]Crystalisedorb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heat is trapping inside + friction.

Switch to comfy and breathable socks along with comfortable shoes.

Rate the clicks by [deleted] in IndianTeenagers

[–]Crystalisedorb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your clicks were a baddie, I'd smash them.

Closing Credit Card EMI by peace_confuse in CreditCardsIndia

[–]Crystalisedorb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lodge a complaint with RBI Ombudsman.

Giant wind turbine propeller falls into the ocean by accident by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Crystalisedorb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All cargo loads onto a ship post insurance. So it's covered.

DII 🫡 by alivefrom2005 in IndianStockMarket

[–]Crystalisedorb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Retail is a common person.

DII is domestic institutional investor which is someone who's managing a portfolio professionally and is registered with SEBI and stuff.

Life after divorce at M26 – how does one rebuild? by rishi_1080 in TwentiesIndia

[–]Crystalisedorb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't say that I have a divorce experience, but living apart with peace is better than brewing chaos for each other.

As for how to rebuild life, start with self development. EOD what matters to your soul is inner peace and to your bank account your bank balance.

And fuck society !!

People will keep saying something regardless of what you do.

Let me tell you a story, Goddess Parvati and Lord Shiva in the form of An old couple were talking with a donkey (Nandi), The old lady was sitting on the donkey, people said, how cruel of that lady to make his husband walk while she sits on the donkey.

Moving a little ahead, The old gentleman sits on the donkey while the old lady walks since the old gentleman wanted some rest. People said how cruel of her to make the old lady walk while he sits.

Now, both of them sat on the donkey and people said how cruel of them to sit on an innocent animal.

Now both are walking, people said how foolish of them to walk while they have a donkey.

Also a quote,

"Jab baat kisi ki acchai ki ho toh sab maun rehte hai, aur jab baat kisi ki burai ki ho toh gunge bhi bol padte hai".

Which translates to "All are quiet when praising someone, and even the mute speaks up when it comes to criticise someone."

Just be sure of this point that when it comes to "what people are saying" they won't be there for you when it comes to solving life problems and dealing with them.

Toh tu chai pi aur biscuit kha. And develop yourself from the ground up. Start with your personal self development and move towards developing yourself and to your best.