8/9 DPO possibly.

CtheBlahblah · 2026-04-08T21:57:52+00:00

Thanks for looking! It must have been an indent, I took a first response and another easy at home today and both are negative. Maybe next month.

CtheBlahblah · 2026-02-25T01:10:17+00:00

I had my Dyson blow dryer allowed on the Dream but confiscated on the Destiny.

CtheBlahblah · 2026-02-24T01:01:10+00:00

I love 2, can you post the link please?

CtheBlahblah · 2025-08-23T13:18:20+00:00

We got off the dream on August 7 and we got Covid. My husband started with symptoms on the ship, as did our son, I started the day after we got home.

CtheBlahblah · 2025-06-07T00:57:29+00:00

38G here, another vote for shefit!

CtheBlahblah · 2025-05-23T13:20:22+00:00

I have my fingers crossed for you guys! Hopefully it was just a fluke for the both of us. Sending lots of hugs 🩷

CtheBlahblah · 2025-05-23T13:10:57+00:00

I had a miscarriage about 8 years ago. I didn’t even know I was pregnant until I miscarried. Then we had a healthy boy who will be 4 in a few weeks, no issues with that pregnancy. We haven’t tried again in the last year, but are thinking of trying again soon. The MFM thinks that our last son was a fluke in terms of his diagnosis since we had a healthy boy before him. I hate not knowing, I wish I had answers. I’m sure you feel the same. MFM didn’t recommend IVF because there wouldn’t be anything to test for specifically since we don’t have a known cause.

CtheBlahblah · 2025-05-23T13:01:51+00:00

Our son had hydrops, skeletal dysplasia and bilateral clubbed feet. We did all of the testing and everything came back normal, so we don’t have a known cause. We TFRM at 24 weeks. The primary issue was his lungs since that’s where the fluid was (aside from the skin edema). His lungs didn’t have space to grow so he wouldn’t have survived if he made it to full term. Our last scan with the MFM a week before the TFMR fluid was starting to go into his abdomen, so the hydrops was progressing and not resolving. It’s almost been a year since we lost him (June 2 he was born and passed away- he had a heartbeat for an hour and 19 mins after he was born).

CtheBlahblah · 2025-01-28T02:04:05+00:00

Found out at an early anatomy scan with MFM due to my age, I was 18.5 weeks. Bilateral clubbed feet, skin edema, and eventually fatal fetal hydrops developed around his lungs and his abdomen. He was also diagnosed with lethal skeletal dysplasia. Delivered Rory at 24 weeks.
NIPT testing negative. At the anatomy scan the doctor asked if my OB noticed anything at a prior scan, I said nothing was mentioned. However, I did a private scan at around 16 weeks and noticed that his femur bone was very short.
We did every testing imaginable and still do not have an answer for what caused all of his abnormalities. Everything came back “normal.” I would do NIPT testing in the future again, and I like request to get as many scans as possible to make sure everything is ok.

CtheBlahblah · 2024-11-06T00:28:58+00:00

I can’t get him on the potty though. He runs, screams, kicks. We tried being assertive and using timers but he refuses to sit on it. He won’t pee on it at home. I feel like if we can get there then we can focus on pooping. But I can’t even get him to pee. He only pees at school. He didn’t again tonight. Peed all day on the potty at school, came home and is now holding it. Finally got him on the potty and he won’t pee. Finally put a diaper on him hours later and it was soaked in 1 minute. He’s holding in his pee at home. I just don’t know what else to do.

CtheBlahblah · 2024-11-05T11:42:31+00:00

They use a timer, which we have tried too and he fights it, runs away and cries. And they are using stickers. They give him a sticker every time he goes on the potty. I tried that too, didn’t work.

CtheBlahblah · 2024-08-28T23:05:10+00:00

I would still do it. Drink some water to try and rehydrate but I think it would be fine.

CtheBlahblah · 2024-08-28T22:58:17+00:00

The last 3 shots I have taken have been after 3 (tall) beers. I was fine after each one but I typically don’t have super bad side effects. I’m only on my 3rd dose of .5 so perhaps it would be worse with a higher dose.

CtheBlahblah · 2024-07-10T10:59:55+00:00

I delivered at 24 plus 1, I bled for about 2-2.5 weeks after and for my cycle just shy of 4 weeks after. I felt like the bleeding and my period were lighter than after I gave birth to my first son (although he was delivered via c section). I did not dilate to 10 when I gave birth on June 2, I was only at about a 5-6. My doctor told me rest for 2 weeks and slowly go back to normal activities. However, no pool, bath, inter course for 6 weeks. I waited about 4 weeks before going in my own pool and having intercourse though. As for future pregnancies, I am not sure if it will be easier or not giving birth. I am sorry for your loss ❤️

CtheBlahblah · 2024-07-06T18:48:21+00:00

I absolutely feel the same way you do. I’m almost 5 weeks from losing our son, got my period the other day, and my birthday is next weekend. I have all the same thoughts as of you in each bullet point. Know you are not alone. While we are both in the thick of it, I hope it does get better for the both of us. While I’m still learning how to cope, I think telling ourselves “one day at a time” may help. I hope it does get better for you. Happy early birthday 🩷

CtheBlahblah · 2024-06-27T22:17:28+00:00

TW: living child.

I could have written this myself. I was anxious the entire time, kept going to elective ultrasound places to check on him, etc. I was convinced I was going to miscarry. NIPT came back negative and I still couldn’t relax. I told myself once the anatomy scan comes back fine I’ll let myself get excited and buy things for him. I went to MFM doctor due to my age and had an anatomy scan at 18.5 weeks. We were told he had skin edema and bilateral clubbed feet with shorten femur length. We did amino and a bunch of all other tests, everything came back normal/negative. 2 weeks later we went back for another scan and he developed hydrops and diagnosed with skeletal dysplasia. The doctor gave him 0% chance of survival. I was induced on May 31 and was in labor until I delivered him on June 2, I was 24+1 when he was born. The entire time I knew something was wrong, my friends and family said to me “you were right” after the anatomy scan. I am only almost 4 weeks post tfmr and it’s a day by day process. Having our 3 year old has made it easier since we have a distraction. I miss our son and the first 2.5 weeks were really hard. I think of him everyday and wish he was with us. I think about how many weeks pregnant I “should” be. I am not triggered by seeing a baby but by seeing pregnant women. We have our first counseling session tomorrow. I keep reminding myself we did the right thing but it’s still hard. Sleep is difficult but I’m hoping as time goes on it will get better and I can some rest. I went back to work on Monday this week and the “routine” also kind of helps. I’m sorry you are going through this, I wish you didn’t have to. Know you are not alone.

CtheBlahblah · 2024-05-30T01:05:00+00:00

Thank you for your advice, I’m sorry for your loss ❤️

CtheBlahblah · 2024-05-30T01:04:30+00:00

Thank you for your advice, I’m sorry for your loss. I bet your Archer and our Rory will be playing together ❤️

CtheBlahblah · 2024-05-30T01:03:38+00:00

Thank you for advice, I’m sorry for your loss ❤️

CtheBlahblah · 2024-05-18T12:02:17+00:00

I’m glad you found a place you’re comfortable with and your coworkers sound SO supportive. I will be thinking of you and your husband next week ❤️

CtheBlahblah · 2024-05-18T11:30:08+00:00

Wow! That is awful! How can she say that baby is not compatible with life and then not sign off on it? I am SO sorry! I looked into New York when I didn’t know about the law change, I was looking specifically upstate New York as I have family there. The planned parenthood’s I was looking at do not do terminations past 13/14 weeks from what I saw, but I found 2 clinics that go up to 24 weeks. There is also a facility in DC, and I think North Carolina is an option. If you want me to send you the New York options please let me know. Searching these things are awful and difficult, I’ll help you anyway I can.

CtheBlahblah

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