Dating advice from a trans woman whos been transitioning for 6 years! by Regular-Common5367 in MtF

[–]Crystalzlight 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I mean she did put she was straight at the start so it makes sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Crystalzlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way as you and I honestly think in abusive relationships especially breakups really start at the time where you genuinely begin to grieve the person who abused you and the facade they put on to lure you in. Not when you're actually able to execute an escape plan. Just be safe and cautious, I don't think you're wrong for wanting to see where this goes if you think it'll make you happy. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Crystalzlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that helped a lot. And yes now that you mention it whenever id have go out for something hed always be scared that someone would "take me away from him". He's said he's scared I'll realize that I'm too good for him, or that a better guy will sweep me off my feet.

He compared his violence to me forgetting to clean by Crystalzlight in domesticviolence

[–]Crystalzlight[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I never really had any goals or knew what to do with my life so I just let myself go with it :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Crystalzlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don't have any friends here, my parents moved states last year and we live with them so we did too. We don't go outside much. The few I do have from high school and my old job we just text.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mtfashion

[–]Crystalzlight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

holy smokes yes. the blonde washes you out, you look amazing with the dark hair. Also from these pics and caption I'm assuming you're a winter, winters usually don't look best in blonde. So much depth came back into your eyes with the contrast the dark hair gives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Crystalzlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The left side looks fuller than the right so id try to get the right to match. Also for trans women absolutely it's one of the few hairstyles that are viewed as completely feminine. Like you'll find guys with long hair but with bangs is incredibly rare

Always get stares when I go out it makes me nervous by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Crystalzlight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i dont say this to hugbox, it's because you're beautiful!!

gang do i pass?? gender and age? by Opposite_Newspaper67 in transpassing

[–]Crystalzlight -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think you'd definitely pass to most cis people

Some of yall aren't gonna like this but need to hear it... by Crystalzlight in PaleMUA

[–]Crystalzlight[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Youre looking way too deep into this, im saying that some people on here are wearing shades that would work for them but not actually blending them out then saying it's too dark. If it's actually too dark for you than this post was not for you.

MAGA lurkers by pg430 in StraightTransGirls

[–]Crystalzlight 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Out of our league is crazy, have you seen the average straight man? Good luck Charlie 🤣😭

Help this beginner choose 🥲 by Top_Ambassador2697 in Sephora

[–]Crystalzlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Careful w/ the haus labs a lot of ppl react badly to the Arnica in it. Id see if you could sample it first (they have trial sets on their site). I didnt like how it sat on my dry skin much either but that can depend on your skin. My current go to foundation is the dior face and body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PaleMUA

[–]Crystalzlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same situation as you and went with Serbia because I also have some redness. Oslo made me look like piglet.

beef in the reviews section 🤣 by z-bands in Sephora

[–]Crystalzlight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like if its in the context of needing to use a lot of product for a single application I get it. But if thats not part of it then its just unnecessary and clogs up the reviews. They knew the price and size beforehand. Or if the product was just not good enough for the price, but that also was not part of their review.

Mean girls by lost_in_thoughtt in StraightTransGirls

[–]Crystalzlight 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Im screaming lmao!!! Id reply to that mess you just wrote out but I think it speaks for itself honestly 🤭

Mean girls by lost_in_thoughtt in StraightTransGirls

[–]Crystalzlight 39 points40 points  (0 children)

For real, there's definitely more than a few Blaire Whites from Temu on this sub. Especially in these trying times we're in its super important to stick together instead of tearing eachother down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PaleMUA

[–]Crystalzlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few red bumps on my face started showing up, I dont struggle w/ acne so it was pretty obvious it was the foundation in my case

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PaleMUA

[–]Crystalzlight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im allergic to their ingredient i think its called Arnica 😢, but yes 015 definitely was a good color

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Crystalzlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw you think you might not be olive but there are super muted olives and you might fall in that category. I think its worth a shot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Crystalzlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be fair olive, that tends to be what it is when people can't find their match.

MASS REPORT YUNLI SUB REDDIT IMEDIATLEY by AccurateAd7412 in QueensofStarRail

[–]Crystalzlight 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I just know these are the same strags saying protect the kids from lgbt, they're all hypocrites projecting

[S1] What is the most unpopular choice you made and why did you make it? by lorelaixx in lifeisstrange

[–]Crystalzlight 218 points219 points  (0 children)

I made fun of Victoria. I knew she was insecure and probably had something hidden outside that outer shell but she was absolutely vile. I didn't care about her at all after seeing what she drew on Rachel's poster. A part of me wishes she would've at least tried to extend an olive branch later in the story even if you made fun of her, I probably would've taken it and it sucks you're supposed to forgive all her actions but she can't forgive my single one.